All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Problem with Forgiveness How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Power of Small Groups 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse How to Survive Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Does Time Heal All Wounds? 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Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 5055 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Can You Give Me Advice to Help Put This to Rest? 2/07/2018 Q&A Should I Reveal My Spouse's Affair? 2/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Talk to Our Teen Children about Sex since They Know about the Affair? 2/07/2018 Q&A How Can I Get My Mate to Understand the Good Times Weren’t a Cover up for the Affair? 2/07/2018 Q&A Is There Something I Should Have Done, or Should Do Now? 2/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Hang On? 2/07/2018 Q&A How Do We Move Forward in Light of Relapse Type Behaviors? 2/07/2018 Q&A How Can We Maintain Safety While Navigating Discovery? 2/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Get to a Place Where I Can Sexually Re-Engage with My Mate? 2/07/2018 Q&A Is There Hope for Recovery If My Mate Doesn’t See the Truth? 2/07/2018 Q&A Is My Sex Drive Normal? 2/07/2018 Q&A Can Hope Keep You Stuck in a Toxic Relationship? 2/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Find Hope and Redemption in Divorce? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Can I Keep Myself Safe in This Situation? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Can We Heal without a Shared History? 1/31/2018 Q&A My Spouse Wants a Revenge Affair, What Do I Do? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Does My Mate Turn Their Life Around? 1/31/2018 Q&A Is Wanting to Have Make-Up Sex after an Intense Fight Normal? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with the Physical Pain of Not Ejaculating? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Do I Support My Mates Grieving Process? 1/31/2018 Q&A I Think I'm Done... 1/31/2018 Q&A How Can I Trust Him Again? 1/31/2018 Q&A Did I Go too Far? 1/31/2018 Q&A Is It Possible to Have Closure and, If So, What Does That Look Like? 1/23/2018 Q&A Should I Be Concerned If My Mate Denies His Feelings? 1/23/2018 Q&A At What Point Is the Marriage So Broken, That There's No Hope of Recovery? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Do We Start over without Reviewing the Past? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Quit Criticizing My Attempts to Become Independent? 1/23/2018 Q&A Is My Mate Safe for Reconciliation? 1/23/2018 Q&A When Does It Get Better? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Do You Reclaim the Losses from the Affair? 1/23/2018 Q&A Should I Separate from My Mate? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Long Does It Take to Come out of Limerence? 1/23/2018 Q&A What Boundaries Need to Be in Place When Traveling? 1/23/2018 Q&A Should I Consider Another Separation? 1/23/2018 Q&A I Feel Wrung out, How Do I Move Forward? 1/23/2018 Q&A Are There Affairs That Aren't Limerent Affairs? 1/23/2018 Q&A If My Mate has Lied about the past, Will They Lie about the Present and Future? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Big of a Part Did Alcohol Play in All of This? 1/23/2018 Q&A Why Is His Perspective of Us and of Love Getting Worse? 1/23/2018 Q&A What Do You Suggest When the Unfaithful Spouse Seems Numb? 1/23/2018 Q&A Are We Generating a Pattern of 'Pretend Normal'? 1/23/2018 Q&A Who Do We Tell about the Affair? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Get over What I Don't Know? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Do You 'Feel' Emotions without Letting Them Control You? 1/22/2018 Q&A Why Do We Choose to Stay with Someone Who Has Wounded Us So Deeply? 1/22/2018 Q&A Why Do I Feel The Way That I Do? 1/22/2018 Q&A How Do Addictions Play into That Sequence of Recovery? 1/22/2018 Q&A Why Does My Mate Still Think about the Affair Partner? 1/22/2018 Q&A Are There Any Tools or Strategies to Help Overcome The ‘Addiction’ of the AP? 1/22/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…525354555657585960…next ›last »
