Q&A How Can My Mate Help Me Overcome the Loss? 3/04/2019
Q&A How Does a Betrayed Spouse Get past the Hurtful Words Said by the Wayward Spouse? 3/04/2019
Q&A How Do I Handle My New Fears as a Result of the Infidelity? 2/20/2019
Q&A How Can I Stop the Lingering Intrusive Thoughts? 2/20/2019
Q&A How Safe It Is for Me to Keep Racking up the Memories of All Accounts? 2/06/2019
Q&A How Do We Overcome Fantasies during Intimacy? 2/06/2019
Q&A How Do We Handle a Fetish That Causes Triggers? 1/23/2019
Q&A How Do I Change My Thinking? 1/23/2019
Q&A What Boundaries Should We Set around Our Emotions? 1/22/2019
Q&A How Do I Help My Mates Triggers? 1/16/2019
Q&A How Do I Quit Worrying about Our Sexual Relationship? 12/12/2018
Q&A How Do I Deal with Continued Fantasy Thinking? 12/12/2018
Q&A Is This Normal or Is This a Sign of Unforgiveness? 12/12/2018
Q&A How Can I Accept His Affection Without It Triggering so Much Pain? 11/28/2018
Q&A How Do I Erase the Intrusive Thoughts? 11/01/2018
Q&A Can I Retrain My Brain to Not Go into Fight or Flight from the Triggers? 11/01/2018
Q&A How Do I Overcome the Physical Aspect of the Affair? 10/23/2018
Q&A Why Am I Still Struggling with Affection and Intimacy? 10/23/2018
Q&A What Can I Do to Strengthen My Self Image? 10/23/2018
Q&A How Do I Combat Visual Triggers? 9/12/2018
Q&A How Can We Stop Nightmares about the Affair? 8/29/2018
Q&A How Can I Stop the Intrusive Thoughts? 8/29/2018
Q&A How Do I Overcome This Vicious Cycle? 8/08/2018
Q&A How Can I Help My Mate with the Challenges of Intrusive Sexual Thoughts? 8/01/2018
Q&A What Do I Do with Triggering Pictures? 7/11/2018
Looking for Safety: Harboring Hope 6/12/2018
Q&A How Do I Manage the Feeling That I Will Never Be Enough? 6/06/2018
Q&A How Can I Minimize Thoughts of the Affair Partner? 5/16/2018
Q&A Why Do I Want to Know More? 5/07/2018
Q&A Is a 'Loss of Self' Specific to Infidelity or Trauma? 5/07/2018
Q&A How Do I Cope When I Feel Inferior to the Affair Partner? 4/11/2018
Q&A What Should I Do If My Mate Is Struggling to Let Go of the Past? 4/11/2018
Q&A Why Can't I Get past the Feeling That He Enjoyed the Sex with the Affair Partner? 4/05/2018
Q&A Why Is Everything Great until I Get Triggered? 3/23/2018
Q&A How Do I Move past What My Mate Said to the Affair Partner? 3/12/2018
Q&A What Questions Can I Ask That Won't Lead to Intrusive Thoughts? 3/12/2018
Q&A Should I Be Concerned about My Unfaithful Mate's Intrusive Thoughts? 3/12/2018
Q&A Can Flooding Present Itself Physically? 3/12/2018
Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate's Intense Emotions? 2/28/2018
Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Go Places Where My Husband Has Taken His AP for Secret Sexual or Relational Contact? 2/14/2018
Q&A What Do I Do with Intense Thoughts during Sexual Interactions? 2/14/2018
Q&A When Will I Feel like a Person of Value Again? 2/14/2018
Q&A How Do I Get over What I Don't Know? 1/23/2018
Q&A How Do You 'Feel' Emotions without Letting Them Control You? 1/22/2018
Q&A How Can I Assure My Wife That She's the One I Want? 1/10/2018
Q&A How Is God Present in Our Struggles? 1/08/2018
Q&A How Can I Get past These Incredibly Painful Feelings? 12/20/2017
Q&A When We're Being Sexual, How Can I Get the Affair Partner out of My Head? 11/28/2017
Q&A If He Had the Affair, Why Do I Feel Like the 'Bad Guy'? 11/10/2017
Q&A If I Decide to Stay, How Do I Trust Again? 11/01/2017
