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The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 343 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What Should I Do If My Mate Is Struggling to Let Go of the Past? 4/11/2018 Q&A Why Can't I Get past the Feeling That He Enjoyed the Sex with the Affair Partner? 4/05/2018 Q&A Why Is Everything Great until I Get Triggered? 3/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Move past What My Mate Said to the Affair Partner? 3/12/2018 Q&A What Questions Can I Ask That Won't Lead to Intrusive Thoughts? 3/12/2018 Q&A Should I Be Concerned about My Unfaithful Mate's Intrusive Thoughts? 3/12/2018 Q&A Can Flooding Present Itself Physically? 3/12/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate's Intense Emotions? 2/28/2018 Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Go Places Where My Husband Has Taken His AP for Secret Sexual or Relational Contact? 2/14/2018 Q&A What Do I Do with Intense Thoughts during Sexual Interactions? 2/14/2018 Q&A When Will I Feel like a Person of Value Again? 2/14/2018 Q&A How Do I Get over What I Don't Know? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Do You 'Feel' Emotions without Letting Them Control You? 1/22/2018 Q&A How Can I Assure My Wife That She's the One I Want? 1/10/2018 Q&A How Is God Present in Our Struggles? 1/08/2018 Q&A How Can I Get past These Incredibly Painful Feelings? 12/20/2017 Q&A When We're Being Sexual, How Can I Get the Affair Partner out of My Head? 11/28/2017 Q&A If He Had the Affair, Why Do I Feel Like the 'Bad Guy'? 11/10/2017 Q&A If I Decide to Stay, How Do I Trust Again? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Can You Create Safety When the Affair Partner Is a Co-Worker? 11/01/2017 Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed Spouse to Crave Intimacy If the Wayward Spouse Is Not Interested? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Do I Deal with Bad Dreams? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Do I Overcome Intrusive Thoughts While Being Intimate? 10/25/2017 Q&A What Do I Need to Know? 10/25/2017 Q&A What Might It Take for My Heart to Stop Aching and Me to Be Truly 'All In'? 10/25/2017 Q&A What Might It Take for My Heart to Stop Aching and Me to Be Truly 'All In'? 10/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Feel Not Just Safe, but Free Again? 10/25/2017 Q&A Should I Ask about the Physical Parts of the Affair? 10/09/2017 Q&A Why Does It Seem That It Is Getting Harder to Overcome the Betrayal? 10/05/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle the Trauma of Infidelity? 9/27/2017 Q&A How Can the Betrayed Handle Triggers during Reconciliation? 9/06/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle These Triggers? 9/06/2017 Q&A How Can I Overcome Intrusive Thoughts While Being Intimate with My Mate? 9/06/2017 Q&A Will EMDR Help with This Notion? 9/06/2017 Q&A What Can I Do to Help Me with My Anxiety about the Affair Partner? 8/10/2017 Q&A Can You Elaborate on What You Mean by the Unfaithful Partner Often Affairs Down? 8/10/2017 Q&A How Do I Manage My Triggers? 7/26/2017 Q&A How Do I Stop Re-Traumatizing Myself? 7/26/2017 Q&A When Will My Husband Visualize Himself with Me Instead of Seeing Me with the AP 7/26/2017 Q&A How Do I Tell Others about Our Recovery and How Do I Handle Being Triggered While Seeing Clients? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle Running into the Affair Partner Now That the Affair Is Over? 7/12/2017 Q&A What Safe Questions Can I Ask to Regain Our Openness but without Causing Me Pain? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle Weddings? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Should I Handle the Anniversary Dates of the Affair? 5/26/2017 Q&A How Can I Share My Intrusive Thoughts without Him Feeling Shame? 5/24/2017 Q&A How Can I Handle Intrusive Thoughts during Sex When I Can't Look at My Mate? 5/17/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate with Emotional Flooding When We're Sexual? 5/17/2017 Q&A How Do We Combat Triggers for Upcoming Events? 5/10/2017 Q&A What Can I Do to Help Reduce the Frequency of Intrusive Imagery? 5/03/2017 Q&A Should I Be Worried That She's Not Sharing Her Intrusive Thoughts with Me? 4/25/2017 Pages« first‹ previous1234567next ›last »
