Q&A Recovery Library Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally. Must Reads more less Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? How Could You? 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Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Power of Small Groups 3934 Resources Type Title Posted Expert Q&A Preview: What Boundaries Can I Put in Place That Don’t Sound like Ultimatums? 5/28/2020 Q&A Please Explain in More Detail What Rick Means by His Suggestion? 5/19/2020 Q&A Can past Depression or PTSD Affect the Ability to Show Empathy? 5/19/2020 Q&A How Do the Processes for Recovery and Relapse Prevention Differ for Sex Addicts? 5/19/2020 Q&A What Is a Healthy Boundary for Alcohol in This Situation? 5/07/2020 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts about Our Disclosure Process? 5/07/2020 Q&A How Do We Heal without Full Disclosure? 5/07/2020 Q&A What If You Feel the Wayward Spouse Is Not Telling the Whole Truth during the Telling of Their Story? 5/07/2020 Q&A Is Ringing in the Ears Normal? 5/07/2020 Q&A Should the Lack of Safety Be a Deal Breaker for Recovery? 5/07/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When My Wife Drinks and Get so Angry? 5/07/2020 Q&A How Can I, as the Wayward Spouse, Help My Wife to Come to Accept Her Reality? 4/30/2020 Q&A What Is the Process for Dealing with Raw Spots? 4/30/2020 Q&A How Do I Salvage a Relationship with Two Best Friends Who Are Distancing Themselves from Me? 4/30/2020 Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Managing My Emotions during Recovery? 4/30/2020 Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Husband from Continuously Shutting Down? 4/30/2020 Q&A Where Is the Empathy for Me? 4/30/2020 Q&A Do I Stay Separated or Divorce If This Never Changes? 4/28/2020 Q&A I Am Trying to Be Safe for My Wife, but How Can I Feel Safe from Her? 4/28/2020 Q&A Will I Ever Feel Special Again? 4/28/2020 Q&A What Are Your Suggestions When It’s Hard to Trust? 4/28/2020 Q&A How Can I Ever Feel Comfortable Being in a Place with My Husband without Searching for Women Whom I Know Fit His Sexual Criteria? 4/28/2020 Q&A Will This Ever Get Better and How Can I Help Myself to Recover This Part of My Marriage? 4/28/2020 Q&A How Do I Make the Hard Decision to Stay or Move on after All These Years? 4/28/2020 Q&A Why Am I Having an Emotional Reaction When My Spouse Shows Interest in Things Besides Recovery? 4/28/2020 Q&A Is It Time for Me to Find My Own Counselor and Begin to Exit This Relationship? 4/28/2020 Q&A How Can I Work to Create an Environment Where My Wayward Spouse Feels Safe? 4/28/2020 Q&A How Do I Maintain Recovery During Times of Crisis? 4/28/2020 Q&A Is It Really Possible for a Man to Fall Back in Love with His Wife If He Was in Love with His Affair Partner? 4/28/2020 Q&A Can I Trust This as Real Change or Just Further Manipulation? 4/28/2020 Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Understand My Concerns? 4/28/2020 Q&A Will We Ever Be Able to Restore Trust in Our Marriage? 4/28/2020 Q&A How Do I Take a Step Forward and Where Do I Go from Here? 4/16/2020 Q&A What Strategies Can I Use for Patience during Recovery? 4/16/2020 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Helping Us Break Contact with the Affair Partner? 4/16/2020 Q&A Are There Questions That Would Make the Empathy Exercise More Productive and Healing? 4/16/2020 Q&A Is It Possible for Something like This to Not Change Us? 4/16/2020 Q&A Can I Truly Be the Changed Person I Feel I Am Now? 4/16/2020 Q&A Should We Continue EMS Online If My Spouse Continues to Blame Me for the Affair? 4/09/2020 Q&A How Do I Know Limerance Isn’t What My Husband Feels for Me? 4/09/2020 Q&A Why Do Wayward Spouses Want to Stay in the Marriage? 4/09/2020 Q&A What Was My Husband Telling Himself When He Told Me All These Lies? 4/09/2020 Q&A How Can We Get Our Needs Met during Recovery? 4/02/2020 Q&A How Do You Deal with Someone Who Lacks Self Awareness? 4/02/2020 Q&A Is It Time for a Separation? 4/02/2020 Q&A What Kind of Affair Did My Husband Have and What Does It Mean for Recovery? 4/02/2020 Q&A Has Sexual Imprinting Led to My Affair? 3/26/2020 Q&A How Do We Stop This Exhausting, Vicious, Cycle? 3/26/2020 Q&A How Can We Reclaim This Intimate Part of Our Sexuality? 3/26/2020 Q&A Can You Help Me Reframe My Thinking? 3/19/2020 Pages« first‹ previous…171819202122232425…next ›last »