Relapse Prevention Relapse is not the end of recovery, nor is it necessarily inevitable, but you will need a plan in place to maintain recovery. Learn to stay the course through the seasons of recovery. Must Reads more less Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal The Power of Small Groups Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How Could You? 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Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 343 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Can I Show My Positive Change in Spite of Relapse? 4/03/2019 Q&A What Steps Should I Take after Relapse? 3/20/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safety in the Workplace? 3/20/2019 Q&A If My Spouse Relapses during EMS Online, Should We Start Over? 3/06/2019 Q&A How Do I Set Safe Boundaries in Our Recovery? 3/04/2019 Q&A How Do I Come Back from a Relapse? 2/06/2019 Q&A Why Does the Affair Partner Continue to Attempt Contact? 1/09/2019 Q&A Is ‘Rubber Necking’ or Blatant Attention to Other Flirtatious Women Part of Infidelity? 12/12/2018 Q&A Should I Tell My Mate That Their Affair Partner Tried to Contact Them? 11/28/2018 Q&A How Do I Respond to Relapse? 11/26/2018 Q&A Is Charm Another Form of Pimping Tenderness? 10/23/2018 Q&A Will Feelings for the Affair Partner Come Back If They Are Not Addressed? 10/17/2018 Q&A Should I Be Okay with My Mates Ex-Spouse Staying in Our Home When Family Comes to Visit? 10/17/2018 Q&A How Can My Husband Protect Himself from Grooming Behaviors? 10/10/2018 Q&A Can I Ever Expect My Mate's Attraction Towards the Affair Partner to End? 10/10/2018 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Contacting the Affair Partner on Behalf of Your Spouse? 9/26/2018 Q&A What Type of Boundaries Can I Set for My Wife Who Has Had an Affair with Co-Worker? 9/20/2018 Q&A Is It Safe for Us to Reconcile? 9/12/2018 Q&A Could This Lack of Safety Be Reason to End Our Relationship? 9/12/2018 Ending an Affair: Letting Go and Moving On 9/12/2018 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Ending the Affair? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Do I Get beyond This? 8/29/2018 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 2 8/29/2018 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 8/23/2018 Ending an Affair: Close the Door 8/15/2018 Q&A Should I Be Concerned about My Mates Behavior Patterns? 8/01/2018 Q&A How Can We Create Safety in Our Situation? 7/11/2018 Q&A How Should I Handle My Husbands Relapse? 6/07/2018 Q&A Can Someone with Self-Awareness and Boundaries Still Relapse? 6/06/2018 Q&A Is My Husband Relapsing? 5/23/2018 Q&A How Can We Protect Ourselves from Relapse? 4/05/2018 Q&A How Can I Prevent Relapse and Be Safe for My Wife? 3/23/2018 Q&A How Should I Handle This Relapse? 3/12/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband’s Addiction to Saving Her? 2/14/2018 Q&A Is It Acceptable Behavior for My Husband to Have a Female Friend? 2/14/2018 Practical Tools for Betrayed Spouses 2/14/2018 Q&A How Do We Move Forward in Light of Relapse Type Behaviors? 2/07/2018 Q&A How Can I Trust Him Again? 1/31/2018 Q&A What Boundaries Need to Be in Place When Traveling? 1/23/2018 Q&A Are We Generating a Pattern of 'Pretend Normal'? 1/23/2018 Q&A Are There Any Tools or Strategies to Help Overcome The ‘Addiction’ of the AP? 1/22/2018 Q&A What Are Signs That Someone Might Relapse? 1/08/2018 Q&A How Can I Know If the Changes Are Genuine? 12/20/2017 Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much in Regards to Safety in Recovery? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Should I Handle Working with My Affair Partner? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Can I Communicate the Importance of Being Real and Authentic? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Do I Know This Hasn't Happened Before? How Can I Know It Won't Happen Again? 11/28/2017 Q&A Is My Spouse Really Trying to Disconnect from the Affair Partner? 11/15/2017 Q&A Is This Normal, or Is My Spouse a Sex Addict? 11/10/2017 Q&A How Can I Be Sure That the Feelings Are Gone? 10/25/2017 Pages« first‹ previous1234567next ›last »