Safety in Recovery

The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do.

1103 Resources
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Video icon Q&A How Do We Set Reasonable Boundaries?
Video icon Q&A How Can My Mate Get the AP to Stop Contact?
Video icon Q&A Should I Prepare to Leave or Take Control of Our Healing?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Feel Not Just Safe, but Free Again?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Do If My Wife Has Totally Lost Trust in Me?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Not Feel Like a Victim?
Video icon Q&A When Will My Mate Feel Safe Again?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do with My Husband's Lack of Remorse?
Video icon Q&A Is My Mates Change of Heart Genuine?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Handle a Secure Workplace?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Work Together after Relapse?
Video icon Q&A Why Doesn't He 'Get It'?
Video icon Q&A Am I Making a Mistake by Staying with Him?
Video icon Q&A Should the Unfaithful Spouse Lead Our Healing?
Video icon Q&A Should I Inform the AP's Spouse about Their Affair?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Wife Get over Her Anger?
Video icon Q&A Should We Be Able to Discuss His Current Activities without a Fight?
Video icon Q&A Should My Husband Be Transparent about His Relationships?
Video icon Q&A What Do You Recommend in My Situation?
Video icon Q&A Will I Get through Post Affair Anger or Is Moving Away the Best Answer?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Regain a Sense of Safety after His Relapse?
Video icon Q&A How Can We De-Escalate Our Toxic Fights?
Video icon Q&A What Should My Next Step Be?
Video icon Q&A Is It Reasonable for Me to Maintain My Boundaries and File for Divorce?
Video icon Q&A What Am I Doing Wrong Here?
Video icon Q&A Do I Keep Moving towards Him in Hopes He Will Leave It All behind, Once and for All?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Do to Help Me with My Anxiety about the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Is Harboring Hope a Step Backwards for Me and My Marriage?
Video icon Q&A Are We Deluded about His Porn and Alcohol Use?
Video icon Q&A Should I Respond to the Affair Partner's Letter to Me?
Video icon Q&A Is It Time to Let Go?
Video icon Q&A What Resources Do You Suggest for Emotional Trauma?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Handle Emotions towards the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Can He Be Safe for Me If He Continues to Use Porn?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Wife’s Anger?
Video icon Q&A Should There Be Closure with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A What Sort of Outcomes Do You See in Situations with Anger Like Ours?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Heal When I Feel He’s Lying and Still Entangled with a Coworker?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Ever Feel Safe with This History of Deceit?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Proceed without Acknowledgement That It Was an Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Tell Others about Our Recovery and How Do I Handle Being Triggered While Seeing Clients?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle Running into the Affair Partner Now That the Affair Is Over?
Video icon Q&A What's Your Take on an Unfaithful Wife Who Still Blames the Marriage for the Affair 1 Year from Discovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Help My Spouse When He Is Drowning in Shame?
Video icon Q&A Should I Not Bring up the Affair Again?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do with a Spouse That Blames Me for the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Am I Being Emotionally Abused since His Affair?
Video icon Q&A What Safe Questions Can I Ask to Regain Our Openness but without Causing Me Pain?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get past the Fears of What He Will Do If I Leave Him?
Video icon Q&A Do We Revert Back to Our Old State Once the Threat Disappears?