Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? The Power of Small Groups Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How to Survive Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? The Problem with Forgiveness 1075 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Can We Get Past This Issue? 4/13/2016 Q&A Can You Help With the Unfaithful's Lack of Empathy? 4/13/2016 Q&A How Can I Help Him Understand My Need? 4/13/2016 Q&A (HH) Any Advice for Our Disclosure Challenges? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) Should I 'Know' Who She is? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) How do You Know if Your Unfaithful Spouse is Taking Responsibility or Still Lying? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) Can You Recommend a Conflict Resolution Plan for Us? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) How Can I Check Into My Spouse's Business Phone? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) Can You Offer Me Any Other Advice? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) How do You Know When to Invite an Unfaithful Spouse Home? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) When Should We Start Couples Counseling? 3/24/2016 Q&A How do I Help My Unfaithful Spouse? 3/21/2016 Q&A How Does He Disconnect From Her and How Do We Reconnect? 3/21/2016 Q&A Has Anyone Experienced This Double Betrayal? 3/21/2016 Q&A How Can They Say They Won't do it Again if They Don't Even Know the Why? 3/15/2016 Q&A Can She Do More for Me? 3/15/2016 Q&A When is it Appropriate to Set Boundaries Confrontationally? 3/01/2016 Q&A Are These Red Flags for Relapse? 3/01/2016 Q&A What is the Right Thing to do in this Relationship? 3/01/2016 Q&A What's in the Best Interest of the Child? 3/01/2016 Q&A Are these Boundaries Reasonable? 2/26/2016 Q&A Should I Confront my Former Best Friend, the Affair Partner? 2/26/2016 Q&A Any Practical Advice for Our Cycle? 2/23/2016 Q&A Is this the AP's Manipulation? 2/09/2016 Q&A Can a Sex Addict With This History be a Danger to Their Own Children? 2/09/2016 Q&A Should we Both Make Changes to be Safe? 2/09/2016 Q&A Would it be Wise to Stop Asking Questions Now? 2/09/2016 Q&A Am I Wrong for Making Him do This? 2/09/2016 Q&A What's Reasonable to Make Me Feel Safe? 2/02/2016 Q&A When Does Transparency Apply or Not Apply? 2/02/2016 Q&A What is Your Opinion of Detachment in Recovery? 2/02/2016 Q&A Can I Feel Safe? 2/02/2016 Q&A How Can I Manage the Relationships With My In-Laws? 1/26/2016 Q&A Is Their Friendship Okay? 1/26/2016 Q&A How Can I Ensure My Safety? 1/21/2016 Q&A What Will Relapse Prevention Look Like For Us? 1/12/2016 Q&A Will the AP Lie? 1/12/2016 Q&A What Are Some Signs of Safety? 1/05/2016 Q&A Can You Give Us Some Hope? 1/05/2016 Q&A He Failed the Polygraph. Now What? 1/05/2016 Q&A Should I Disclose My Affair to My Father? 1/05/2016 Q&A Can You Have Reconciliation Without Forgiveness? 12/23/2015 Q&A Is it Possible to Heal All of This Alone? 12/23/2015 Q&A Is There Hope for Someone With a Lifelong Trail of Adultery? 12/23/2015 Q&A I Don't Know Whether to Stay or Go 12/23/2015 Q&A How Much Work is Necessary? 12/22/2015 Q&A Should I Ask My Husband to Email His Affair Partner to Defend Me? 12/22/2015 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts About Our Current State of Healing? 12/22/2015 Q&A Can There be Safety Without Recovery Work? 12/22/2015 Q&A Do I Just Wait for Limerance to Fade? 12/15/2015 Pages« first‹ previous…141516171819202122next ›last »
