Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less The Problem with Forgiveness Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Power of Small Groups How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How to Survive Infidelity Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 1081 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Can I Feel Safety in an Unsafe Environment? 4/28/2016 Q&A Is My Newfound Independence Bad for Reconciliation? 4/28/2016 Q&A What Should I Be Looking for From My Spouse to Feel Safe? 4/28/2016 Q&A At What Point is Reconciliation Not Possible? 4/26/2016 Q&A What Else Can We do For Support? 4/26/2016 Q&A How Can We Get Past This Issue? 4/13/2016 Q&A Can You Help With the Unfaithful's Lack of Empathy? 4/13/2016 Q&A How Can I Help Him Understand My Need? 4/13/2016 Q&A (HH) Any Advice for Our Disclosure Challenges? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) Should I 'Know' Who She is? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) How do You Know if Your Unfaithful Spouse is Taking Responsibility or Still Lying? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) Can You Recommend a Conflict Resolution Plan for Us? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) How Can I Check Into My Spouse's Business Phone? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) Can You Offer Me Any Other Advice? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) How do You Know When to Invite an Unfaithful Spouse Home? 3/24/2016 Q&A (HH) When Should We Start Couples Counseling? 3/24/2016 Q&A How do I Help My Unfaithful Spouse? 3/21/2016 Q&A How Does He Disconnect From Her and How Do We Reconnect? 3/21/2016 Q&A Has Anyone Experienced This Double Betrayal? 3/21/2016 Q&A How Can They Say They Won't do it Again if They Don't Even Know the Why? 3/15/2016 Q&A Can She Do More for Me? 3/15/2016 Q&A When is it Appropriate to Set Boundaries Confrontationally? 3/01/2016 Q&A Are These Red Flags for Relapse? 3/01/2016 Q&A What is the Right Thing to do in this Relationship? 3/01/2016 Q&A What's in the Best Interest of the Child? 3/01/2016 Q&A Are these Boundaries Reasonable? 2/26/2016 Q&A Should I Confront my Former Best Friend, the Affair Partner? 2/26/2016 Q&A Any Practical Advice for Our Cycle? 2/23/2016 Q&A Is this the AP's Manipulation? 2/09/2016 Q&A Can a Sex Addict With This History be a Danger to Their Own Children? 2/09/2016 Q&A Should we Both Make Changes to be Safe? 2/09/2016 Q&A Would it be Wise to Stop Asking Questions Now? 2/09/2016 Q&A Am I Wrong for Making Him do This? 2/09/2016 Q&A What's Reasonable to Make Me Feel Safe? 2/02/2016 Q&A When Does Transparency Apply or Not Apply? 2/02/2016 Q&A What is Your Opinion of Detachment in Recovery? 2/02/2016 Q&A Can I Feel Safe? 2/02/2016 Q&A How Can I Manage the Relationships With My In-Laws? 1/26/2016 Q&A Is Their Friendship Okay? 1/26/2016 Q&A How Can I Ensure My Safety? 1/21/2016 Q&A What Will Relapse Prevention Look Like For Us? 1/12/2016 Q&A Will the AP Lie? 1/12/2016 Q&A What Are Some Signs of Safety? 1/05/2016 Q&A Can You Give Us Some Hope? 1/05/2016 Q&A He Failed the Polygraph. Now What? 1/05/2016 Q&A Should I Disclose My Affair to My Father? 1/05/2016 Q&A Can You Have Reconciliation Without Forgiveness? 12/23/2015 Q&A Is it Possible to Heal All of This Alone? 12/23/2015 Q&A Is There Hope for Someone With a Lifelong Trail of Adultery? 12/23/2015 Q&A I Don't Know Whether to Stay or Go 12/23/2015 Pages« first‹ previous…141516171819202122next ›last »