Strengthening Marriage Nurture your marriage with positive steps towards maintaining a healthy recovery. Use these articles to find security on your pathway to wholeness. Must Reads more less How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Power of Small Groups Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How to Survive Infidelity Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 The Problem with Forgiveness Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 358 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Can I Love Her Again? 7/19/2016 Q&A How Do We Prepare for Vacation Now? 7/13/2016 Q&A How Do We Bring Purity Back to a Defiled Marital Bed? 7/13/2016 Q&A Shouldn't He Be Wooing Me Back? 7/12/2016 Q&A What is Expected After Grieving the Loss of Love? 7/01/2016 Q&A How do We Talk About it Now? 6/28/2016 Q&A Advice for 'Getting it'? 6/21/2016 Q&A How Do I Convince My Mate That I'm Sincere? 6/14/2016 Q&A How Can I Love Him Again? 6/14/2016 Q&A How Can I Feel Her Love When She Does This? 5/10/2016 Q&A How Can We Overcome Our Tendency to Withdraw? 5/10/2016 Q&A How Can I Get My Spouse to Show Initiative? 5/03/2016 Q&A Is My Newfound Independence Bad for Reconciliation? 4/28/2016 Q&A How do I Celebrate Our Wedding Anniversary Now? 4/26/2016 Q&A (HH) When Should We Start Couples Counseling? 3/24/2016 Q&A Can You Help Simplify our Complicated Idea of Love? 3/01/2016 The Story that Started Affair Recovery 2/24/2016 Q&A Any Practical Advice for Our Cycle? 2/23/2016 Q&A Please Tell Me, What Else Can I Do? 2/16/2016 Q&A To Share or Not to Share Pet Peeves? 2/09/2016 Q&A Should we Discuss Her Resentments Toward me? 2/09/2016 Q&A What is Your Take on This Statement? 2/02/2016 Q&A What is the Red Light, Yellow Light, and Green Light Exercise? 1/26/2016 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts On Renewing of Vows? 1/12/2016 Q&A What's it Going to Take for Him to Get it? 1/12/2016 Q&A How Can We Communicate in Love? 1/05/2016 Q&A Why Do I Still Not Desire Him? 12/23/2015 Q&A How Do We Get Past Such Extreme Deceit? 12/08/2015 Q&A What Are the Best Ways to Show Love in the First 18 Months of Recovery? 11/04/2015 Expert Q&A Preview: How Can We Stay Out of Our Old Ruts? 10/27/2015 Q&A Why Does Our Fresh Start Seem Stale? 10/20/2015 Q&A Did My ADHD Create Vulnerability for My Spouse? 10/20/2015 Find Strength for Your Journey With the Survivors' Blog 10/12/2015 Q&A I Want him to Want me... Will the Feelings Return? 9/17/2015 Q&A How can I Enjoy my Spouse Rather than Please them? 9/17/2015 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 9/03/2015 Q&A How can I get Past a Desire for Revenge? 8/04/2015 Q&A Why Should I Own my Mistakes? 6/26/2015 Q&A How Can I Suggest Help for my Spouse Without Seeming Critical? 6/23/2015 Q&A Should I Separate From my Unfaithful Spouse? 5/19/2015 Q&A Does my Husband Have a Problem he Can't Break? 4/28/2015 Q&A Can You Help me Understand Week 3's Lesson in EMS Online? 4/28/2015 Q&A What Resource Would You Recommend for Non-Infidelity Related Marital Struggles? 4/24/2015 Q&A How Can we Shift Control of the Relationship? 4/24/2015 Q&A Should I Reciprocate Transparency With my Phone? 4/21/2015 Q&A Is it Normal for a Betrayed Spouse to have 180 Degree Turnaround? 4/15/2015 Q&A Is EMS Online the Right Fit for Us? 3/16/2015 Q&A Married for Life: Can I Do Battle of the Mind Before the Sex Talk? 3/10/2015 Therapist Mistakes When Dealing with Infidelity 3/03/2015 Q&A What's the Difference Between Personal Recovery and Marital Recovery? 2/20/2015 Pages« first‹ previous12345678next ›last »