For The Hurt Spouse
There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.
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1278 Resources
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Video Q&A How Long Does it Take to Heal From Infidelity? 5/12/2015
Video Q&A My Spouse Works With Their Affair Partner. Will They Relapse? 5/04/2015
Audio Q&A How Can we Shift Control of the Relationship? 4/24/2015
Audio Q&A Why is it Not a Good Idea to Contact the AP? 4/24/2015
Video Q&A How Can I Deal with the Affair Partner Having Been in my House? 4/21/2015
Video Q&A Should I Reciprocate Transparency With my Phone? 4/21/2015
Video Q&A How Long do I Wait for my Wife to End her Affair? 4/21/2015
Video Q&A How do I Obtain Closure When the AP is his Ex-Wife? 4/21/2015
Video Q&A How can I Gain Perspective of an Addict's Mind? 4/15/2015
Video Q&A Why am I Afraid to Move Forward to a Normal State? 4/15/2015
Video Q&A What is Going Through His Mind? 3/31/2015
Video Q&A What are Your Views on the Affair Partner? 3/31/2015
Video Q&A Is it Normal to Struggle with Liking my Mate? 3/31/2015
Video Q&A How Can I Stop This Obsession? 3/31/2015
Video Q&A Why am I Still Upset? 3/31/2015
Audio Q&A What Can I do Since my Husband is Still in His Affair? 3/20/2015
Audio Q&A How Can I Deal With my Rage? 3/20/2015
Audio Q&A Would more Detail Help me Heal? 3/20/2015
Audio Q&A Should I Cut off All Contact With my Husband? 3/20/2015
Video Q&A How Can a Just God Allow This? How can I Get rid of this Pain? 3/10/2015
Video Q&A My Husband Refuses to Sever Ties with his AP. What do you Suggest I do? 3/10/2015
Video Q&A What is Each Spouse's Role in Handling Triggers? 2/24/2015
Audio Q&A What's the Difference Between Personal Recovery and Marital Recovery? 2/20/2015
Audio Q&A Is my Spouse a Sex Addict? 2/20/2015
Audio Q&A Could my Spouse be Held Back Without Full Disclosure? 2/20/2015
Audio Q&A How can my Husband Consider Himself Single? 2/20/2015
Audio Q&A Should my Spouse Take a Lie Detector? 2/20/2015
Audio Q&A Should my Husband be Doing More? 2/20/2015
Audio Q&A How can I Know if my Husband may be Having Another Affair? 2/20/2015
Audio Q&A What do I do When Intrusive Thoughts Cause me to Pull Away? 2/20/2015
Audio Q&A Can Women Compartmentalize as Men do? 2/20/2015
Video Q&A How can I Feel Safe? 2/20/2015
Video Q&A How do I Get to the Truth? 2/20/2015
Video Q&A How can I Stop Being my Spouse's Accountability Partner? 2/20/2015
Video Q&A Does my Husband have Intimacy Issues? 2/20/2015
Video Q&A Can I Stay With a Sex Addict? 2/10/2015
Video Q&A How am I Supposed to Accept the Idea of Relapse? 2/10/2015
Video Q&A Is it Possible that I Won't Recover? 2/10/2015
Video Q&A Should I Tell the AP's Spouse? 2/10/2015
Video Q&A Is Relapse Inevitable? 2/10/2015
Video Q&A Can We Reclaim our Territory? 1/29/2015
Video Q&A Why Should the Betrayed Spouse do all the Hard Work? 1/29/2015
Audio Q&A Looking for Hope 1/23/2015
Audio Q&A Is it Safe to Stay? 1/23/2015
Audio Q&A How Can I Get Past the Repulsion I have Towards my Spouse? 1/23/2015
Audio Q&A How Can I Help my Pain While my Spouse has Newfound Happiness? 1/23/2015
Audio Q&A Can I Leave Him? 1/23/2015
Audio Q&A How Do I Get Past the AP Being in my House?! 1/23/2015
Audio Q&A My Spouse is Maintaining Contact with his AP. What do I do? 1/23/2015
Audio Q&A How Can I Forgive a 7 Year Affair? 1/23/2015

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