For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair The Power of Small Groups Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision How to Survive Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 1278 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Long Does it Take to Heal From Infidelity? 5/12/2015 Q&A My Spouse Works With Their Affair Partner. Will They Relapse? 5/04/2015 Q&A How Can we Shift Control of the Relationship? 4/24/2015 Q&A Why is it Not a Good Idea to Contact the AP? 4/24/2015 Q&A How Can I Deal with the Affair Partner Having Been in my House? 4/21/2015 Q&A Should I Reciprocate Transparency With my Phone? 4/21/2015 Q&A How Long do I Wait for my Wife to End her Affair? 4/21/2015 Q&A How do I Obtain Closure When the AP is his Ex-Wife? 4/21/2015 Q&A How can I Gain Perspective of an Addict's Mind? 4/15/2015 Q&A Why am I Afraid to Move Forward to a Normal State? 4/15/2015 Q&A What is Going Through His Mind? 3/31/2015 Q&A What are Your Views on the Affair Partner? 3/31/2015 Q&A Is it Normal to Struggle with Liking my Mate? 3/31/2015 Q&A How Can I Stop This Obsession? 3/31/2015 Q&A Why am I Still Upset? 3/31/2015 Q&A What Can I do Since my Husband is Still in His Affair? 3/20/2015 Q&A How Can I Deal With my Rage? 3/20/2015 Q&A Would more Detail Help me Heal? 3/20/2015 Q&A Should I Cut off All Contact With my Husband? 3/20/2015 Q&A How Can a Just God Allow This? How can I Get rid of this Pain? 3/10/2015 Q&A My Husband Refuses to Sever Ties with his AP. What do you Suggest I do? 3/10/2015 Q&A What is Each Spouse's Role in Handling Triggers? 2/24/2015 Q&A What's the Difference Between Personal Recovery and Marital Recovery? 2/20/2015 Q&A Is my Spouse a Sex Addict? 2/20/2015 Q&A Could my Spouse be Held Back Without Full Disclosure? 2/20/2015 Q&A How can my Husband Consider Himself Single? 2/20/2015 Q&A Should my Spouse Take a Lie Detector? 2/20/2015 Q&A Should my Husband be Doing More? 2/20/2015 Q&A How can I Know if my Husband may be Having Another Affair? 2/20/2015 Q&A What do I do When Intrusive Thoughts Cause me to Pull Away? 2/20/2015 Q&A Can Women Compartmentalize as Men do? 2/20/2015 Q&A How can I Feel Safe? 2/20/2015 Q&A How do I Get to the Truth? 2/20/2015 Q&A How can I Stop Being my Spouse's Accountability Partner? 2/20/2015 Q&A Does my Husband have Intimacy Issues? 2/20/2015 Q&A Can I Stay With a Sex Addict? 2/10/2015 Q&A How am I Supposed to Accept the Idea of Relapse? 2/10/2015 Q&A Is it Possible that I Won't Recover? 2/10/2015 Q&A Should I Tell the AP's Spouse? 2/10/2015 Q&A Is Relapse Inevitable? 2/10/2015 Q&A Can We Reclaim our Territory? 1/29/2015 Q&A Why Should the Betrayed Spouse do all the Hard Work? 1/29/2015 Q&A Looking for Hope 1/23/2015 Q&A Is it Safe to Stay? 1/23/2015 Q&A How Can I Get Past the Repulsion I have Towards my Spouse? 1/23/2015 Q&A How Can I Help my Pain While my Spouse has Newfound Happiness? 1/23/2015 Q&A Can I Leave Him? 1/23/2015 Q&A How Do I Get Past the AP Being in my House?! 1/23/2015 Q&A My Spouse is Maintaining Contact with his AP. What do I do? 1/23/2015 Q&A How Can I Forgive a 7 Year Affair? 1/23/2015 Pages« first‹ previous…181920212223242526next ›last »