All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Problem with Forgiveness 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity The Power of Small Groups Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How to Survive Infidelity Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 4838 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What's Important to Process After His Infidelity? 5/24/2017 Q&A What Does His Excuse for the Affairs Truly Mean? 5/24/2017 Q&A What Do You Do When Ambivalence and Limerance Don't Cover It? 5/24/2017 What if my Spouse Doesn’t Remember All the Details? Q&A Video Excerpt from Recovery Library 5/24/2017 Q&A How Can I Handle Intrusive Thoughts during Sex When I Can't Look at My Mate? 5/17/2017 Q&A My Spouse Is Stuck. How Can I Help Her Heal?” 5/17/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate with Emotional Flooding When We're Sexual? 5/17/2017 Q&A Is It Okay for My Mate to Have Contact with My Affair Partner? 5/17/2017 Q&A Why Do I Feel Like I've Regressed to Where I Was 10 Years Ago? 5/17/2017 Q&A How Can We Handle the Embarrassment of People Knowing What My Spouse Did? 5/17/2017 Q&A Should I Have the Same Anger towards My Affair Partner That My Spouse Has? 5/17/2017 Q&A What Do You Mean By, "People with a Strong Moral Compass Are More Likely to Have an Affair"? 5/17/2017 Q&A Where Was My Husband's Self Respect during the Affair? 5/17/2017 Q&A Is It Normal for the Wayward Spouse to Admit Things at D-Day and Then Retract Them? 5/17/2017 Q&A Is It Common for a Couple Not See a Happy past and Want to Give Up? 5/17/2017 Q&A How Do We Move Forward If I Don't Remember 100% of the Affair Details? 5/17/2017 Q&A If He Didn't Love His Affair Partner, Why Was He Planning Their Anniversary? 5/10/2017 Q&A Is It Necessary to Confess My One Night Stand to My Unfaithful Spouse? 5/10/2017 Q&A When Does a Betrayed Spouse Find Sexual Desire for Their Mate Again? 5/10/2017 Q&A Should We Move to Get Away from the Affair Partner? 5/10/2017 Q&A Is It Possible for Someone to Have a Long Term Affair without Emotional Attachment? 5/10/2017 Q&A How Do I Manage Family Introductions with the Child Born from an Affair? 5/10/2017 Q&A How Can I Share My Hurt without Her Feeling Shame? 5/10/2017 Q&A Should I Be Worried about My Spouse Communicating with My Affair Partner's Spouse? 5/10/2017 Q&A After Discovering My Affair My Mate Began a New Relationship. How Does This Work with EMS Online? 5/10/2017 Q&A My Son Discovered My Spouse's Secret App. Now What? 5/10/2017 Q&A How Do I Begin Share the Affair Details with My Mate? 5/10/2017 Q&A How Do We Combat Triggers for Upcoming Events? 5/10/2017 Q&A Is There Hope If the Affair Partner Still Works with My Mate? 5/03/2017 Q&A What Keeps Someone from Cheating? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Long Is Long Enough? 5/03/2017 Q&A Is It Normal for Someone Not to Be Ambivalent? 5/03/2017 Q&A Is It Ok to Withdraw My Commitment to Being Completely Emotionally Honest? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Rekindle the Love for My Mate If They Won't Cooperate? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Do I Move Forward after Betrayal and Divorce? 5/03/2017 Q&A If I Learn There Were More People Than I Initially Thought, Does My Healing Process Begin Again? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Do I Get Rid of My Shame? 5/03/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: How Can I Give My Wife Hope after Betraying Her So Deeply? 5/03/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: Why Did I Do This and How Do I Get out of This Pit? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Do I Achieve Forgiveness? 5/03/2017 Q&A Now That Harboring Hope Is over Do We Tell Our Family or Friends about the Infidelity? 5/03/2017 Q&A What Can I Do to Help Reduce the Frequency of Intrusive Imagery? 5/03/2017 Q&A Is It Possible to Build a New Marriage without Physical Intimacy? 5/03/2017 Q&A Could You Explain What Serial Affairs Means Exactly? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle Triggers When the Affair Partner Is Entangled into Many Aspects of Our Lives? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Do I Get to the Point Where I Can Give the Marriage the Chance to Rekindle the Love? 5/03/2017 Q&A Is There a Point in Staying Married since My Husband Is Visiting His Affair Partner and Their Child? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Work towards Healing If I Don't Feel We Are at Ground Zero? 5/03/2017 Q&A What's Your Advice for Me Now That My Husband Is Working with His Affair Partner Again? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Learn to Cope and Handle the Hurt? 5/03/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…575859606162636465…next ›last »