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Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 4838 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Can There be no Feelings After an 8 Year Affair? 10/18/2016 Q&A Is My Husband Lying or is the Polygraph Inaccurate? 10/18/2016 Q&A How Can I Heal From the Affair in the Midst of Ongoing Trauma? 10/18/2016 Q&A How Can I Show True Empathy for My Wife? 10/18/2016 Q&A What Caused Him to Have an Affair? 10/18/2016 Q&A Is it Worth Taking This Journey of Recovery? 10/18/2016 Q&A His Affair Partner is Toxic. Why Won't He Let Her Go? 10/18/2016 Q&A How do I Stop Being Ambivalent so I can Commit Back to the Marriage? 10/12/2016 Q&A Who Would Want to be Empathetic Toward Their Spouse if They Had an Affair? 10/12/2016 Q&A How can My Unfaithful Mate Help Me When I Flood Emotionally? 10/12/2016 Q&A How do I Forgive a Lifetime of Infidelity? 10/12/2016 Q&A Why do I Break Down When I'm Shown Empathy? 10/12/2016 Q&A Was His Infidelity Based on Me Not Being Who He Wants? 10/12/2016 Q&A Can We Heal from Infidelity if My Mate Isn't Empathetic, Won't Talk About it, and Blows Up When I Bring it Up? 10/11/2016 Q&A How Can I Communicate With My Spouse After Her Affairs? 10/11/2016 Q&A Should Our Son Know the Affair Partner's Name? 10/11/2016 Q&A How did My Cycle of Grace Become My Cycle of Failure? 10/11/2016 Q&A How do We Heal if There was a Child from the Affair? 10/11/2016 Q&A I Stopped the Affair. Will I Cheat Again? 10/11/2016 Q&A Why Isn't She Remorseful After Her Affair? 10/11/2016 Q&A After His Affair, Will I Ever Trust Him Again? 10/11/2016 Q&A If He's Been so Good at Lying, How Can I Trust His Story of the Affair? 10/11/2016 Q&A How Much Should He Tell Me About His Recovery? 10/11/2016 Q&A How do I Keep From Comparing Our Sex Against the Sex He Had with His Affair Partner? 10/11/2016 Q&A If Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater, How do I Feel Safe? 9/28/2016 Q&A How and When do I Process All the Information of the Affairs? 9/28/2016 Q&A Is Recovery from an Affair Possible if My Mate Can't be Empathetic? 9/28/2016 Q&A What Signs do I Look for to Know that My Unfaithful Spouse is in Recovery? 9/28/2016 Q&A After More Trickle Truth, How do I Handle the Fear of More Information? 9/28/2016 Q&A Can We Recover From His Affair? 9/28/2016 Q&A I was Unfaithful. Why do I Feel Betrayed? 9/28/2016 Q&A How do I Feel Safe When My Mate Wants Someone Else? 9/28/2016 Q&A How do I Stop Comparing Myself to the Affair Partner? 9/28/2016 Q&A How Can We Safely be Sexually Intimate Again After the Affair? 9/28/2016 Q&A Should I Stay in Touch With My Spouse While he is With the Affair Partner? 9/28/2016 Q&A Is This a Reasonable Stand for Me to Take with My Unfaithful Spouse? 9/28/2016 Q&A Will My Spouse Come Around or is it Time to End it After the Affair? 9/28/2016 Q&A Can a Person be Addicted to Emotional Affairs? 9/28/2016 Q&A After Decades of Lying, is it Possible to be Truthful? 9/28/2016 Q&A How do I Feel Safe When My Spouse Won't Address the Issues that Allowed the Infidelity? 9/28/2016 Q&A What does Full Disclosure of an Affair Look Like Practically? 9/28/2016 Q&A How Can I Productively Let My Spouse Know Our Current Reality After His Affairs? 9/28/2016 Q&A How do I Learn to Enjoy My Spouse Again After Their Affair? 9/28/2016 Q&A How Can I Stop Thinking About Seeking Justice With the Affair Partners? 9/28/2016 Q&A Can We Heal Without Counseling or Other Work After Their Affair? 9/28/2016 Q&A Can We Reconcile While the Affair Partner is Still in the Picture? 9/28/2016 Q&A What's Appropriate in Terms of Sexual Needs for the Betrayed? 9/28/2016 Q&A After Harboring Hope, What Resources Are Suggested to Continue Healing After Infidelity? 9/28/2016 Q&A Is Our Marriage Too Broken to Fix After Her Multiple Affairs? 9/28/2016 Q&A How Can I Handle My Wife Not Being Intimate After Her Affair? 9/28/2016 Pages« first‹ previous…646566676869707172…next ›last »