All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 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Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 4838 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How do We Heal When We Were Both Unfaithful? 4/21/2015 Q&A How Can I Deal with the Affair Partner Having Been in my House? 4/21/2015 Q&A Should I Reciprocate Transparency With my Phone? 4/21/2015 Q&A How Can I Help my Husband Forgive Himself for Leaving his Affair Partner? 4/21/2015 Q&A Does Giving my Wife Full Disclosure in Therapy Make me Less of a Man? 4/21/2015 Q&A How Long do I Wait for my Wife to End her Affair? 4/21/2015 Q&A How do I Obtain Closure When the AP is his Ex-Wife? 4/21/2015 Q&A Are There any Successful Stories Following Dual Affairs? 4/21/2015 Q&A How Does a Betrayed Spouse Deal with Lying by Omission? 4/15/2015 Q&A How can I Gain Perspective of an Addict's Mind? 4/15/2015 Q&A How can I Believe that my Husband's Affair is Over? 4/15/2015 Q&A Why am I Afraid to Move Forward to a Normal State? 4/15/2015 Q&A My Husband's AP May be Pregnant with his Child. What do I do? 4/15/2015 Q&A What do I do With a New Discovery About my Husband's Behavior? 4/15/2015 Q&A (HFH) Rick, What was Your Personal Experience With Relapse? 4/15/2015 Q&A Am I Overreacting to Setbacks, and is it Too Soon to Move Home? 4/15/2015 Q&A Is it Normal for a Betrayed Spouse to have 180 Degree Turnaround? 4/15/2015 Q&A What's Your Advice on Moving? 3/31/2015 Q&A Stuck!? 3/31/2015 Q&A What is Going Through His Mind? 3/31/2015 Q&A What are Your Views on the Affair Partner? 3/31/2015 Q&A Is it Normal to Struggle with Liking my Mate? 3/31/2015 Q&A How Can I Stop This Obsession? 3/31/2015 Q&A Why am I Still Upset? 3/31/2015 Q&A How do I Know my Husband's True Feelings? 3/20/2015 Q&A What Can I do Since my Husband is Still in His Affair? 3/20/2015 Q&A How Can I Come to Grips that my Husband Thought he was In Love With Someone Else? 3/20/2015 Q&A Should I Give up on my Dishonest Husband? 3/20/2015 Q&A How Can I Deal With my Rage? 3/20/2015 Q&A Am I Someone Who Can't Recover from This? 3/20/2015 Q&A Would more Detail Help me Heal? 3/20/2015 Q&A How can I Get my Husband to Cut off Contact With His AP? 3/20/2015 Q&A Should I Cut off All Contact With my Husband? 3/20/2015 Q&A Is it Just a Leap of Faith? 3/20/2015 Q&A How Long does Limerance Last? 3/20/2015 Q&A Does my Spouse Need Therapy or Divorce? 3/20/2015 Q&A Should I Retake Harboring Hope Since I've Discovered More Information? 3/20/2015 Q&A How can I Create Safety When my Betrayed Mate won't Talk About it? 3/16/2015 Q&A Is it Possible that my Mate has no Feelings for the AP Anymore? 3/16/2015 Q&A Is EMS Online the Right Fit for Us? 3/16/2015 Q&A How Can a Just God Allow This? How can I Get rid of this Pain? 3/10/2015 Q&A Married for Life: Can I Do Battle of the Mind Before the Sex Talk? 3/10/2015 Q&A After 3 Separate Discoveries of Infidelity, How Can I Tell if This is True Change? 3/10/2015 Q&A When is it Time to Stop Giving my Husband Second Chances? 3/10/2015 Q&A My Husband Refuses to Sever Ties with his AP. What do you Suggest I do? 3/10/2015 Therapist Mistakes When Dealing with Infidelity 3/03/2015 Q&A What is Each Spouse's Role in Handling Triggers? 2/24/2015 Q&A How can I Heal the Marriage With an Ambivalent Spouse? 2/20/2015 Q&A What's the Difference Between Personal Recovery and Marital Recovery? 2/20/2015 Q&A Is my Spouse a Sex Addict? 2/20/2015 Pages« first‹ previous…787980818283848586…next ›last »