All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse The Problem with Forgiveness How to Survive Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? The Power of Small Groups The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 4984 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Can You Explain More on Pimping Tenderness? 11/03/2022 Q&A Are These Reoccurring Mental Images of Porn Normal? 11/03/2022 Q&A Is Attraction Actually Objectification? 11/03/2022 Q&A Is There Hope for My Husband in Recovery? 11/03/2022 Q&A Any Advice on How, When & Where It’s Best to Share Our Story? 11/03/2022 The Mystery of Change 11/02/2022 Is Change Really Possible? 10/26/2022 Q&A What Do I Do If I Don’t Believe My Mate Has Been Completely Honest with Their Full Disclosure? 10/13/2022 Q&A Are My Kids Really ‘Love Children’ from My Affairs? 10/13/2022 Q&A How Can the Unfaithful Work through the Deception Regarding the Infidelity? 10/13/2022 Q&A What Kind of Professional Help Should I Seek? 10/13/2022 Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Believe I’m Not Manipulating Him? 10/13/2022 Q&A Will I Be Able to Find My Wife Sexually Attractive Again or Have I Broken My Brain? 10/13/2022 Q&A Am I Struggling Because I Still Feel Unsafe in Recovery? 10/13/2022 The Proper Use of Boundaries - Creating Space for Healing and Change 10/05/2022 Anger: Its 6 Roots 9/28/2022 Q&A Is Listening to Audiobooks That Are Sexually Explicit Considered Porn? 9/13/2022 Q&A How Can an Unfaithful Spouse Develop Emotional Intelligence? 9/13/2022 Q&A What Can We Do Differently? 9/13/2022 Surviving Infidelity: Three Types of Reconciliation 9/07/2022 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When I’m Not Sure He Can Admit to Himself What His Demons Are? 8/26/2022 Q&A Is It Possible for Spouses to Have Emotional Affairs With Same Sex Best Friends? 8/26/2022 Q&A Is This an Appropriate Deal-Breaker? 8/26/2022 Q&A How Do We Heal from Sexual Abuse in Our Marriage? 8/26/2022 Intrusive Thoughts After the Affair: How to Manage Flooding 8/17/2022 Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 8/10/2022 Q&A How Do I Not Feel So Bad About My Own Body? 8/03/2022 Q&A Is It Strange for the Unfaithful to Have Depression? 8/03/2022 Q&A Is This a Healthy Way to Process My Anger? 8/03/2022 Q&A How Do I Deal With My Repulsion by the Idea of Sex Post Betrayal? 8/03/2022 Q&A How Long Are You Suppose to Wait for Unfaithful to Take Responsibility and Have Empathy? 8/03/2022 Q&A Should I Get Breast Implants to Please My Husband? 8/03/2022 Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for Marrying Someone While Choosing to Essentially Re-Marry Him? 8/03/2022 Life After Divorce: How the Unfaithful Sees It 8/03/2022 What It Takes To Survive an Affair: 3 Must Have Components 7/13/2022 Q&A How Do I Keep My Boundaries Strong in a Place of Leadership? 7/07/2022 Forgiveness: A Letter to My Younger Self 7/06/2022 Q&A Are My Expectations to High? What Should He Be Doing to Reinforce That Love and Value of Me? 7/01/2022 Q&A Am I Just Playing the Victim to Reduce My Guilt? 7/01/2022 Q&A What Are the Signs I Should Run and Not Bother Wasting My Time or Emotions on Trying to Make My Marriage Work? 7/01/2022 How Does My Spouse Escape the Neurochemical Process of Limerence? 6/22/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 4 - Not Grieving the Loss 6/15/2022 Q&A How Do My Wife and I Avoid Pretending Normal and Actually Tackle the Issue of Infidelity? 6/14/2022 Q&A How Can I Be Comfortable Being Intimate Again? 6/14/2022 Q&A Can I Truly Trust a Polygraph? 6/14/2022 Q&A Why Does My Mate Still Want Me to Obey Him after His Affair? 6/14/2022 Q&A How Do We Give This a Shot If We Don’t Reengage on Some Level? 6/14/2022 Q&A Could It Be Limerance When the Affair Partner Is an Old Flame? 6/14/2022 Q&A How Do I Respond to the Betrayed’s Triggers When It’s Affecting My Mental Health Now? 6/14/2022 Q&A Am I Depriving Myself of True Healing in the Long Term If We Are Using This Method to Cope? 6/14/2022 Pages« first‹ previous…5678910111213…next ›last »