For The Hurt Spouse

There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.

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Video icon Q&A What Does My Mate Need to Feel Safe?
Video icon Q&A Would It Be worth Shifting the Format of EMS Weekend?
Video icon Q&A Where Do I Go from Here?
Video icon Q&A Did My Choices Contribute to the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible to Love Your Spouse and Have a Long Term Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Manage My Triggers?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop Re-Traumatizing Myself?
Video icon Everyone Thought I was Crazy for Staying: Amanda and Kenneth’s Story
Video icon What if my Spouse Doesn’t Remember All the Details? Q&A Video Excerpt from Recovery Library
Video icon Q&A Will Contacting the Affair Partner Help Me Forgive?
Video icon Surviving Infidelity: Are You Looking for an Explanation?
Video icon Bad Advice for Hurt Spouses
Video icon Q&A How Can I Connect With Others Like Me?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Stop My Negative Thought Pattern?
Video icon What is Healing?
Video icon Q&A Is There Any Hope for Betrayed Men?
Video icon The Story that Started Affair Recovery
Video icon Q&A Which Feelings Should I Listen to?
Video icon Q&A What Does Grieving Look Like?
Video icon Q&A Thanks for the Help, But What About My Betrayed Spouse?
Video icon What’s the Most Effective Role for Me?
Video icon Expert Q&A Preview: How Can We Stay Out of Our Old Ruts?
Video icon Q&A Why Is Infidelity So Traumatic?
Video icon How Can My Unfaithful Wife Take Initiative In Recovery?
Video icon How Can the Betrayer Get Past Guilt When Spouse Gives Constant Criticism?
Video icon Q&A How Long Does My No-sex Agreement With My Unfaithful Wife Need to Last?
Video icon Q&A How Important is a Normal Routine in Recovery?
Audio icon Q&A How can I Tell if I'm Handling this Well?
Video icon Q&A Are there any Markers for Knowing Whether a Betrayed Spouse can Heal?
Video icon Q&A How can I get Past a Desire for Revenge?
Video icon Q&A Can I Heal While Spouse is Active in an Affair?
Text icon The Ashley Madison Hack - Surviving Discovery
Video icon Q&A Am I Being Compared to the Affair Partner?
Text icon Social Shame Survey
Audio icon Q&A Why Should I Own my Mistakes?
Audio icon Q&A Can You Help me Find Reasons to Stay?
Video icon Q&A Is no Sexual Desire Common?
Video icon Q&A What Boundaries are Needed to Keep my Family Safe?
Video icon Q&A Should I Separate From my Unfaithful Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Does the Betrayed Spouse Get Over the Treatment by the Unfaithful While in an Affair?
Video icon Q&A When Can the Betrayed Spouse Move on?
Video icon Q&A Why Start Over With Someone Who Deceived You and Cheated on You?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Set Boundaries While my Spouse is Having an Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Much Can be Shared About the Affair Sex?
Video icon Q&A Should I Publicly Expose my Spouse's Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Why do They Continue to Lie?
Video icon Q&A How Long Does it Take to Heal From Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A My Spouse Works With Their Affair Partner. Will They Relapse?
Audio icon Q&A How Can we Shift Control of the Relationship?
Audio icon Q&A Why is it Not a Good Idea to Contact the AP?