For The Hurt Spouse
There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.
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1218 Resources
Type Title Posted
Audio Q&A How can he Love me and Love her? 12/19/2014
Audio Q&A How do I Get Away From Pretend Normal? 12/19/2014
Audio Q&A How do I Transition from being Married to being Single with a Child? 12/19/2014
Audio Q&A My Husband Isn't Taking Action. Should I Leave? 12/19/2014
Audio Q&A How do I Deal With my Anger and Emotions? 12/16/2014
Audio Q&A How can I Stop the Images from Popping up in my Mind? 12/16/2014
Audio Q&A How Can I Show my Husband he is a Sex Addict? 12/16/2014
Audio Q&A Can I Heal Without Full Disclosure? 12/16/2014
Audio Q&A How far do I Push for the Truth? 12/16/2014
Audio Q&A Is Pornography Okay for Spouses to Watch Together? 12/16/2014
Video Q&A When will my Husband Understand his Feelings so that I can Feel Safe? 12/15/2014
Video Q&A What is the Difference Between being Angry and Assertive? 12/15/2014
Video Q&A Will the Repulsion go Away? 12/15/2014
Video Q&A Can I Recover Without Details? 12/15/2014
Audio Q&A Am I Crazy, or is my Husband Telling the Truth? 12/11/2014
Audio Q&A Am I Over the Top for Feeling this Way? 12/11/2014
Audio Q&A How Can I Calm the Hauntings? 12/11/2014
Audio Q&A How Can I Enjoy an Activity with my Spouse When he did it With his Affair Partner? 12/11/2014
Audio Q&A Is it Common for Unfaithful to Confess Affair but Continue Lying? 12/11/2014
Audio Q&A If my Husband Affaired down, did his Affair Partner? 12/11/2014
Audio Q&A Limerance and Male Compartmentalization 12/11/2014
Audio Q&A My Husband Refuses to get Help and Give me Disclosure 12/11/2014
Audio Q&A What Can I do to Create Empathy Between me and my Spouse? 12/11/2014
Audio Q&A Why is the Unfaithful Blessed While the Betrayed Loses it All? 12/11/2014
Audio Q&A How can I get my Spouse to let me Heal? 12/10/2014
Audio Q&A Timelines for Intense Pain and Forgiveness, How Long Does it Take? 12/10/2014
Audio Q&A Do I Run or Reconcile? 12/10/2014
Audio Q&A Trouble Agreeing on Who to Tell, now What? 12/10/2014
Audio Q&A How do I Accept This as my Life? 12/10/2014
Audio Q&A How can a Betrayed Spouse Become Unfaithful? 12/10/2014
Audio Q&A Which Course Should my Spouse Take? 12/10/2014
Audio Q&A My Husband Continuously "Forgets" 12/10/2014
Audio Q&A How Do I Know if my Spouse is Really Changing or just Pretending? 12/10/2014
Video Q&A How Can I Get Past the Fear of the Future? 12/05/2014
Video Q&A What's the Difference Between a Boundary and an Ultimatum? 12/05/2014
Video Q&A How do I Know if I've Forgiven my Husband? 11/24/2014
Video Q&A Can a Narcissist Change? 11/24/2014
Video Q&A How Can I Get Past the Length of my Husband's Affair? 11/24/2014
Video Q&A When Will This Nightmare End?! 11/24/2014
Video Q&A What do I do With Righteous Indignation? 11/24/2014
Video Q&A What do I do Since my Unfaithful Spouse Will Not be Honest? 11/24/2014
Audio Q&A My Husband's Affair Partner is Blackmailing Us. What do we do? 11/20/2014
Audio Q&A How do you Respond to Righteous Indignation? 11/20/2014
Audio Q&A I Discovered my Husband's Affair After He Passed Away. How do I Heal? 11/20/2014
Video Q&A Is There Danger in Asking my Unfaithful Spouse About His Affair Partner? 11/14/2014
Video Q&A Is There a Step by Step Guide on How to Forgive a Betrayal Such as Mine? 11/14/2014
Video Q&A What is the Best Way to Disclose my Wife's Affair to Our Kid's? 11/14/2014
Audio Q&A Caught Unfaithful Spouse in the Act 11/12/2014
Audio Q&A Consumed With Finding Information 11/12/2014
Audio Q&A Should I Write a Letter to the Affair Partner? 11/12/2014