For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How to Survive Infidelity Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 The Problem with Forgiveness Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair The Power of Small Groups Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 1272 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Long do I Wait for my Wife to End her Affair? 4/21/2015 Q&A How do I Obtain Closure When the AP is his Ex-Wife? 4/21/2015 Q&A How can I Gain Perspective of an Addict's Mind? 4/15/2015 Q&A Why am I Afraid to Move Forward to a Normal State? 4/15/2015 Q&A What is Going Through His Mind? 3/31/2015 Q&A What are Your Views on the Affair Partner? 3/31/2015 Q&A Is it Normal to Struggle with Liking my Mate? 3/31/2015 Q&A How Can I Stop This Obsession? 3/31/2015 Q&A Why am I Still Upset? 3/31/2015 Q&A What Can I do Since my Husband is Still in His Affair? 3/20/2015 Q&A How Can I Deal With my Rage? 3/20/2015 Q&A Would more Detail Help me Heal? 3/20/2015 Q&A Should I Cut off All Contact With my Husband? 3/20/2015 Q&A How Can a Just God Allow This? How can I Get rid of this Pain? 3/10/2015 Q&A My Husband Refuses to Sever Ties with his AP. What do you Suggest I do? 3/10/2015 Q&A What is Each Spouse's Role in Handling Triggers? 2/24/2015 Q&A What's the Difference Between Personal Recovery and Marital Recovery? 2/20/2015 Q&A Is my Spouse a Sex Addict? 2/20/2015 Q&A Could my Spouse be Held Back Without Full Disclosure? 2/20/2015 Q&A How can my Husband Consider Himself Single? 2/20/2015 Q&A Should my Spouse Take a Lie Detector? 2/20/2015 Q&A Should my Husband be Doing More? 2/20/2015 Q&A How can I Know if my Husband may be Having Another Affair? 2/20/2015 Q&A What do I do When Intrusive Thoughts Cause me to Pull Away? 2/20/2015 Q&A Can Women Compartmentalize as Men do? 2/20/2015 Q&A How can I Feel Safe? 2/20/2015 Q&A How do I Get to the Truth? 2/20/2015 Q&A How can I Stop Being my Spouse's Accountability Partner? 2/20/2015 Q&A Does my Husband have Intimacy Issues? 2/20/2015 Q&A Can I Stay With a Sex Addict? 2/10/2015 Q&A How am I Supposed to Accept the Idea of Relapse? 2/10/2015 Q&A Is it Possible that I Won't Recover? 2/10/2015 Q&A Should I Tell the AP's Spouse? 2/10/2015 Q&A Is Relapse Inevitable? 2/10/2015 Q&A Can We Reclaim our Territory? 1/29/2015 Q&A Why Should the Betrayed Spouse do all the Hard Work? 1/29/2015 Q&A Looking for Hope 1/23/2015 Q&A Is it Safe to Stay? 1/23/2015 Q&A How Can I Get Past the Repulsion I have Towards my Spouse? 1/23/2015 Q&A How Can I Help my Pain While my Spouse has Newfound Happiness? 1/23/2015 Q&A Can I Leave Him? 1/23/2015 Q&A How Do I Get Past the AP Being in my House?! 1/23/2015 Q&A My Spouse is Maintaining Contact with his AP. What do I do? 1/23/2015 Q&A How Can I Forgive a 7 Year Affair? 1/23/2015 Q&A How do I Know if I Have Forgiven Enough Times? 1/20/2015 Q&A My Unfaithful Spouse Will Not Share. What do I do? 1/12/2015 Q&A Can a Man Be in Love With Two Women at the Same Time? 1/12/2015 Q&A How do I Start to Trust Again? 1/12/2015 Q&A Can We Recover From This? 1/06/2015 Q&A Why Doesn't my Husband Understand the Damage he is Causing? 1/06/2015 Pages« first‹ previous…181920212223242526next ›last »