For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How to Survive Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Recovery Timeline The Power of Small Groups Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 1185 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Can I Get Past the Fear of the Future? 12/05/2014 Q&A What's the Difference Between a Boundary and an Ultimatum? 12/05/2014 Q&A How do I Know if I've Forgiven my Husband? 11/24/2014 Q&A Can a Narcissist Change? 11/24/2014 Q&A How Can I Get Past the Length of my Husband's Affair? 11/24/2014 Q&A When Will This Nightmare End?! 11/24/2014 Q&A What do I do With Righteous Indignation? 11/24/2014 Q&A What do I do Since my Unfaithful Spouse Will Not be Honest? 11/24/2014 Q&A My Husband's Affair Partner is Blackmailing Us. What do we do? 11/20/2014 Q&A How do you Respond to Righteous Indignation? 11/20/2014 Q&A I Discovered my Husband's Affair After He Passed Away. How do I Heal? 11/20/2014 Q&A Is There Danger in Asking my Unfaithful Spouse About His Affair Partner? 11/14/2014 Q&A Is There a Step by Step Guide on How to Forgive a Betrayal Such as Mine? 11/14/2014 Q&A What is the Best Way to Disclose my Wife's Affair to Our Kid's? 11/14/2014 Q&A Caught Unfaithful Spouse in the Act 11/12/2014 Q&A Consumed With Finding Information 11/12/2014 Q&A Should I Write a Letter to the Affair Partner? 11/12/2014 Q&A Spouse Avoiding Issue and Anger Management 11/12/2014 Q&A My Husband is Having Urges 11/05/2014 Q&A Unfaithful Spouse Continues Contact with Affair Partner: When is Enough, Enough? 11/05/2014 Q&A My Unfaithful Spouse Wants me to Forgive and Forget 11/04/2014 Q&A Intrusive Thoughts Preventing Rest 11/04/2014 Q&A Addiction and Limerance 11/04/2014 Q&A Emotional Affair and Limerance 11/04/2014 Q&A Hurt Spouse Contacting the Affair Partner 11/04/2014 Q&A Intrusive Thoughts and Triggers 11/04/2014 Using the Time Well: Try the First Steps Bootcamp 9/17/2014 I Only Have Eyes for You 8/19/2014 The Seduction of Blame 5/21/2014 How to Not Make Things Worse: Community Poll 11/06/2013 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 10/15/2013 I Want My Life Back 9/18/2013 What We Learned at EMS Weekend 9/04/2013 It Seems I've Missed the Mark 8/13/2013 Grief-Transforming Loss 8/01/2013 Pages« first‹ previous…161718192021222324