For The Hurt Spouse
There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.
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1218 Resources
Type Title Posted
Video Q&A Are There Any Tips on How to Handle Someone Who Is Not Displaying Remorse, Is Full Of Anger and Pain, And Deeply Depressed? 6/16/2021
Video Q&A When Faced with Such a Painful Outcome as This, What Is a Spouse Able to Do Aside from Self-Care and Healing? 6/16/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Get past the Feeling That Our Marriage Is a Lie? 6/16/2021
Video Q&A Did He Only Quit Because He Got Caught? 6/16/2021
Video QQ&A Am I Wrong to Keep Demanding an Explanation about How the Affair Started Instead of Letting It Go? 6/16/2021
Video Q&A Why Would He Hire This Particular Escort? 6/16/2021
Video Q&A I Want Proof That His Affair Partner Has Been Contacted and Told That It Is 100% Over and He Will Never Contact Her Again. How Do I Go About This? 6/16/2021
Video Q&A Why Does My Husband, Who Says He Wants to Reconcile, Keep Bringing up All My Shortcomings? 6/16/2021
Video Q&A How Can I Tell If the Problem Isn’t My Mate, but Me? 6/03/2021
Text Mental Health and Parenting: How to Support Yourself and Your Kids 6/02/2021
Text How Couples Can Promote Good Mental Health During and After the COVID-19 Pandemic 5/26/2021
Video Q&A What Do I Do in the Meantime? 5/25/2021
Video Q&A What Are the Old Behaviors That I Should Seek to Avoid? 5/25/2021
Video Q&A Does Experimental Same Sex Acting Out Require Special Layers or Nuances to the Recovery Process? 5/25/2021
Text Hope Rising Conference 2021 Announcement: Words of Wisdom from Keynote Speaker Shauna Shanks 5/19/2021
Video Q&A How Can We Ever Build Trust? 5/12/2021
Video Q&A Should I Ask My Wife to Take Another Polygraph? 5/12/2021
Video Q&A How on Earth Do I Enforce Boundaries during This Time without Pushing Her Back to the Affair Partner? 4/29/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Decide What to Do? 4/29/2021
Video Q&A What Advice Do You Have For Telling My Spouse That I Know About Their Affair and Who the Affair Partner Is? 4/29/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Get Him to See My Perspective? 4/29/2021
Video Q&A Is It Possible That I’ll Have a Change of Heart Some Time Down the Road? 4/29/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Cast Down My Thoughts of Beating Up My Wife’s Affair Partner? 4/29/2021
Video Q&A Should I Be Alarmed with This Feeling Of Disgust and Will It Ever Go Away? 4/29/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Know He's Really Choosing Me? 4/29/2021
Video Q&A Is This Typical or Is My Husband Emotionally Immature? 4/29/2021
Video Q&A How Should I Answer Him When He Says I Should Forgive Him like the Bible Says to Forgive? 4/29/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Respect My Husband Again or Decide If I Really Want to Stay Knowing We May Never Be Fully Healed? 4/29/2021
Video Q&A Is It Better to Ignore Him When He Is Trying to Reach Out and Connect or Should I Respond in Kind to Try to Maintain the Peace? 4/29/2021
Video Q&A Why Should I Believe My Husband Is Really Committed to Me When He Would Go Out of His Way for the Affair Partner, but Not for Me? 4/29/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Go Back to Normal Sexual Behavior with My Spouse When My Spouse Told Me the Affair Partner Was Better Than Me in Bed and Also Had a Bigger Male Anatomy? 4/29/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Re-Engage with Family, Friends, And Normal Life? 4/29/2021
Video Q&A Does Alcohol Really Play That Much of a Part in Infidelity? 4/29/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Deal with His Inability to Talk about Our Marriage? 4/29/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Navigate Such Extreme Triggers from Discovery? 4/22/2021
Video A Discussion on Anger, Boundaries and Regrets After Infidelity 4/21/2021
Video Q&A How Could My Wife Be Having an Affair When We Were Trying to Get Pregnant? 4/13/2021
Video Q&A It Seems My Husband Is More Worried About His Self-Image Than Actually Healing, What Do I Do? 4/13/2021
Video Q&A Is He ‘Cured’ and Am I Now Safe? 4/13/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Balance Guarding My Heart with Building Intimacy in EMS Online When My Mate Is Still Engaging His Affair Partner? 3/25/2021
Video Q&A Am I Being Manipulated Again or Does He Truly Feel This Way? 3/25/2021
Video A Discussion on Remorse, Trauma and Extreme Suffering 3/24/2021
Video Q&A Am I Wasting My Time Hoping He Can Truly Change? 3/22/2021
Video Q&A When Is It Appropriate to Tell Adult Children about Their Mother's Affair? 3/22/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Handle the Mixed Messages I'm Receiving from My Ex-fiancé? 3/22/2021
Video Q&A Am I Expecting Too Much Too Soon, How Long Does It Take to Start to See That Coming Back? 3/18/2021
Video Q&A Is There Anything I Can Do to Help Him Work through His Struggles - Which in Turn Will Help Our Marriage? 3/18/2021
Video Q&A How Does the Betrayed Spouse Productively Handle Contempt and Disgust? 3/11/2021
Video Q&A Why Does My Wife Not See the Effort and Work It Takes for Me, as the Betrayed, to Stay in the Marriage? 3/11/2021
Video Q&A What Am I Supposed to Do as the Hurt Spouse Trying to Heal from My Husband’s Hurtful Behavior While Now Navigating My Past? 3/11/2021