Q&A How Could He Go from One Affair to Another? 4/08/2022
Q&A How Do I Get Over This Betrayal? 4/06/2022
Q&A How Can I Ever Get Over His Believing He Loved The Affair Partner? 4/06/2022
Q&A As a Betrayed Husband Is It Unrealistic to Want My Wife to Pursue Me Physically? 4/06/2022
Q&A How Do I Get past the Uncontrollable Fear of This Happening Again or That It Is Still Happening? 4/06/2022
Q&A How Do We Continue in This Process When Only One of Us Is Committed? 4/06/2022
Q&A How Much Harder Will Our Recovery Be in This Situation? 3/25/2022
Q&A How Can I Put In the Effort Needed on My End for Intimacy without Getting the Same Failed Result? 3/25/2022
What Is A Forgiveness Letter? 3/16/2022
Q&A How Can I Trust Him Again? 3/10/2022
Q&A If My Spouse Felt So Much Guilt and Shame the First Time, Why Did They Do It Again? 3/10/2022
Q&A How Was He Able to Do a 180 Turn on Discovery? 3/10/2022
Q&A How Do We Create a Shared View of Our Relationship When We Have No Valid Timelines to Reference? 3/10/2022
Q&A Why Was It Easy for Him to Be Nice to Everyone but Me, His Wife? 3/10/2022
Q&A Do You Agree It’s Necessary to Re-Establish No Contact? 2/17/2022
Q&A Why Don’t I Respect My Husband? 2/17/2022
Q&A How Should I Go About Trying to Get to Ground Zero? 2/17/2022
Q&A How Do I Get past the Affair Partner Continually Sending Me Photos and Descriptive Dialog? 2/17/2022
Q&A What Do I Do When My Partner Is in Denial about His Infidelity? 2/17/2022
Q&A Should a Wayward Spouse Be Allowed to Have Friends of the Opposite Gender? 2/17/2022
Q&A How do I Heal? 2/17/2022
Q&A Is He Just Not Interested in Me or Did He Magically Figure Out How to Treat a Woman? 2/17/2022
Q&A When an Intrusive Thought Occurs, How Do I Know the Difference between Suppressing and Ignoring That Thought versus Not Giving It Any Airtime, Capturing It, and Redirecting My Thinking to Something Else? 2/02/2022
Q&A Am I Being Closed Minded? 2/02/2022
Q&A How Should I Deal With Characteristics That I Do Not Possess, Yet Seem to Have Been Sought after by My Spouse in the Affair Partners? 2/02/2022
Q&A What Do I Do to Protect My, and My Children’s, Heart? 2/02/2022
Q&A How Can I Get To a More Balanced Psyche? 2/02/2022
Q&A Is It Wrong to Feel a Sense of a Sexual Revolution, after His Affair? 2/02/2022
Q&A What Do We Do When We Both Cheated, If My Betrayal Was ‘Worse’ than His? 1/18/2022
Q&A Am I Choosing Closeness over Intimacy When I Don’t Let My Mate Know About Intrusive Thoughts When We Are Lovemaking? 1/18/2022
Q&A How Can My Wife Believe That She Fulfilled Her Fantasy If She Also Says That’s Not Who She Truly Is? 1/18/2022
Q&A Is This Finally Enough to Divorce and End Recovery Work? 1/18/2022
Q&A What Type of Recovery Program Does My Husband Need? 1/18/2022
Q&A How Can I Get My Emotionally Unavailable Husband to Walk toward the Storm Instead of Away? 1/18/2022
Q&A Are My Expectations Too High? 12/17/2021
Q&A What Do We Do When the Affair Partner Refuses to Cooperate about the Child? 12/17/2021
Q&A How Can We Set Boundaries If They Keep Being Disregarded and Violated? 12/17/2021
Q&A Should I Change Churches or Should I Just Get Over It since It Was All in His Fantasies? 12/17/2021
Q&A What Should I Do With the Saved Messages between My Husband and His Affair Partners? 12/17/2021
Q&A Why Is He Okay as Long as I Don’t Talk about It? How Can We Get past This If He’s Unwilling to Answer Questions? 12/17/2021
Q&A Should We Abstain from Sex at This Point in Our Recovery? 12/17/2021
Q&A At What Point Is It Unhealthy to Be Avoiding Events Because the Affair Partner May Go or Avoiding Places Because They Once Went There Together? 12/17/2021
Social Shame: Surviving Infidelity Isn’t Enough 12/08/2021
Social Shame: Have You Been Dishonored? 12/01/2021
Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 11/24/2021
Q&A Why Is My Wayward Spouse Playing the Victim in Our Relationship? 11/19/2021
Q&A Can His Expressed Feelings of Love Be True When He Was Deceiving and Betraying Me? 11/19/2021
Q&A How Much Should I Allow My Hurt Spouse to Vent and Control Conversations? 11/19/2021
Q&A What Can I Ask My Spouse to Do That Also Requires the Same Amount of Effort in the Process of Recovery? 11/19/2021
Q&A Should My Unfaithful Spouse Make a Symbolic Sacrifice to Help My Healing? 11/04/2021
