Rebuilding Trust In the short run, transparency can take the place of trust until trust is reestablished. Learn the components of trust, how to function in its absence, and what it takes to reconnect. Must Reads more less The 2 Stages of Pain Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected How do you respond to blackmail? Part II We Started Well, but... The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why Did My Spouse Cheat? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Recovery Timeline Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How to Survive Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 The Problem with Forgiveness 338 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Why Won't My Mate Give Me Full Disclosure? 11/01/2018 Q&A How Can I Fix What I've Done? 10/23/2018 Q&A Is Charm Another Form of Pimping Tenderness? 10/23/2018 Q&A How Can I Change Our Dynamic during Separation? 10/23/2018 Q&A Do I Have Enough Information to Ever Fully Trust Him Again? 10/17/2018 Q&A Can We Recover from His Affair If We Live Ten Hours Apart? 10/17/2018 Q&A Should I Disclose My Revenge Affair to My Mate? 9/26/2018 Q&A What Does Desire for Reconciliation Look Like? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Can I Prove to My Mate I'm Telling the Truth? 8/22/2018 Q&A Do You Think Privacy Has a Place in a Marriage? 8/15/2018 Q&A How Can We Create Safety in Our Situation? 7/11/2018 Q&A How Do I Show My Spouse That I Am Truly Trying to Regain Their Trust? 7/06/2018 Q&A Is This Another Form of Justification and Blame Shifting? 6/27/2018 Q&A Could a Polygraph Help Us Move Forward in Our Healing? 6/27/2018 Q&A My Betrayed Husband Won't Believe Me. How Can We Reach Full Disclosure? 6/08/2018 Q&A Is It Possible That He Is Being Truthful? 6/07/2018 Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust and Become Vulnerable Again? 6/06/2018 Q&A Why Did My Mate Continue to Repeat the Same Patterns with the Affair Partner? 5/21/2018 Q&A Could He Be Telling the Truth? 5/18/2018 Q&A What Should I Do If My Mates Recovery Isn't Consistent? 5/16/2018 Q&A Can a Person Sincerely Do a ‘180’ on the Way He Treats His Wife after an Affair? 5/07/2018 Q&A Short of a Polygraph, Can I Trust That He's Telling Me the Truth? 5/02/2018 Q&A Is My Wife Addicted to Lying? 4/25/2018 Q&A Do You Think My Mate Is Being Honest with Me? 4/25/2018 Q&A When Will I Begin to Love My Mate Again? 4/18/2018 Q&A What Should I Do If My Mate Is Struggling to Let Go of the Past? 4/11/2018 Q&A What Should I Focus On? 4/05/2018 Q&A How Do I Go on without Full Disclosure? 4/05/2018 Q&A How Do I Move Forward When Everything Seems Tainted? 4/05/2018 Q&A What Do You Recommend for the Habitual Liar? 4/05/2018 Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Reconnect with My Mate Again? 3/28/2018 Q&A How Do You Truly Regain Trust? 3/23/2018 Q&A Why Is He Still So Defensive? 3/05/2018 Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to See My Husband the Same Way? 3/05/2018 Q&A Why Can't I Believe My Mate? 3/05/2018 Q&A How Do I Trust That What He Feels for Me Is Real? 2/28/2018 How to Not Make Things Worse: Stonewalling 2/21/2018 Q&A How Do I Overcome the Deceit? 2/14/2018 Q&A How Can I Trust Him Again? 1/31/2018 Q&A How Do We Start over without Reviewing the Past? 1/23/2018 Q&A If My Mate has Lied about the past, Will They Lie about the Present and Future? 1/23/2018 Q&A How Much Disclosure Is Considered 'Full Disclosure'? 1/10/2018 Q&A How Can I Know If the Changes Are Genuine? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Do I Cope with the Deception? 12/20/2017 Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much in Regards to Safety in Recovery? 12/20/2017 Q&A How Should I Handle Working with My Affair Partner? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Can I Communicate the Importance of Being Real and Authentic? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Do I Overcome the Consequences of My Actions? 11/10/2017 Q&A If I Decide to Stay, How Do I Trust Again? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Can You Create Safety When the Affair Partner Is a Co-Worker? 11/01/2017 Pages« first‹ previous1234567next ›last »