Safety in Recovery

The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do.

1103 Resources
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Video icon Q&A Is It Okay to Let the Affair Partner Know That I Forgive Her?
Video icon Q&A Is It Therapeutic for People to Know about My Affair?
Video icon Q&A Where Do I Go from Here?
Video icon Q&A Is Asking Questions Abusive?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Support Him When He Struggles to Be Safe for Us?
Video icon Q&A Will Marriage Therapy Work If the Unfaithful Spouse Doesn't Have to Discuss What Happened?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know If a Counselor Is a Good Fit?
Video icon Q&A What Is a Reasonable Expectation When I Share a Wound with My Mate?
Video icon Q&A Is It Beneficial to Read My Mates Journaling during Hope for Healing?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Explain What the Word 'Safe' Means to Me?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible for Him to Change Enough Where I Feel Can Safe in the Future?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Fear of Contact with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Is This Level of Anger Normal When Recovering from an Affair?
Video icon Q&A He Says I'm 50% Responsible for His Affair. Is That a Sign of Denial?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Move Safely from Here in the Presence of a Restraining Order?
Video icon Q&A Should We Make Amends by Contacting Former Affair Partners and Spouses?
Video icon Q&A What Does Consent to Sex Look Like in Marriage?
Video icon Q&A How Often Do the Betrayed Spouses of the Unfaithful Partners Get Together?
Video icon Q&A What Can We Expect from EMS Online?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know If My Mate Is Really Changing?
Video icon Q&A Why Does He Say He Wants to Save the Marriage?
Video icon Q&A What Should We Discuss When We Check-In with Each Other?
Video icon Q&A Is This All Part of the Process or Is It Something Else?
Video icon Q&A Should We Throw in the Towel before Things Get Worse?
Video icon Q&A What Do We Tell Our Kids regarding the Infidelities?
Video icon Q&A Should I Continue Forward or Wait until He Wants to Recommit to Us?
Video icon Q&A Should I Continue to Verify My Spouse's Honesty?
Video icon Q&A How Long Should I Wait for My Spouse to Overcome Ambivalence and Make a Decision?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Overcome Her Shame?
Video icon Q&A Is My Wife Safe?
Video icon Q&A Can My Deceitful and Unfaithful Spouse Really Change?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Encourage My Spouse to Engage in Healing Conversations?
Video icon Q&A Is It Okay for My Mate to Have Contact with My Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A When Does a Betrayed Spouse Find Sexual Desire for Their Mate Again?
Video icon Q&A Should We Move to Get Away from the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Manage Family Introductions with the Child Born from an Affair?
Video icon Q&A Should I Be Worried about My Spouse Communicating with My Affair Partner's Spouse?
Video icon Q&A After Discovering My Affair My Mate Began a New Relationship. How Does This Work with EMS Online?
Video icon Q&A My Son Discovered My Spouse's Secret App. Now What?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Begin Share the Affair Details with My Mate?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Combat Triggers for Upcoming Events?
Video icon Q&A Is There Hope If the Affair Partner Still Works with My Mate?
Video icon Q&A How Long Is Long Enough?
Video icon Q&A Is It Ok to Withdraw My Commitment to Being Completely Emotionally Honest?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Rekindle the Love for My Mate If They Won't Cooperate?
Video icon Q&A Now That Harboring Hope Is over Do We Tell Our Family or Friends about the Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Do to Help Reduce the Frequency of Intrusive Imagery?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle Triggers When the Affair Partner Is Entangled into Many Aspects of Our Lives?
Video icon Q&A Is There a Point in Staying Married since My Husband Is Visiting His Affair Partner and Their Child?
Video icon Q&A What's Your Advice for Me Now That My Husband Is Working with His Affair Partner Again?