Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How to Survive Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Problem with Forgiveness How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Power of Small Groups How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 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How Does This Work with EMS Online? 5/10/2017 Q&A My Son Discovered My Spouse's Secret App. Now What? 5/10/2017 Q&A How Do I Begin Share the Affair Details with My Mate? 5/10/2017 Q&A How Do We Combat Triggers for Upcoming Events? 5/10/2017 Q&A Is There Hope If the Affair Partner Still Works with My Mate? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Long Is Long Enough? 5/03/2017 Q&A Is It Ok to Withdraw My Commitment to Being Completely Emotionally Honest? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Rekindle the Love for My Mate If They Won't Cooperate? 5/03/2017 Q&A Now That Harboring Hope Is over Do We Tell Our Family or Friends about the Infidelity? 5/03/2017 Q&A What Can I Do to Help Reduce the Frequency of Intrusive Imagery? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle Triggers When the Affair Partner Is Entangled into Many Aspects of Our Lives? 5/03/2017 Q&A Is There a Point in Staying Married since My Husband Is Visiting His Affair Partner and Their Child? 5/03/2017 Q&A What's Your Advice for Me Now That My Husband Is Working with His Affair Partner Again? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Learn to Cope and Handle the Hurt? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can She Be So Kind Now after the Way She Treated Me Just a Year Ago? 5/03/2017 Q&A What Do I Do with This Anger and Loss of Trust We Had Worked Hard to Gain? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Express Hurt and Anger but Not Shame My Spouse? 5/03/2017 Q&A How Can I Possibly Turn around the Tone and Momentum? 5/03/2017 Q&A Where Do I Go from Here? 5/03/2017 Q&A Should My Wife Offer Amends and/or Disclosure to Her Ex Husband? 4/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Trust Someone Who Has Manipulated Me So Much? 4/25/2017 Q&A Is Our Church Safe? 4/25/2017 Q&A Is He Relapsing? 4/25/2017 Q&A Should We Change Churches? 4/25/2017 Q&A He Blames His Addiction on My Lack of Connection and I Blame My Lack of Connection on His Addiction. 4/25/2017 Q&A How Can I Be Assertive without Being Aggressive about His Recovery? 4/25/2017 Q&A How Do We Get through This without Being Together? 4/25/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…8910111213141516…next ›last »
