Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Power of Small Groups Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Problem with Forgiveness How to Survive Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 1042 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A My Unfaithful Spouse Will Not Share. What do I do? 1/12/2015 Q&A Why Doesn't my Husband Understand the Damage he is Causing? 1/06/2015 Q&A Do We Need Marriage as a Foundation? 1/06/2015 Q&A (HFH) How do I Stop Thinking About my Affair Partner? 1/06/2015 Q&A (HFH) I Want to Contact my Affair Partner. How do I Stop Myself? 1/06/2015 Q&A Should I Allow my Husband to Move Back in? 1/06/2015 Q&A How do I Get Away From Pretend Normal? 12/19/2014 Q&A My Husband Isn't Taking Action. Should I Leave? 12/19/2014 Q&A How Can I Show my Husband he is a Sex Addict? 12/16/2014 Q&A Can I Heal Without Full Disclosure? 12/16/2014 Q&A When will my Husband Understand his Feelings so that I can Feel Safe? 12/15/2014 Q&A How Can I Calm the Hauntings? 12/11/2014 Q&A How Can I Enjoy an Activity with my Spouse When he did it With his Affair Partner? 12/11/2014 Q&A Limerance and Male Compartmentalization 12/11/2014 Q&A My Husband Refuses to get Help and Give me Disclosure 12/11/2014 Q&A What Can I do to Create Empathy Between me and my Spouse? 12/11/2014 Q&A Do I Run or Reconcile? 12/10/2014 Q&A Trouble Agreeing on Who to Tell, now What? 12/10/2014 Q&A Should I Share my Temptations and/or Failings with my Spouse? 12/01/2014 Q&A Can a Narcissist Change? 11/24/2014 Q&A How do I Handle my Spouse's Affair Partner Having Explicit Photos of my Spouse? 11/24/2014 Q&A What do I do With Righteous Indignation? 11/24/2014 Q&A What do I do Since my Unfaithful Spouse Will Not be Honest? 11/24/2014 Q&A My Husband's Affair Partner is Blackmailing Us. What do we do? 11/20/2014 Q&A How do you Respond to Righteous Indignation? 11/20/2014 Q&A When Will my Unfaithful Spouse Gain Clarity on his Behaviors? 11/20/2014 Q&A Should I Apologize to my Spouse's Family for my Affair? 11/14/2014 Q&A Is There Danger in Asking my Unfaithful Spouse About His Affair Partner? 11/14/2014 Q&A Should I Write a Letter to the Affair Partner? 11/12/2014 Q&A Spouse Avoiding Issue and Anger Management 11/12/2014 Q&A My Husband is Having Urges 11/05/2014 Q&A Unfaithful Spouse Continues Contact with Affair Partner: When is Enough, Enough? 11/05/2014 Q&A Addiction, Meetings, & Lack of Commitment 11/05/2014 Q&A My Unfaithful Spouse Wants me to Forgive and Forget 11/04/2014 Q&A Intrusive Thoughts Preventing Rest 11/04/2014 Q&A Hurt Spouse Contacting the Affair Partner 11/04/2014 Q&A Intrusive Thoughts and Triggers 11/04/2014 Surviving Infidelity: Poor Recovery Decisions of Unfaithful Spouses - Part 2 10/23/2014 How to Not Make Things Worse: Community Poll 11/06/2013 It Seems I've Missed the Mark 8/13/2013 Achieving Real Change, part 4 1/01/2013 How to Change, Part Three 12/18/2012 Pages« first‹ previous…131415161718192021
