Safety in Recovery
The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do.
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1046 Resources
Type Title Posted
Audio Q&A My Spouse is Maintaining Contact with his AP. What do I do? 1/23/2015
Video Q&A (HFH) Am I a Sex Addict? 1/20/2015
Video Q&A How do I Know if I Have Forgiven Enough Times? 1/20/2015
Video Q&A My Unfaithful Spouse Will Not Share. What do I do? 1/12/2015
Video Q&A Why Doesn't my Husband Understand the Damage he is Causing? 1/06/2015
Video Q&A Do We Need Marriage as a Foundation? 1/06/2015
Video Q&A (HFH) How do I Stop Thinking About my Affair Partner? 1/06/2015
Video Q&A (HFH) I Want to Contact my Affair Partner. How do I Stop Myself? 1/06/2015
Video Q&A Should I Allow my Husband to Move Back in? 1/06/2015
Audio Q&A How do I Get Away From Pretend Normal? 12/19/2014
Audio Q&A My Husband Isn't Taking Action. Should I Leave? 12/19/2014
Audio Q&A How Can I Show my Husband he is a Sex Addict? 12/16/2014
Audio Q&A Can I Heal Without Full Disclosure? 12/16/2014
Video Q&A When will my Husband Understand his Feelings so that I can Feel Safe? 12/15/2014
Audio Q&A How Can I Calm the Hauntings? 12/11/2014
Audio Q&A How Can I Enjoy an Activity with my Spouse When he did it With his Affair Partner? 12/11/2014
Audio Q&A Limerance and Male Compartmentalization 12/11/2014
Audio Q&A My Husband Refuses to get Help and Give me Disclosure 12/11/2014
Audio Q&A What Can I do to Create Empathy Between me and my Spouse? 12/11/2014
Audio Q&A Do I Run or Reconcile? 12/10/2014
Audio Q&A Trouble Agreeing on Who to Tell, now What? 12/10/2014
Video Q&A Should I Share my Temptations and/or Failings with my Spouse? 12/01/2014
Video Q&A Can a Narcissist Change? 11/24/2014
Video Q&A How do I Handle my Spouse's Affair Partner Having Explicit Photos of my Spouse? 11/24/2014
Video Q&A What do I do With Righteous Indignation? 11/24/2014
Video Q&A What do I do Since my Unfaithful Spouse Will Not be Honest? 11/24/2014
Audio Q&A My Husband's Affair Partner is Blackmailing Us. What do we do? 11/20/2014
Audio Q&A How do you Respond to Righteous Indignation? 11/20/2014
Audio Q&A When Will my Unfaithful Spouse Gain Clarity on his Behaviors? 11/20/2014
Video Q&A Should I Apologize to my Spouse's Family for my Affair? 11/14/2014
Video Q&A Is There Danger in Asking my Unfaithful Spouse About His Affair Partner? 11/14/2014
Audio Q&A Should I Write a Letter to the Affair Partner? 11/12/2014
Audio Q&A Spouse Avoiding Issue and Anger Management 11/12/2014
Video Q&A My Husband is Having Urges 11/05/2014
Video Q&A Unfaithful Spouse Continues Contact with Affair Partner: When is Enough, Enough? 11/05/2014
Video Q&A Addiction, Meetings, & Lack of Commitment 11/05/2014
Audio Q&A My Unfaithful Spouse Wants me to Forgive and Forget 11/04/2014
Audio Q&A Intrusive Thoughts Preventing Rest 11/04/2014
Audio Q&A Hurt Spouse Contacting the Affair Partner 11/04/2014
Audio Q&A Intrusive Thoughts and Triggers 11/04/2014
Text Surviving Infidelity: Poor Recovery Decisions of Unfaithful Spouses - Part 2 10/23/2014
Video Help With Incessant Triggers and Reminders 5/22/2014
Text How to Not Make Things Worse: Community Poll 11/06/2013
Text It Seems I've Missed the Mark 8/13/2013
Text Achieving Real Change, part 4 1/01/2013
Text How to Change, Part Three 12/18/2012