Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 The Problem with Forgiveness How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Power of Small Groups Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 1075 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Is it Just a Leap of Faith? 3/20/2015 Q&A How Long does Limerance Last? 3/20/2015 Q&A Does my Spouse Need Therapy or Divorce? 3/20/2015 Q&A Should I Retake Harboring Hope Since I've Discovered More Information? 3/20/2015 Q&A Is EMS Online the Right Fit for Us? 3/16/2015 Q&A How Can a Just God Allow This? How can I Get rid of this Pain? 3/10/2015 Q&A After 3 Separate Discoveries of Infidelity, How Can I Tell if This is True Change? 3/10/2015 Q&A When is it Time to Stop Giving my Husband Second Chances? 3/10/2015 Q&A My Husband Refuses to Sever Ties with his AP. What do you Suggest I do? 3/10/2015 Q&A What is Each Spouse's Role in Handling Triggers? 2/24/2015 Q&A Is my Spouse a Sex Addict? 2/20/2015 Q&A How can my Husband Consider Himself Single? 2/20/2015 Q&A Should my Spouse Take a Lie Detector? 2/20/2015 Q&A How can I Know if my Husband may be Having Another Affair? 2/20/2015 Q&A How can I Feel Safe? 2/20/2015 Q&A How can I Stop Being my Spouse's Accountability Partner? 2/20/2015 Q&A Can I Stay With a Sex Addict? 2/10/2015 Q&A How am I Supposed to Accept the Idea of Relapse? 2/10/2015 Q&A Is it Possible that I Won't Recover? 2/10/2015 Q&A Should I Tell the AP's Spouse? 2/10/2015 Q&A Is Relapse Inevitable? 2/10/2015 Q&A How can we Agree on Financial Safety? 2/10/2015 Q&A When is Physical Intimacy Ok? 2/10/2015 Q&A (HFH) How do I Stop Lying to my Spouse and Myself? 1/29/2015 Q&A How Can I Be Safe With my Daughter Contacting my Husbands AP? 1/29/2015 Q&A Looking for Hope 1/23/2015 Q&A Is it Safe to Stay? 1/23/2015 Q&A How Can I Get Past the Repulsion I have Towards my Spouse? 1/23/2015 Q&A Can I Leave Him? 1/23/2015 Q&A How do we Get to Ground Zero and end this Cycle? 1/23/2015 Q&A My Spouse is Maintaining Contact with his AP. What do I do? 1/23/2015 Q&A (HFH) Am I a Sex Addict? 1/20/2015 Q&A How do I Know if I Have Forgiven Enough Times? 1/20/2015 Q&A My Unfaithful Spouse Will Not Share. What do I do? 1/12/2015 Q&A Why Doesn't my Husband Understand the Damage he is Causing? 1/06/2015 Q&A Do We Need Marriage as a Foundation? 1/06/2015 Q&A (HFH) How do I Stop Thinking About my Affair Partner? 1/06/2015 Q&A (HFH) I Want to Contact my Affair Partner. How do I Stop Myself? 1/06/2015 Q&A Should I Allow my Husband to Move Back in? 1/06/2015 Q&A How do I Get Away From Pretend Normal? 12/19/2014 Q&A My Husband Isn't Taking Action. Should I Leave? 12/19/2014 Q&A How Can I Show my Husband he is a Sex Addict? 12/16/2014 Q&A Can I Heal Without Full Disclosure? 12/16/2014 Q&A When will my Husband Understand his Feelings so that I can Feel Safe? 12/15/2014 Q&A How Can I Calm the Hauntings? 12/11/2014 Q&A How Can I Enjoy an Activity with my Spouse When he did it With his Affair Partner? 12/11/2014 Q&A Limerance and Male Compartmentalization 12/11/2014 Q&A My Husband Refuses to get Help and Give me Disclosure 12/11/2014 Q&A What Can I do to Create Empathy Between me and my Spouse? 12/11/2014 Q&A Do I Run or Reconcile? 12/10/2014 Pages« first‹ previous…141516171819202122next ›last »