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Why do I Feel so Empty? 1/11/2017 Q&A Why Did I Have an Affair? Was I My True Self During My Affair? 1/11/2017 Q&A When is the Best Time to Bring up Hurt Feelings? 12/20/2016 Q&A I want Recovery to Work, but Things Aren't Changing. Will it Get Better? 12/16/2016 Q&A Are these Requests Appropriate for me to Ask for? 12/16/2016 Q&A How do I Handle my Wife's Lack of Empathy? 12/16/2016 Q&A Did we Miss the Point of the 20 Cost Exercise? 12/16/2016 Q&A Is this as Good as it Gets in Our Recovery? 12/07/2016 Q&A How do I Deal With 'His and Hers' Affairs? 11/30/2016 Q&A Why Can't He, and Will He Ever, Understand My Pain? 11/30/2016 Q&A How Can We Get Past Our Difference of Opinion With Reconciliation and Forgiveness? 11/23/2016 Q&A Since the Affair Story Still Hurts Him, Should We Let Sleeping Dogs Lie? 11/23/2016 Q&A How am I Supposed to be the Best Husband I Can be After She Cheated? 11/23/2016 Bad Advice for Hurt Spouses 11/16/2016 Q&A Should I Just Let Him Divorce Me after His Affairs? 11/02/2016 Q&Aqw How can the Unfaithful's Claimed Intentions be so Drastically Different from their Actions? 10/24/2016 Q&A What are Scientific Psychological Side Effects from this sort of Marital Betrayal? 10/24/2016 Q&A How do I Stop Being Ambivalent so I can Commit Back to the Marriage? 10/12/2016 Q&A Who Would Want to be Empathetic Toward Their Spouse if They Had an Affair? 10/12/2016 Q&A How can My Unfaithful Mate Help Me When I Flood Emotionally? 10/12/2016 Q&A Why do I Break Down When I'm Shown Empathy? 10/12/2016 Q&A How Can I Communicate With My Spouse After Her Affairs? 10/11/2016 Q&A Why Isn't She Remorseful After Her Affair? 10/11/2016 Q&A Is Recovery from an Affair Possible if My Mate Can't be Empathetic? 9/28/2016 Q&A I was Unfaithful. Why do I Feel Betrayed? 9/28/2016 Q&A How Can I Productively Let My Spouse Know Our Current Reality After His Affairs? 9/28/2016 Q&A I Feel Unloved, He Feels Unappreciated, How Can We Heal? 9/14/2016 Pages« first‹ previous123456next ›last »