All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? The Problem with Forgiveness Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair The Power of Small Groups How to Survive Infidelity Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 5017 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How can I Enjoy my Spouse Rather than Please them? 9/17/2015 Surviving Infidelity: Three Types of Reconciliation 9/17/2015 Q&A Is the Uneasiness Normal? 9/01/2015 Q&A Why Doesn't he Talk About it? 9/01/2015 Q&A What's Bare Minimum Relapse Prevention? 9/01/2015 Q&A Why Doesn't he Want it? 9/01/2015 Q&A What are the Right Questions? 9/01/2015 Q&A Is this because of his Father? 9/01/2015 Q&A How can I Accept and Forgive when I Don't Understand? 8/27/2015 Q&A Are these Ground Rules Sufficient to be Safe from the Affair Partner? 8/27/2015 Q&A How can I Tell if I'm Handling this Well? 8/27/2015 Q&A Why are Some Cheaters Sorry and Others aren't? 8/27/2015 Q&A Would it Help my Mate to Understand my Rationalizations? 8/25/2015 Q&A What Help is out there for Someone Getting Divorced? 8/25/2015 Q&A Are there any Markers for Knowing Whether a Betrayed Spouse can Heal? 8/25/2015 Q&A Can I Tell the Affair Partner she's Not Loved? 8/25/2015 Q&A What can I do to Get My Spouse to Give us More Time? 8/25/2015 Q&A Should I Run Away? 8/25/2015 Q&A How do Different Grieving Processes Affect Affair Recovery? 8/25/2015 Q&A How do I Deal with this Horrific Truth? 8/25/2015 Q&A Is there any Hope for our Marriage? 8/18/2015 Q&A When do you Know to Stay or Go? 8/18/2015 Q&A Would Harboring Hope or EMDR be More Helpful? 8/18/2015 Q&A Do you Ever Recommend Separating? 8/18/2015 Q&A Where do I Start After Lying for so Long? 8/18/2015 Q&A How can I Love her After what She's Done? 8/18/2015 Q&A Should we let the AP's Know that it's Over? 8/18/2015 Q&A How do we Once Again Light the Fire of Desire? 8/18/2015 Q&A How Should we Disclose to our Teenager? 8/18/2015 Q&A How can I Compete with the Affair Partner? 8/18/2015 Q&A At what Point do I Move on? 8/11/2015 Q&A What is he Addicted to? 8/11/2015 Q&A How do I Respond to Continual Lies? 8/11/2015 Q&A How Does the Betrayed Spouse Deal with the Shame of the Unfaithful? 8/11/2015 Q&A Why Doesn't he Express his Love? 8/11/2015 Q&A Should I Just Divorce and Leave Him? 8/11/2015 Q&A How Much do I Need to Know? 8/11/2015 Q&A Will he Ever Get Over her? 8/04/2015 Q&A How can I get Past a Desire for Revenge? 8/04/2015 Q&A Can I Heal While Spouse is Active in an Affair? 8/04/2015 Q&A Does Chronic Pain Increase Vulnerability to Have an Affair? 8/04/2015 Q&A What are Specific Examples of Vertical Forgiveness? 8/04/2015 Q&A What Next? 7/31/2015 Q&A Does Chronic Pain Contribute to Affairs? 7/31/2015 Q&A What Affects do Polygraphs have on Recovery? 7/31/2015 Q&A How do I Help my Teenage Children Cope? 7/31/2015 Q&A Was it a Desire to be Desired? 7/31/2015 Q&A How do I Come to Terms with what they Did? 7/31/2015 Q&A Should I Secretly Install Spyware on my Spouse's Phone? 7/31/2015 The Ashley Madison Hack - Surviving Discovery 7/29/2015 Pages« first‹ previous…798081828384858687…next ›last »