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Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 917 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A When Will the Constant Feeling That Another Betrayal Is Right around the Corner Fade? 5/24/2022 Q&A How Can I Channel My Own Genuine Positivity and Stop Being Concerned or Insulted by His Behaviors or Attitudes? 5/24/2022 Tony & Debbie Mentor Video 5/01/2022 Q&A How Do I Continue Supporting Her While Taking Care of My Heart and Mental Health? 4/20/2022 Q&A How Do I Let Myself Be Happy Again? 4/08/2022 Q&A How Do I Get Over This Betrayal? 4/06/2022 Q&A How Do I Get past the Uncontrollable Fear of This Happening Again or That It Is Still Happening? 4/06/2022 What Is A Forgiveness Letter? 3/16/2022 Announcing NEW Infidelity Video Blog: Songs for the Soul 1/26/2022 Q&A How Can I Get My Emotionally Unavailable Husband to Walk toward the Storm Instead of Away? 1/18/2022 Q&A Can His Expressed Feelings of Love Be True When He Was Deceiving and Betraying Me? 11/19/2021 Q&A My Husband Is Still Pursuing His Affair Partner after 13 Months and Is Refusing Any Work. Is There Hope? 8/17/2021 Q&A How Do I Feel Good about Myself Again after What Has Happened? 7/22/2021 Q&A Can You Help Me Put a Little Light On Where I Am Stuck? 7/22/2021 Q&A How Do I Handle My Healing and My Husband? 7/13/2021 Q&A Will My Husband Love Me Again, the Way He Used To? 7/08/2021 Q&A Can I Hope for a Better Future? 6/16/2021 Q&A When Faced with Such a Painful Outcome as This, What Is a Spouse Able to Do Aside from Self-Care and Healing? 6/16/2021 Q&A How Do I Get past the Feeling That Our Marriage Is a Lie? 6/16/2021 Q&A Are My Good Acts Just More Manipulation? 6/03/2021 Hope Rising Conference 2021 Announcement: Words of Wisdom from Keynote Speaker Shauna Shanks 5/19/2021 Q&A Is It Possible That I’ll Have a Change of Heart Some Time Down the Road? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Do I Respect My Husband Again or Decide If I Really Want to Stay Knowing We May Never Be Fully Healed? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Do I Re-Engage with Family, Friends, And Normal Life? 4/29/2021 Q&A Should I Continue In My Own Healing In the Hopes She Will Rejoin? 4/13/2021 Q&A What Would You Recommend for Someone Who Feels like Their Main Support Group Is Coming to a Close When the Process Is Just Beginning? 3/22/2021 Q&A Am I Wasting My Time Hoping He Can Truly Change? 3/22/2021 Q&A As the Wayward Spouse Will I Ever Fall Back in Love with My Husband? 3/09/2021 Q&A How Do We Move on with Long Standing Resentments? 3/09/2021 Q&A Will I Ever Love and Desire My Husband Again? 3/04/2021 Q&A Could My Husband Be Done with Recovery? 3/04/2021 Q&A How Soon Is Too Soon to Let Yourself Forgive, Hope, and Rebuild? 1/25/2021 Q&A How Do I Get to the Point That I Feel Good about the Way That I Look? 1/20/2021 Q&A Are My Husband and I Trying to Do the Impossible? 1/20/2021 Q&A Can We Heal Even When He Still Can’t Give Me a Full Account of His Affair? 1/20/2021 Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Reconcile with My Husband and Be Close to My Sisters? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Do I Get My Memories Pure and Special Again? 1/14/2021 Q&A Shouldn’t We Be a Little Better by Now? 1/14/2021 Q&A Should I Even Consider Staying or Working on the Marriage? 1/07/2021 Q&A Is There Any Chance of a Future for Us Building a New Life Together? 12/17/2020 Q&A Is My Wife's On-Going Ambivalence Towards Our Relationship the Best That I Can Hope For? 12/17/2020 Q&A How Do You Know When Too Much Damage Has Occurred to Overcome? 12/09/2020 The Anorexic Marriage: A Void of Intimacy 12/02/2020 Q&A Is Reconciliation Possible? 12/01/2020 Q&A How Much Pain Can One Take before They Break? 11/24/2020 Q&A Could You Help? 11/18/2020 Q&A How Do I Address My Overwhelming Fear? 11/12/2020 Q&A Is It Ever Just Too Much to Get Past? 10/22/2020 Q&A Is There Any Hope for Recovery in Our Situation? 10/22/2020 Q&A How Can I Take Control of My Life So That I Can Forgive and Heal? 10/22/2020 Pages« first‹ previous123456789…next ›last »