All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Problem with Forgiveness Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair The Power of Small Groups Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 5004 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Communicate the Importance of My Spouse's Recovery? 10/20/2015 Q&A When Will I Receive the Love I'm Sending? 10/20/2015 Q&A What Consequences Should Follow Broken Boundaries? 10/20/2015 Q&A Is it Safe For Me to Stay? 10/20/2015 Find Strength for Your Journey With the Survivors' Blog 10/12/2015 Q&A How Can We Heal When Nothing is Being Addressed? 10/06/2015 Q&A What Do I Do With the Pain? 10/06/2015 Q&A Why Even Justify This? 10/06/2015 Q&A How Do I Deal With His Failure and My Detachment? 10/06/2015 Q&A Betrayal Begins With You? 10/06/2015 Q&A What's The Difference Between Healthy Emotion and Emotional Flooding? 10/01/2015 Q&A Can One Reconnect While Not Being Truly Intimate? 10/01/2015 Q&A Is it Harmful To Push Through Sexual Intimacy? 10/01/2015 , Is a Marriage Retreat Worth It? Interview with a Pioneer in the Field 9/30/2015 , Is a Marriage Retreat Worth It? Interview with a Pioneer in the Field 9/30/2015 Q&A Are My Questions Unfair? 9/28/2015 Q&A How Important is a Normal Routine in Recovery? 9/28/2015 Q&A Normal People do Not do This! 9/22/2015 Q&A How do I Handle my Triggers? 9/22/2015 Q&A How do you Know if Someone is a Sex Addict? 9/22/2015 Q&A Why His Ex? 9/22/2015 Q&A How do I Transform my Pain? 9/22/2015 Q&A Who Can I Talk to? 9/22/2015 Q&A What About Emotional and Verbal Abuse in Recovery? 9/22/2015 Q&A I Love Her, Why Did I Cheat on Her? 9/22/2015 Q&A Is This a Deal Breaker? 9/22/2015 Q&A How can I Feel Safe when my Mate's Affair was with their Ex? 9/17/2015 Q&A Why did he Marry me when he was with her? 9/17/2015 Q&A Why Wouldn't he End it? 9/17/2015 Q&A I Want him to Want me... Will the Feelings Return? 9/17/2015 Q&A Is it Possible to Recover if your Spouse is Still Deceitful? 9/17/2015 Q&A Is it More Difficult for Men to Recover from Betrayal? 9/17/2015 Q&A Can I Survive my Husband's Limerance? 9/17/2015 Q&A What Boundaries should I Set Before my Mate Comes Home? 9/17/2015 Q&A Do People Really Get Past the Trauma and Triggers? 9/17/2015 Q&A What 12-Step Group Should I Attend? 9/17/2015 Q&A How can I Enjoy my Spouse Rather than Please them? 9/17/2015 Q&A Is the Uneasiness Normal? 9/01/2015 Q&A Why Doesn't he Talk About it? 9/01/2015 Q&A What's Bare Minimum Relapse Prevention? 9/01/2015 Q&A Why Doesn't he Want it? 9/01/2015 Q&A What are the Right Questions? 9/01/2015 Q&A Is this because of his Father? 9/01/2015 Q&A How can I Accept and Forgive when I Don't Understand? 8/27/2015 Q&A Are these Ground Rules Sufficient to be Safe from the Affair Partner? 8/27/2015 Q&A How can I Tell if I'm Handling this Well? 8/27/2015 Q&A Why are Some Cheaters Sorry and Others aren't? 8/27/2015 Q&A Would it Help my Mate to Understand my Rationalizations? 8/25/2015 Q&A What Help is out there for Someone Getting Divorced? 8/25/2015 Q&A Are there any Markers for Knowing Whether a Betrayed Spouse can Heal? 8/25/2015 Pages« first‹ previous…787980818283848586…next ›last »
