All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less How to Survive Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 The Problem with Forgiveness Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair The Power of Small Groups Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 5004 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What Will Relapse Prevention Look Like For Us? 1/12/2016 Q&A Will Another Course Help Us Reconnect? 1/12/2016 Q&A Which Feelings Should I Listen to? 1/12/2016 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts On Renewing of Vows? 1/12/2016 Q&A What's it Going to Take for Him to Get it? 1/12/2016 Q&A Do You Recommend a Regular Polygraph in Recovery? 1/12/2016 Q&A Will the AP Lie? 1/12/2016 Q&A What Can We Do About the Triggers? 1/12/2016 Q&A Will He Be Able to Stop the Memories? 1/12/2016 Q&A What Are Some Signs of Safety? 1/05/2016 Q&A Why Isn't Rick Forthcoming About His Relapse? 1/05/2016 Q&A How Can We Communicate in Love? 1/05/2016 Q&A What is the Mind's Reason for Intrusive Thoughts? 1/05/2016 Q&A Can You Give Us Some Hope? 1/05/2016 Q&A He Betrayed ME! Why Am I Pursuing HIM?! 1/05/2016 Q&A Are We Missing Something? 1/05/2016 Q&A He Failed the Polygraph. Now What? 1/05/2016 Q&A Is Her Lack of Emotion Normal? 1/05/2016 Q&A Do I Have to Know About it? 1/05/2016 Q&A Should I Disclose My Affair to My Father? 1/05/2016 Q&A Can You Elaborate on Sex Addicts and Their Emotional Immaturity? 12/23/2015 Q&A Can You Have Reconciliation Without Forgiveness? 12/23/2015 Q&A Is it Possible to Heal All of This Alone? 12/23/2015 Q&A How Can We Get Past the Triggers At Home? 12/23/2015 Q&A Is There Hope for Someone With a Lifelong Trail of Adultery? 12/23/2015 Q&A Why Do I Still Not Desire Him? 12/23/2015 Q&A Which Affair Types Are Most Devastating? 12/23/2015 Q&A I Don't Know Whether to Stay or Go 12/23/2015 Q&A Should I Stop Waiting for Him to Own This? 12/23/2015 Q&A What Role Should Fantasies Play in the Marriage Bed? 12/22/2015 Q&A Should We Show Affection In Front of Our Children? 12/22/2015 Q&A How Much Work is Necessary? 12/22/2015 Q&A Should I Ask My Husband to Email His Affair Partner to Defend Me? 12/22/2015 Q&A How Can I Help Her With Intimacy? 12/22/2015 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts About Our Current State of Healing? 12/22/2015 Q&A Should We Spend the Holidays Together? 12/22/2015 Q&A Can There be Safety Without Recovery Work? 12/22/2015 Q&A What Does Grieving Look Like? 12/15/2015 Q&A Do I Just Wait for Limerance to Fade? 12/15/2015 Q&A Do I Have a Right to Contact the AP's Spouse? 12/15/2015 Q&A Can You Help Me With EMSO - Week 9? 12/15/2015 Q&A How Can We Handle This Particular Work Challenge? 12/15/2015 Q&A How Can I Assure My Mate I'm Letting Go of My AP? 12/15/2015 Q&A How Do I Forgive When it Wasn't a Mistake? 12/15/2015 Q&A How Do I Handle the AP in This Difficult Situation? 12/15/2015 Q&A Will Married for Life See a Makeover? 12/15/2015 Understanding Female Sexual Addiction: An Interview with a Survivor 12/09/2015 Q&A How Can We Communicate When He Isn't Getting It? 12/08/2015 Q&A How Do We Get Past Such Extreme Deceit? 12/08/2015 Q&A I'm the Unfaithful. Why Should I Keep the Marriage? 12/08/2015 Pages« first‹ previous…767778798081828384…next ›last »