All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How to Survive Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 The Problem with Forgiveness Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 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Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 5055 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Is There Hope for a Feeling of Oneness Again? 5/15/2019 Andy and Laura Mentor Video 5/14/2019 Q&A Can You Recommend a Timeline? 5/08/2019 Q&A What Should I Do? 5/08/2019 Q&A Am I Hurting My Mates Recovery Process? 5/08/2019 Q&A Do You Have Advice for My Situation? 5/08/2019 Q&A How Do I Properly Grieve the Losses? 5/08/2019 Q&A How Can I Stop Comparing Myself to the Affair Partner? 5/08/2019 Q&A Is My Unfaithful Husband Now Addicted to God? 5/08/2019 Q&A How Do I Know What to Believe? 5/08/2019 Q&A Is It Typical to Still Be in So Much Anguish This Far down the Road? 5/08/2019 Q&A Are Polygraph's Valid and Should My Husband Take One? 5/08/2019 Q&A How Do I Manage Our Sexual Intimacy? 5/08/2019 Q&A Could These Be Contributing Factors to My Husband's Acting Out? 5/08/2019 Q&A Am I Wrong in My Thinking? 5/08/2019 Q&A Why Can't My Husband Face That This Was an Affair? 5/08/2019 Q&A Is It Possible He Is Being Honest? 5/08/2019 Q&A Am I Becoming Codependent and Is This a Bad Thing? 5/08/2019 Q&A What Boundaries Would You Recommend upon Reconciliation? 5/08/2019 Q&A How Do We Handle the Affair Partner's Continued Intrusion in Our Life? 5/08/2019 Q&A How Do I Overcome My Dependence on My Mates Affirmation? 5/08/2019 Q&A Why Did My Mate Choose to Stay Committed to the Affair Partner? 5/08/2019 Q&A Can Depression Adversely Effect the Recovery Process? 5/08/2019 Q&A Should We Disclose the AP's Personal Information to Our Mate? 5/08/2019 Q&A Why Is My Mate Shifting the Blame to Me? 5/08/2019 Q&A Is It Safe to Believe My Mate? 5/08/2019 Q&A Have I Made a 'Deal Breaker' Decision? 4/30/2019 Q&A Is It Okay for the Wayward Spouse to Journal about the Affair Partner? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Can I Feel Safe with Multiple Online Accounts? 4/30/2019 Q&A Should We Stay in the Marriage for the Kids? 4/30/2019 Q&A What Are Healthy Ways for the Wayward to Grieve Losing the Affair Partner? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Do I Ensure That This Doesn't Change Me into a Miserable Person? 4/30/2019 Q&A If We Married for the Wrong Reason Should the Marriage Be Saved? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Can I Feel Safe from Another Relapse? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Often Do the Betrayed End up Having Revenge Affairs? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Do I Convince My Wife I Love Her and Only Her? 4/30/2019 Q&A What Happens If I'm Not Seeing Remorse? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Can My Wife Become Disentangle from the Affair Partner? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Can I Show Empathy without Getting Defensive? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Do I Get Complete Disclosure on How Deep This Sex Addiction Goes? 4/30/2019 Q&A Why Isn't My Wayward Spouse Pursuing Me? 4/30/2019 Q&A Is It Possible That My Spouse Never Blamed Me for Their Actions? 4/30/2019 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand My Recovery Timeline? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Can I Recover from an Abusive Affair Partner? 4/30/2019 Q&A Am I Being to Harsh with My Wayward Husband? 4/30/2019 Q&A Why Did My Mate Grow Distant Again? 4/17/2019 Q&A Could the Marriage Have Gotten Better Even While My Mate Is Acting Out? 4/17/2019 Q&A Is This Relationship worth Keeping? 4/17/2019 Q&A Is It Time to Walk Away? 4/17/2019 Q&A What Boundaries Should We Set for Transparency? 4/17/2019 Pages« first‹ previous…343536373839404142…next ›last »