Recovery Fundamentals
Start with the basics when first walking the road to recovery. Developing a systematic plan for recovery will enable you to stick to your basic recovery principles even when things get tough.
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1184 Resources
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Video Q&A How do we handle the details? 4/05/2017
Video Q&A What can I do to help my parents understand the level in which I have been hurt? 4/05/2017
Video Q&A How do I move forward without full disclosure? 4/05/2017
Video Q&A Is Reconciliation Possible with a Covert Narcissist? 4/05/2017
Video Q&A Is This the Right Time to Go to an EMS Weekend? 3/29/2017
Video Q&A How Much Time Should I Give It before I Can Tell Whether or Not We Will Recover? 3/29/2017
Video Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Our Counselors Process? 3/22/2017
Video Q&A Will Contacting the Affair Partner Help Me Forgive? 3/15/2017
Video Q&A Why Would I Stay with Him? 3/15/2017
Video Q&A My Unfaithful Husband Is Remorseful but I'm Not Interested. What Should I Do? 3/15/2017
Video Q&A Can You Share More about the Detox Phase for the Unfaithful Spouse? 3/08/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Request a Polygraph from My Mate? 3/08/2017
Video Q&A Will It Hurt Our Recovery If I Never Receive Full Disclosure? 3/08/2017
Video Q&A Have We Traded One Self Centered Lifestyle for Another? 3/08/2017
Video Q&A When Do You Know It's as Good as It's Going to Get? 3/08/2017
Video Q&A Why Would I Choose to Stay with Her? 3/08/2017
Video Q&A What is Reasonable to Expect in the 18-24 Month Timeline? 3/08/2017
Video Q&A What Other Steps Should We Take to Work towards Reaching a Full Recovery? 3/08/2017
Video Q&A When Do Unfaithful Women Typically Begin to Show Empathy? 3/08/2017
Video Expert Q&A Preview: Am I Looking at Forgiveness Wrong? 2/28/2017
Video Q&A What Do I Do Now? He's Still a Liar and Our Marriage Is a Fake. 2/28/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Give Our Marriage a Chance? 2/22/2017
Video Q&A Will My Husband Ever Recommit to the Marriage? 2/22/2017
Video Q&A Can Pop Psychology Predict Our Compatibility? 2/22/2017
Video Q&A Am I Sabotaging Our Relationship Because I'm Not Getting What I Want? 2/15/2017
Video Q&A What Therapy Would You Suggest for Us? 2/15/2017
Video Q&A How Do I Move Forward Feeling That I Don't Have the Truth? 2/15/2017
Video Q&A Where do I go from Here? I'm Hesitant to Attend EMS Weekend. 2/08/2017
Video Q&A Can I Speak to the Affair Partner in this Situation? 2/08/2017
Video Q&A How can we Help Her Heal from Her Past Actions? 2/08/2017
Video Q&A How can I Regain Positive Feelings Towards the Man Who Betrayed Me? 2/08/2017
Video Q&A What can I do Now that I Feel Doomed to an Unfulfilled Married Life? 2/08/2017
Video Q&A Should I Actively Fight my Apathy Towards my Husband or Will it Break Down Naturally? 2/08/2017
Video Q&A What can I Expect in Regards to my Wife Changing her Negative Historical Lens of Our Marriage? 2/08/2017
Video Q&A How Could he go from Loving Her and Hating Me to Loving Me and Hating Her? 2/08/2017
Video Q&A How can I Stop my Victim Thinking and Take Ownership for my Issues? 1/24/2017
Video Q&A What is it that I'm Sacrificing as the Unfaithful Spouse? 1/24/2017
Video Q&A How do I Know if He is Serious About Reconciliation? 1/24/2017
Video Q&A Can We Find Fresh Love Again? 1/18/2017
Video Q&A What can I do in the Mean Time to Change how I Feel? 1/11/2017
Video Q&A How can I Show my Wife I'm Trying to Learn Empathy? 1/11/2017
Video Q&A After his Affair, he Changed and now does Everything Right. Why do I Feel so Empty? 1/11/2017
Video Q&A When is the Best Time to Bring up Hurt Feelings? 12/20/2016
Video Q&A Why is she Acting this Way? Should we Work on the Marital Issues Instead of the Infidelity? 12/20/2016
Video Q&A Why would he Cause me and His Affair Partner to be so Close Together? 12/20/2016
Video Q&A Will it Take 10 Years to Heal? 12/16/2016
Video Q&A Did we Miss the Point of the 20 Cost Exercise? 12/16/2016
Video Q&A Should we Divorce or is there Still a Chance of a Happy Ending After this Nightmare? 12/16/2016
Video Q&A Should I be Farther Along in Recovery? 12/16/2016
Video Michael & Alicia's Mentor Video 12/15/2016

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