Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) We Started Well, but... The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness How to Survive Infidelity The 2 Stages of Pain Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? Recovery Timeline 737 Resources : Safety in Recovery Type Title Posted Q&A Will Feelings for the Affair Partner Come Back If They Are Not Addressed? 10/17/2018 Q&A What Does 'Working on the Marriage' Look like for the Unfaithful? 10/17/2018 Q&A Should I Be Okay with My Mates Ex-Spouse Staying in Our Home When Family Comes to Visit? 10/17/2018 How to survive an affair – How much should I share with my spouse? 10/17/2018 Q&A Should I Be Open to Reconciliation? 10/10/2018 Are You Dealing with Therapist Induced Trauma after Infidelity? 10/9/2018 Q&A How Can We Make Discovery Safe? 9/26/2018 Q&A What Boundaries Can We Set around This Relationship? 9/26/2018 Q&A Why Is My Mate Reacting This Way? 9/26/2018 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Contacting the Affair Partner on Behalf of Your Spouse? 9/26/2018 Anger, the Betrayed Spouse, and Boundaries 9/20/2018 Dealing with Social Shame 9/14/2018 What Defensiveness Does to the Betrayed Spouse 9/13/2018 Q&A Is It Safe for Us to Reconcile? 9/12/2018 Q&A Why Won't My Mate Create a Safe Space for Me to Heal? 9/12/2018 Q&A Is It Dangerous to Examine Photos and Messages from the Affair Partner? 9/12/2018 Q&A Should We Separate If My Mate Refuses to Break Contact with the Affair Partner? 9/12/2018 Q&A Could This Lack of Safety Be Reason to End Our Relationship? 9/12/2018 Q&A What Should I Do about Physical Abuse? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Can We Move Forward in Healing with the Fear That I May Remember More Information about My Affair? 9/12/2018 12345678910111213141516171819202122232425262728293031323334353637> next
