Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less The Problem with Forgiveness We Started Well, but... Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Recovery Timeline The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why Did My Spouse Cheat? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The 2 Stages of Pain Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 898 Resources : Safety in Recovery Type Title Posted Q&A What Can I Do about My Husband Becoming Extremely Controlling? 5/28/2020 Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Betrayed Spouse with Her Anger and Resentment? 5/28/2020 Q&A How Can I Stay Calm While Talking about the Affair? 5/28/2020 Infidelity or Addiction Requires an Entirely New Playbook: Hope for Those in Crisis Due to Infidelity 5/28/2020 The True Definition of Love and Its Role In Surviving An Affair 5/20/2020 Q&A What Is a Healthy Boundary for Alcohol in This Situation? 5/7/2020 Q&A Should the Lack of Safety Be a Deal Breaker for Recovery? 5/7/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When My Wife Drinks and Get so Angry? 5/7/2020 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part II: Marital Vulnerability 5/6/2020 Q&A I Am Trying to Be Safe for My Wife, but How Can I Feel Safe from Her? 4/28/2020 Why Couples Fail After an Affair: Part 4 - Not Grieving the Loss 3/18/2020 Q&A Are Walls Instead of Boundaries Necessary for a Season? 3/10/2020 Q&A How Do I Become Safe for Someone Who Is Unsafe for Me? 3/3/2020 Q&A Is There Hope of Healing without Relapse along the Way? 2/20/2020 Q&A How Can We Reach Honesty without Creating Triggers? 2/20/2020 How to Deal with Contempt after Infidelity 2/6/2020 If You're Doing This, Your Betrayed Spouse Is Losing Respect for You 2/4/2020 Q&A How Do I Know She Believes What I Say? 1/31/2020 Q&A Should My Mate Be Cautious of the Comparison Questions She Is Asking? 1/31/2020 Q&A Was I Wrong for Questioning Him or Is There a Better Way I Could’ve Approached This? 1/16/2020 123456789101112131415161718192021222324252627282930313233343536373839404142434445> next
