Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less How do you respond to blackmail? Part II We Started Well, but... Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why Did My Spouse Cheat? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Problem with Forgiveness The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? Recovery Timeline Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How to Survive Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 The 2 Stages of Pain Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 986 Resources : Safety in Recovery Type Title Posted Q&A When My Mate Floods, Why Do I Get Distressed In Turn? 7/8/2021 Healing After an Affair: Has Too Much Damage Been Done? 6/24/2021 The Importance of Owning Our Choices and Outcomes When Healing From Infidelity 6/3/2021 Q&A How Do I Love Her through Her Controlling Issues While Still Maintaining My Sanity? 5/25/2021 Q&A Is It Wrong to Expect My Husband to Stop Contact with an Affair Partner Who Is Close to the Family and My Best Friend? 5/12/2021 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts about a Post Infidelity Contract? 4/29/2021 Discovery: Why Do I Want to Know? 4/14/2021 Q&A Is He ‘Cured’ and Am I Now Safe? 4/13/2021 Discovery: Processing the Details of the Affair 4/7/2021 Travel Plan: How to Create One and Why They're Worthwhile 3/31/2021 Q&A How Do I Balance Guarding My Heart with Building Intimacy in EMS Online When My Mate Is Still Engaging His Affair Partner? 3/25/2021 Q&A What Does the Betrayed Spouse Do When the Betrayer Just Won’t End the Affair and Shows Signs of Limerence? 3/9/2021 Q&A Is It Alright for Me Not to Confront My Husband about Breaching the Contract? 3/9/2021 Surviving Infidelity: 6 Things I Wish I'd Known 3/3/2021 Q&A What More Can I Do to Become Safe for Her and Rebuild Our Relationship? 2/11/2021 Q&A Am I Wrong to Demand Him to Quit His Job for My Own Healing? 2/11/2021 Discovery: Part 3 - Guidelines for Discovery 2/3/2021 Q&A How Can I Remain Supportive and Loving While Also Protecting Myself? 1/28/2021 Discovery: Part 2 - Advice For The Wayward Spouse 1/27/2021 Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting to Know My Husband's Yellow-Light Behaviors? 1/25/2021 1234567891011121314151617181920212223242526272829303132333435363738394041424344454647484950> next
