Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less How to Survive Infidelity The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? How do you respond to blackmail? Part II 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? The 2 Stages of Pain How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Problem with Forgiveness Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) We Started Well, but... Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Recovery Timeline 991 Resources : Safety in Recovery Type Title Posted The Insidiousness of Shame, Part 2 10/15/2021 The Insidiousness of Shame, Part 1 10/12/2021 When I’m Sorry Isn’t Enough: How to Embrace the Consequences of Our Infidelity 10/7/2021 Understanding the Ego and Self-Shaming Tactics While Trying to Heal from Infidelity 9/30/2021 How Does Destructive Entitlement Sabotage Restoration for Both Spouses? 9/23/2021 The Dance of Disclosure 9/14/2021 How To Move Forward After Infidelity: Do’s, Don’ts, and Critical Mistakes 9/9/2021 After Infidelity: 4 Personal Transformation Stages for Betrayed and Wayward Spouses 8/5/2021 Q&A How Do My Spouse and I Get On the Same Level When It Comes to Appropriate Communication to His Affair Partner about Their Daughter? 8/2/2021 Q&A When My Mate Floods, Why Do I Get Distressed In Turn? 7/8/2021 Healing After an Affair: Has Too Much Damage Been Done? 6/24/2021 The Importance of Owning Our Choices and Outcomes When Healing From Infidelity 6/3/2021 Q&A How Do I Love Her through Her Controlling Issues While Still Maintaining My Sanity? 5/25/2021 Q&A Is It Wrong to Expect My Husband to Stop Contact with an Affair Partner Who Is Close to the Family and My Best Friend? 5/12/2021 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts about a Post Infidelity Contract? 4/29/2021 Discovery: Why Do I Want to Know? 4/14/2021 Q&A Is He ‘Cured’ and Am I Now Safe? 4/13/2021 Discovery: Processing the Details of the Affair 4/7/2021 Travel Plan: How to Create One and Why They're Worthwhile 3/31/2021 Q&A How Do I Balance Guarding My Heart with Building Intimacy in EMS Online When My Mate Is Still Engaging His Affair Partner? 3/25/2021 1234567891011121314151617181920212223242526272829303132333435363738394041424344454647484950> next
