Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? How to Survive Infidelity Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected The 2 Stages of Pain Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 The Problem with Forgiveness Recovery Timeline How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse We Started Well, but... 956 Resources : Safety in Recovery Type Title Posted Q&A How Can I Get My Wife to Stop Seeing Her Affair Partner? 1/14/2021 Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Feel Safe Again? 1/14/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal with Constant Relapse? 1/14/2021 Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 1/13/2021 Q&A Should I Even Consider Staying or Working on the Marriage? 1/7/2021 Q&A How Do I Discern If or When It's Safe to Trust Him Again? 11/12/2020 Q&A What Should I Do as the Wayward Spouse When My Spouse Has a Breakdown? 11/12/2020 Q&A How Do We Safely Co-Parent with the Affair Partner When a Child Is Born as a Result of the Affair? 11/12/2020 Q&A How Does One Determine What Not to Share with Their Spouse While Remaining Open and Honest? 10/22/2020 Q&A Am I Wrong to Ask Her to Stop Social Media Use? 10/22/2020 Q&A What Does Moving Forward a Year Later Look Like? 10/22/2020 Q&A Should My Husband Find Another Job to Protect Himself from Relapse? 9/24/2020 Q&A What Factors Are Important When Deciding If the Wayward Spouse Needs to Leave a Job to Distance from the Affair Partner? 9/3/2020 Q&A My Wife Is Considering a Revenge Affair. What Should I Do? 9/3/2020 Q&A Am I Overreacting or Is My Husband Not Taking Responsibility? 8/27/2020 Q&A My Husband Became a Bitter Person, What Should I Do? 8/27/2020 Q&A Is My Husband's Behavior Abusive? 8/18/2020 Q&A How Am I Supposed to Address This Barrier More Than I Already Have? 8/18/2020 Q&A How Can I Feel Safe Again? 7/30/2020 Q&A How Do I Create Safety for Myself When My Vulnerability Was Abused? 7/28/2020 123456789101112131415161718192021222324252627282930313233343536373839404142434445464748> next