Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less We Started Well, but... The 2 Stages of Pain The Problem with Forgiveness Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Recovery Timeline How to Survive Infidelity Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why Did My Spouse Cheat? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? How do you respond to blackmail? Part II 848 Resources : Safety in Recovery Type Title Posted Key Ingredients to the Life of an Unfaithful Spouse 10/22/2019 Ways to Make a Betrayed Spouse Feel Safe 10/17/2019 Q&A At What Point Should We Get a Restraining Order for the Affair Partner? 10/16/2019 Q&A How Can I Be Vulnerable If My Mate Has Only Committed to One Year of Healing? 10/16/2019 Learning How to Be Alone 10/4/2019 Q&A How Can We Move Forward with This Lack of Trust? 10/2/2019 Q&A How Should I Handle My Husband's Lack of Transparency? 10/2/2019 Q&A What Applications and Filters Do You Recommend to Keep Us Safe? 9/18/2019 Q&A Am I Controlling My Spouse or Is This the Appropriate Way to Set Boundaries? 9/18/2019 His Addiction... Her Infidelity... And How They Made It to the Other Side 9/17/2019 What Do You Do When the Unfaithful Spouse Refuses to Get Help? 9/12/2019 Q&A What Boundaries Are Appropriate in Recovery? 9/11/2019 Infidelity and Sexual Trauma: An Interview with an Expert 9/10/2019 Q&A How Can I Address the Anger and Defensiveness Coming from the Wayward Spouse? 9/4/2019 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When the Wayward Spouse Continues to Contact the Affair Partner? 8/28/2019 Q&A Should We Wait for the Limerence to Subside before Seeking More Restoration? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Get My Spouse to Open up about Their Affair? 8/23/2019 Q&A Why Is It Always on Me to Set Boundaries? 8/23/2019 Q&A Is My Spouse Showing a Lack of Trustworthiness? 8/23/2019 Q&A Should I Tell My Husband That I Know More Details about His Affair Than I've Led on To? 8/23/2019 12345678910111213141516171819202122232425262728293031323334353637383940414243> next
