Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? How do you respond to blackmail? Part II 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse We Started Well, but... The 2 Stages of Pain How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? How to Survive Infidelity Recovery Timeline Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Problem with Forgiveness Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 878 Resources : Safety in Recovery Type Title Posted Q&A Was I Wrong for Questioning Him or Is There a Better Way I Could’ve Approached This? 1/16/2020 Q&A What Does Transparency, Accountability, and External Controls Look like in Recovery? 1/16/2020 Q&A When Do I Know That It’s Time for Me to Leave? 1/16/2020 Q&A Why Wasn't My Husband Honest with Me? 1/3/2020 Q&A Can I Trust That the Affair Is Really Over? 1/3/2020 Q&A How Do We Differentiate between What Secrets Are Safe to Keep and Which Should Be Shared? 12/19/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safety During Military Deployment? 12/16/2019 Q&A How Can I Fix the Problem of Trickle Truth? 12/16/2019 Q&A What Does Consensual Sex Look like in Marriage? 12/5/2019 Q&A Do You Have Advice for Safely Reaching Full Disclosure without a Polygraph? 11/21/2019 Q&A How Do We Move Forward If My Mate Isn't Willing to Get Help? 11/21/2019 Q&A How Can We Move Forward in a Healthy and Safe Way? 11/21/2019 One of the Biggest Communication Disasters an Unfaithful Spouse Can Commit 11/21/2019 Q&A How Do I Push Forward in Recovery When I Feel That My Mate Isn't Trust Worthy? 11/14/2019 Q&A How Can I Feel Safe after My Mates Relapse? 11/14/2019 Q&A Should We Continue with the Course Work in Spite of Relapse? 11/14/2019 Q&A Can My Mate Ever Be Safe Again? 11/13/2019 Q&A Is This an Acceptable Behavior for the Recovery Process? 11/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Extend Grace to My Wayward Husband 11/13/2019 Are You Forgivable? Part 3: Stupid Apologies 11/13/2019 1234567891011121314151617181920212223242526272829303132333435363738394041424344> next
