Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less We Started Well, but... How to Survive Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Recovery Timeline How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness How do you respond to blackmail? Part II How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity The 2 Stages of Pain 887 Resources : Safety in Recovery Type Title Posted Why Couples Fail After an Affair: Part 4 - Not Grieving the Loss 3/18/2020 Q&A Are Walls Instead of Boundaries Necessary for a Season? 3/10/2020 Q&A How Do I Become Safe for Someone Who Is Unsafe for Me? 3/3/2020 Q&A Is There Hope of Healing without Relapse along the Way? 2/20/2020 Q&A How Can We Reach Honesty without Creating Triggers? 2/20/2020 How to Deal with Contempt after Infidelity 2/6/2020 If You're Doing This, Your Betrayed Spouse Is Losing Respect for You 2/4/2020 Q&A How Do I Know She Believes What I Say? 1/31/2020 Q&A Should My Mate Be Cautious of the Comparison Questions She Is Asking? 1/31/2020 Q&A Was I Wrong for Questioning Him or Is There a Better Way I Could’ve Approached This? 1/16/2020 Q&A What Does Transparency, Accountability, and External Controls Look like in Recovery? 1/16/2020 Q&A When Do I Know That It’s Time for Me to Leave? 1/16/2020 Q&A Why Wasn't My Husband Honest with Me? 1/3/2020 Q&A Can I Trust That the Affair Is Really Over? 1/3/2020 Q&A How Do We Differentiate between What Secrets Are Safe to Keep and Which Should Be Shared? 12/19/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safety During Military Deployment? 12/16/2019 Q&A How Can I Fix the Problem of Trickle Truth? 12/16/2019 Q&A What Does Consensual Sex Look like in Marriage? 12/5/2019 Q&A Do You Have Advice for Safely Reaching Full Disclosure without a Polygraph? 11/21/2019 Q&A How Do We Move Forward If My Mate Isn't Willing to Get Help? 11/21/2019 123456789101112131415161718192021222324252627282930313233343536373839404142434445> next
