All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How to Survive Infidelity The Power of Small Groups Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? The Problem with Forgiveness Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 5047 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Is there any Hope for our Marriage? 8/18/2015 Q&A When do you Know to Stay or Go? 8/18/2015 Q&A Would Harboring Hope or EMDR be More Helpful? 8/18/2015 Q&A Do you Ever Recommend Separating? 8/18/2015 Q&A Where do I Start After Lying for so Long? 8/18/2015 Q&A How can I Love her After what She's Done? 8/18/2015 Q&A Should we let the AP's Know that it's Over? 8/18/2015 Q&A How do we Once Again Light the Fire of Desire? 8/18/2015 Q&A How Should we Disclose to our Teenager? 8/18/2015 Q&A How can I Compete with the Affair Partner? 8/18/2015 Q&A At what Point do I Move on? 8/11/2015 Q&A What is he Addicted to? 8/11/2015 Q&A How do I Respond to Continual Lies? 8/11/2015 Q&A How Does the Betrayed Spouse Deal with the Shame of the Unfaithful? 8/11/2015 Q&A Why Doesn't he Express his Love? 8/11/2015 Q&A Should I Just Divorce and Leave Him? 8/11/2015 Q&A How Much do I Need to Know? 8/11/2015 Q&A Will he Ever Get Over her? 8/04/2015 Q&A How can I get Past a Desire for Revenge? 8/04/2015 Q&A Can I Heal While Spouse is Active in an Affair? 8/04/2015 Q&A Does Chronic Pain Increase Vulnerability to Have an Affair? 8/04/2015 Q&A What are Specific Examples of Vertical Forgiveness? 8/04/2015 Q&A What Next? 7/31/2015 Q&A Does Chronic Pain Contribute to Affairs? 7/31/2015 Q&A What Affects do Polygraphs have on Recovery? 7/31/2015 Q&A How do I Help my Teenage Children Cope? 7/31/2015 Q&A Was it a Desire to be Desired? 7/31/2015 Q&A How do I Come to Terms with what they Did? 7/31/2015 Q&A Should I Secretly Install Spyware on my Spouse's Phone? 7/31/2015 The Ashley Madison Hack - Surviving Discovery 7/29/2015 Q&A Will I Ever Believe an Agreement Again? 7/28/2015 Q&A Why Does my Mindset Change from Morning to Night? 7/28/2015 Q&A Is this what PTSD Looks Like? 7/28/2015 Q&A They had to Know the Affair Would Devastate me, Right? 7/28/2015 Q&A How do we Cope with the Ashley Madison Blackmail News? 7/28/2015 Q&A Any Thoughts for a Hopeless Situation? 7/20/2015 Q&A Can we Modify the Order of Married for Life Lessons? 7/20/2015 Q&A Am I Being Compared to the Affair Partner? 7/20/2015 Social Shame Survey 7/15/2015 Q&A How Does PTSD Affect Affair Recovery? 7/07/2015 Q&A What Effects do Antidepressants Have on Infidelity? 7/07/2015 Q&A Is it Possible to be Mean to Someone you Love? 7/07/2015 Q&A How Likely is my Mate to Cheat Again? 7/07/2015 Q&A How can I Pretend to be Happy When I'm Not? 7/07/2015 Q&A What do you Suggest I do Now? 7/07/2015 Q&A What Happens 1 Year After D-Day? 7/07/2015 Q&A How Can we Get Our Adult Children to Support Us? 6/26/2015 Q&A Why Should I Own my Mistakes? 6/26/2015 Q&A Can You Help me Find Reasons to Stay? 6/26/2015 Q&A Does my Spouse Really Want to Save the Marriage? 6/26/2015 Pages« first‹ previous…808182838485868788…next ›last »
