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Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 289 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Why Is My Spouse Having a Difficult Time with Empathy When I'm Hurting? 9/11/2019 Expectations of Empathy: A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey 6/26/2019 Q&A How Do I Help My Spouse Overcome Shame and Humiliation? 5/21/2019 Q&A Is There a Difference between Just Getting over What Happened and Forgiveness? 5/21/2019 Q&A How Do I Shift the Focus off My Mistakes and onto Healing? 5/21/2019 Q&A How Do I Convince My Wife I Love Her and Only Her? 4/30/2019 Q&A What Happens If I'm Not Seeing Remorse? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Can I Show Empathy without Getting Defensive? 4/30/2019 Q&A Why Isn't My Wayward Spouse Pursuing Me? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Do You Address Your Wounds While at the Same Time Feeling Remorse for Your Mate? 4/17/2019 Q&A Why Am I Struggling with Compassion and Understanding? 4/10/2019 Q&A Should I Try to Make Amends for My Part in the Failed Recovery? 3/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Help My Spouse? 3/06/2019 Q&A How Can My Mate Help Me Overcome the Loss? 3/04/2019 Q&A How Does a Betrayed Spouse Get past the Hurtful Words Said by the Wayward Spouse? 3/04/2019 Q&A What Does It Mean to Be a Safe Place for the Betrayed's Anger? 1/22/2019 Q&A What If I Don’t Feel Guilty? 12/14/2018 Q&A Should I Insist or Let It Go? 12/12/2018 Q&A How Can I Communicate That I Understand My Mates Pain? 12/05/2018 Q&A Why Isn’t My Mate Showing Empathy? 11/28/2018 Q&A Is Our Marriage Doomed Because My Mate Is Unwilling to Make Amends? 11/26/2018 Q&A How Do I Find Empathy? 11/21/2018 Q&A Am I Shaming My Husband When I Bring up His past Behaviors? 11/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Live with a Spouse That Is Grieving the Affair Partner? 11/01/2018 Q&A How Do I Help My Mate Move past Their Resentments? 11/01/2018 Q&A How Do We Heal When We Have Both Been Unfaithful? 11/01/2018 Hope Rising 2018: Apology from the Unfaithful 10/31/2018 Q&A How Can I Fix What I've Done? 10/23/2018 Q&A Can Empathy Be Learned? 10/23/2018 Q&A How Do We Both Deal with My Mates Shame? 9/26/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate with Rejection? 9/20/2018 Q&A How Do I State Expectations without Being Codependent? 9/12/2018 Q&A Will My Desire for My Mate Return? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Long Should I Wait for Consistent Honesty? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Can I Handle my Mate’s Questions about the Affair? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Create Safety in Our Recovery? 8/29/2018 Q&A Where Is the Humility and Empathy? 8/22/2018 Q&A How Can I Prove to My Mate I'm Telling the Truth? 8/22/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Spouse Accept How Long My Affair Lasted? 8/22/2018 Q&A What Does It Look like for the Wayward Spouse to Help the Injured Spouse through Recovery? 8/22/2018 Q&A Will My Husband Ever 'Get It'? 8/15/2018 Q&A How Can I Communicate That It Was Shame That Caused Me to Hide? 8/08/2018 Q&A How Can I Communicate to My Wife That I Wasn't ‘Using’ Her during the Affair? 7/23/2018 Q&A How Can We Move past Resentments and Heal Our Marriage? 7/16/2018 Q&A Shouldn't My Mate Be More Empathetic by Now? 7/16/2018 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Start a Conversation When There Is so Much Hurt between Us? 7/16/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Heal from My Lack of Empathy? 7/16/2018 Q&A How Can I Let Go of My Resentment? 6/27/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle My Mates Lack of Empathy? 5/23/2018 Q&A Is Calling This a ‘Mistake’ Minimization? 5/23/2018 Pages« first‹ previous123456next ›last »