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A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 271 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Should I Insist or Let It Go? 12/12/2018 Q&A How Can I Communicate That I Understand My Mates Pain? 12/05/2018 Q&A Why Isn’t My Mate Showing Empathy? 11/28/2018 Q&A Is Our Marriage Doomed Because My Mate Is Unwilling to Make Amends? 11/26/2018 Q&A How Do I Find Empathy? 11/21/2018 Q&A Am I Shaming My Husband When I Bring up His past Behaviors? 11/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Live with a Spouse That Is Grieving the Affair Partner? 11/01/2018 Q&A How Do I Help My Mate Move past Their Resentments? 11/01/2018 Q&A How Do We Heal When We Have Both Been Unfaithful? 11/01/2018 Hope Rising 2018: Apology from the Unfaithful 10/31/2018 Q&A How Can I Fix What I've Done? 10/23/2018 Q&A Can Empathy Be Learned? 10/23/2018 Q&A How Do We Both Deal with My Mates Shame? 9/26/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate with Rejection? 9/20/2018 Q&A How Do I State Expectations without Being Codependent? 9/12/2018 Q&A Will My Desire for My Mate Return? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Long Should I Wait for Consistent Honesty? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Can I Handle my Mate’s Questions about the Affair? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Create Safety in Our Recovery? 8/29/2018 Q&A Where Is the Humility and Empathy? 8/22/2018 Q&A How Can I Prove to My Mate I'm Telling the Truth? 8/22/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Spouse Accept How Long My Affair Lasted? 8/22/2018 Q&A What Does It Look like for the Wayward Spouse to Help the Injured Spouse through Recovery? 8/22/2018 Q&A Will My Husband Ever 'Get It'? 8/15/2018 Q&A How Can I Communicate That It Was Shame That Caused Me to Hide? 8/08/2018 Q&A How Can I Communicate to My Wife That I Wasn't ‘Using’ Her during the Affair? 7/23/2018 Q&A How Can We Move past Resentments and Heal Our Marriage? 7/16/2018 Q&A Shouldn't My Mate Be More Empathetic by Now? 7/16/2018 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Start a Conversation When There Is so Much Hurt between Us? 7/16/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Heal from My Lack of Empathy? 7/16/2018 Q&A How Can I Let Go of My Resentment? 6/27/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle My Mates Lack of Empathy? 5/23/2018 Q&A Is Calling This a ‘Mistake’ Minimization? 5/23/2018 Q&A Does My Mate 'Get It' or Is He Justifying His Actions? 5/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Convey Grief about My Betrayal Rather than Shame? 5/23/2018 Q&A How Can a Betrayed Spouse Help with Their Unfaithful Partner's Selfish Shame, Guilt and Resentment? 5/18/2018 Q&A How Can a Betrayed Spouse Help with Their Unfaithful Partner's Selfish Shame, Guilt and Resentment? 5/18/2018 Q&A Do You Think We Can Ever Truly Move Forward without Him Seeking Any Help? 5/18/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Explain Why What My Husband Is Doing Isn't Working? 5/16/2018 Q&A Can Our Marriage Survive If My Husband Never Sees the Affair for What It Was? 5/07/2018 Q&A Can a Person Sincerely Do a ‘180’ on the Way He Treats His Wife after an Affair? 5/07/2018 Q&A Will My Wife Ever Stop Blaming Me for Her Affair? 5/07/2018 Q&A How I Can Get past My Husband's Lack of Seeing the Affair Partner for Who She Is? 5/07/2018 Q&A How I Can Get past My Husband's Lack of Seeing the Affair Partner for Who She Is? 5/07/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Stop Living in the Past? 4/25/2018 Q&A Will My Husband Ever See the Affair for What It Really Was? 4/25/2018 Q&A Why Do I Find Myself Expressing Emotion through Tears So Much in My Recovery? 4/18/2018 Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Empathize? 4/11/2018 Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Helping My Mate with PTSD? 4/11/2018 Q&A What Should I Do If My Mate Is Struggling to Let Go of the Past? 4/11/2018 Pages« first‹ previous123456next ›last »