For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened The Problem with Forgiveness How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How Could You? 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Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it The Power of Small Groups Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 1292 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What Is the Best Way to Acknowledge the Work My Husband Is Doing Without Giving Him Too Much Praise? 6/16/2023 Q&A Is It Common for Betrayed Spouses to Have Trouble with Depression and Lack of Focus Which Detrimentally Affects Their Work? 6/16/2023 Q&A Why Would He Go Back to the Same Person He Thinks Is So Nasty? 6/16/2023 Q&A How Do I Handle My Betrayal When the Affair Partner Is So Close with My Husband’s Family? 6/16/2023 Q&A How Do I Move past Something I Love Being Shared with the Affair Partner? 6/16/2023 Q&A Can You Elaborate More on Type Four Affairs? 6/16/2023 How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 5/24/2023 Q&A Am I Wrong to Still Be in This Much Pain? 5/19/2023 Q&A How Can I Have Hope for My Mates Recovery with Those Odds? 5/19/2023 Q&A How Do We Navigate Recovery If My Mate Doesn’t Believe They Are Committing Infidelity? 5/19/2023 Q&A If There Is a Future for Our Marriage, Would You See the Journey to Be Any Different than Normal? 5/19/2023 Q&A How Do I Create a Coherent Story If the Details from My Mate Are Always Changing? 5/19/2023 Q&A How Do I Let Go of What Happened and Fully Re-Engage with My Mate? 5/19/2023 Affair Recovery Steps: How to Live Without Fear After Infidelity 5/17/2023 Q&A How Do I Handle a New Betrayal Immediately after EMS Weekend? 5/02/2023 Q&A Is It My Fault That They Did What They Did? 5/02/2023 Q&A How Do I Cope with My Own Issues of Needing to Feel Understood by My Husband as the Wayward Spouse? 4/12/2023 Q&A How Do You Discern If a Person Is Truly Remorseful and Changing When They Relapse into Blaming the Betrayed? 4/12/2023 Q&A Is My Lack of Emotion Normal or Am I Experiencing Something Much Worse? 3/17/2023 Q&A Why Does He Tell Me I Am the Only Girl and Will Be Faithful When He Continues to See Other Women? 3/17/2023 Q&A Can You Further Explain How to Determine and Address What Could Have Led to My Husband’s Affair? 2/17/2023 Q&A How Do We Navigate My Sister Being the Affair Partner? 1/26/2023 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband’s Enjoyment of Porn? 1/26/2023 Q&A What Kind of Affair Is This? 1/11/2023 Q&A What Can I Do, as the Betrayed, to Try and Get Closure? 1/11/2023 Q&A Are My Boundaries for My Spouse Unreasonable? 1/11/2023 Q&A How Can He Have No Feelings for the Affair Partner or Not Remember How He Expressed Feelings for Her? 1/11/2023 Sharing Perspectives: How Can My Spouse Feel What I Feel? 1/11/2023 Why is Trusting Again So Hard? 1/04/2023 Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 12/07/2022 Q&A Am I Wrong to Feel Suspicious or Am I Jumping to Conclusions? 12/06/2022 Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate Who Won’t Be Open with Me? 12/06/2022 Q&A If He Was Having an Affair to Get Some Sort of Thrill or Feeling from That Person Why Did He Constantly Want My Attention Too? 12/06/2022 Q&A Do You Think He Truly Meant What He Said While Also Calling Me Beautiful on a Regular Basis? 12/06/2022 Pleasing Versus Loving 11/29/2022 The Mystery of Change 11/02/2022 Q&A What Do I Do If I Don’t Believe My Mate Has Been Completely Honest with Their Full Disclosure? 10/13/2022 Q&A Am I Struggling Because I Still Feel Unsafe in Recovery? 10/13/2022 The Proper Use of Boundaries - Creating Space for Healing and Change 10/05/2022 Anger: Its 6 Roots 9/28/2022 Q&A What Can We Do Differently? 9/13/2022 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When I’m Not Sure He Can Admit to Himself What His Demons Are? 8/26/2022 Intrusive Thoughts After the Affair: How to Manage Flooding 8/17/2022 Q&A How Do I Not Feel So Bad About My Own Body? 8/03/2022 Q&A How Do I Deal With My Repulsion by the Idea of Sex Post Betrayal? 8/03/2022 Q&A How Long Are You Suppose to Wait for Unfaithful to Take Responsibility and Have Empathy? 8/03/2022 Q&A Should I Get Breast Implants to Please My Husband? 8/03/2022 Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for Marrying Someone While Choosing to Essentially Re-Marry Him? 8/03/2022 What It Takes To Survive an Affair: 3 Must Have Components 7/13/2022 Forgiveness: A Letter to My Younger Self 7/06/2022 Pages« first‹ previous123456789…next ›last »
