Free Resources These full articles will give you an example of what to expect from the full version of the Recovery Library. The rest of the categories on the left contain small previews of resources from the full Recovery Library. Must Reads more less Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How to Survive Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Power of Small Groups Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? The Problem with Forgiveness Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 317 Resources Type Title Posted What is Healing? 1/10/2024 Common Mistakes Made When Recovering from Infidelity 12/27/2023 Hope For Healing Excerpt: How Does The Unfaithful Make Amends? 12/12/2023 Who is the Other Woman? 12/06/2023 Recovering from Infidelity: Difficulties with Intimacy 11/28/2023 Community for Healing from Infidelity – Affair Recovery 11/22/2023 Forgiving Infidelity: The Gift of Forgiveness 11/07/2023 Did You Marry the Wrong Person? 11/01/2023 Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 10/24/2023 The Betrayed's Reaction: An Excerpt from Harboring Hope 10/18/2023 Surviving Infidelity: 6 Things I Wish I'd Known 10/11/2023 Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 10/04/2023 The Importance of Wisdom Following Infidelity 9/27/2023 Healing After an Affair: Emotional Flooding and Reminders 9/20/2023 How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 9/13/2023 The Fight to Forgive 8/30/2023 Relapse: Why Can't You Stop? 8/23/2023 A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey: Rewriting the Past After Disclosure 8/16/2023 My Spouse Had an Affair: What Should I Do Now? 8/09/2023 Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 8/02/2023 The Antidote for Shame: Understanding the Unfaithful 7/26/2023 Is Ambivalence Common When Healing from Infidelity? 7/19/2023 How Can You Move Past Ambivalence After Infidelity? 7/19/2023 Stuck? Three Methods to Get Moving in Infidelity Recovery 7/12/2023 Denial and Recovery After an Affair 7/05/2023 Recovering From Infidelity Pain: Are They Lying About ‘Why’? 6/28/2023 Hope for Healing Excerpt: 'Is My Life Out of Control?' 6/21/2023 Discovery: Why Do I Want to Know? 6/14/2023 Discovery: Processing the Details of the Affair 6/07/2023 How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 5/24/2023 What Is the Cost of Forgiving Infidelity? 5/10/2023 When to Save a Marriage After Infidelity 5/03/2023 Your Brain on Porn and Understanding the Sex Addict 4/26/2023 Why People Cheat: Were They Predisposed to Cheat (Part 2) 4/12/2023 Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 4/05/2023 Discovery: Part 4 - Goals for the Betrayed 3/29/2023 Discovery: Part 3 - Guidelines for Discovery 3/22/2023 Discovery: Part 2 - Advice For The Wayward Spouse 3/15/2023 Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 3/08/2023 Healing from Infidelity: Going it alone 3/01/2023 How Could You? Part V - The Secrecy Factor 2/15/2023 How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 2/08/2023 How Could You? Part VI - Dehumanization and Blame 2/02/2023 How Could You? Part III: Moral Justification 2/01/2023 How Could You? Part II: The Thought Processes That Lead to Betrayal 1/25/2023 How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 1/18/2023 Sharing Perspectives: How Can My Spouse Feel What I Feel? 1/11/2023 Why is Trusting Again So Hard? 1/04/2023 Ever Wonder Why Men Cheat and Why Women Cheat? 12/14/2022 Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 12/07/2022 Pages« first‹ previous1234567next ›last »