All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision The Power of Small Groups Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Problem with Forgiveness How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? How to Survive Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 5047 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Understand It’s Not about Him and His Pain? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal with Hurtful Comments and Lies after a Divorce? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Can I Cherish the Positive Family Moments That Happened during the Affair? 6/03/2020 Q&A Why Has My Husband Re-written Our Marital History? 6/03/2020 Q&A At What Point Is Repair Work, Healing, and Reconciliation Attempts Futile? 6/03/2020 Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Recovery during Separation? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do We Build Trust When I Don't Quite Feel Safe Yet? 6/03/2020 Q&A Is This a Safe Way of Dealing with This Problem? 6/03/2020 Q&A What Kind of Affair Was It? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Accept That His Actions Were Willful and Done without Any Regard of My Feelings? 6/03/2020 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand My Ex-husband's Motive? 6/03/2020 Q&A Is It Possible or Even Wise to Forgive My Spouse? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do Multiple Affairs Affect the Recovery Timeline? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Exactly Does One Transform the Pain? 6/03/2020 Q&A What Would Enabling the Affair Look Like? 6/03/2020 Q&A Why Is My Wayward Husband Having a Difficult Time with 'Why'? 6/03/2020 Q&A What Helps the Wayward Spouse Transition from Shame to Empathy? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Start a New Relationship without Fear That This Will Happen Again? 6/03/2020 Q&A Is There a Difference between Processing Grief and Self-Pity? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Can I Trust My Husband in the Future If Only He and I Know? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Can I Heal When He Still Has to Have Contact with Her Because of Her Job? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal with the Grief? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do We Start Fresh in the Midst of Recovery? 6/03/2020 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Splitting the Household While Attempting Recovery? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Recover in a Situation like This? 6/03/2020 Q&A Can You Offer Encouragement for Me during This Season of Recovery? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Now Distinguish between Truth and Deception? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do You Heal from This Level of Betrayal? 6/03/2020 Q&A Does the Length of the Affair Have Implications for Our Recovery? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Long Do Couples Stay in a State of Ambivalence? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do We Write a New Story Together? 6/03/2020 Q&A Is It Too Early to Start to Learn about Ourselves, the Recovery Process, and Grow? 6/03/2020 Q&A Do I Stop Encouraging My Mate to Participate in Hope for Healing and Quit Communicating with Him? 6/03/2020 Q&A What Hope Is There to Restoring a Marriage That Has Been a Lie from the Beginning? 6/03/2020 Q&A Is This Normal Affair Behavior or a Sexual Addiction? 6/03/2020 Q&A Approximately How Long Should the Reaction Task Last? 6/03/2020 Is It Normal? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal with Flooding When I Feel My Own Emotions Are Overwhelming? 5/28/2020 Q&A Are Intrusive Suicidal Thoughts Common? 5/28/2020 Q&A What Can I Do about My Husband Becoming Extremely Controlling? 5/28/2020 Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Betrayed Spouse with Her Anger and Resentment? 5/28/2020 Q&A How Do I Let Go of the Intrusive Thoughts on My Actions? 5/28/2020 Q&A How Can I Stay Calm While Talking about the Affair? 5/28/2020 Q&A Is There Any Way to Convince My Mate That I'm Not Emotionally Connected to My Affair Partner? 5/28/2020 Q&A How Do We Change a Destructive Pattern in Our Marriage? 5/28/2020 Q&A How Do I Avoid Relapse? 5/28/2020 Q&A Is There a Difference between Reason and Justification? 5/28/2020 Q&A Will the Triggers and Reminders Return? 5/28/2020 Q&A Has Affair Recovery Considered a Bible Study for Those Struggling with Their Identity and Relationship with Christ? 5/28/2020 Q&A Is My Request for Confrontation Reasonable? 5/28/2020 Pages« first‹ previous…212223242526272829…next ›last »