All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How to Survive Infidelity Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? The Power of Small Groups How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? The Problem with Forgiveness Rebuilding Trust After An Affair 4838 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What Does Recovery Look like If the Wayward Spouse Isn't Grieved about the Affair? 8/02/2019 Q&A Do You Think Its Good to Focus on the Friendship Aspect of the Marriage during Recovery? 8/02/2019 Q&A How Can I Ever Dare to Be Vulnerable and Trust Again? 8/02/2019 Q&A Why Can't I Believe That My Mate Is Attracted to Me? 8/02/2019 Q&A How Can I Stop Blaming Myself for My Husband’s Acting Out? 8/02/2019 Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Enjoy My Wife like a Normal Man? 8/02/2019 Q&A How Can We Overcome Sexual Performance Issues and Improve Intimacy? 8/02/2019 Q&A Does It Make Sense to Continue Our Relationship? 8/02/2019 Q&A Should We Be Concerned about the Content of Our Dreams during Recovery? 8/02/2019 Q&A Is It True That People with Trust Issues Often Choose Untrustworthy Partners? 8/02/2019 Q&A Has Something Gone Wrong in My Husband's Recovery? 7/24/2019 Q&A How Do I Get My Wayward Spouse to Open up to Me? 7/24/2019 Q&A How Can I Be Transparent in a Way That Doesn't Hurt My Mate? 7/24/2019 Q&A How Much Time Is Reasonable to Talk per Day or Even per Week to Process a 10 Year Affair? 7/24/2019 Q&A Why Can't I Get past My Triggers? 7/24/2019 Q&A Has My Husband's Sexual Addiction Ruined His Ability to Be Attracted to Me? 7/24/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband's Dishonesty? 7/24/2019 Q&A Do You Have Suggestions for Understanding and Expressing My Emotions? 7/24/2019 Q&A Because of Medical Problems Our Sex Life Has Become All about Me and There's Nothing for Him. What Can We Do? 7/24/2019 Q&A If I Draw a Line in the Sand about My Affair It Could Result in Me Losing My Child, What Do You Suggest? 7/17/2019 Q&A Could You Provide Some Feedback on Infidelity That Happens in Good Marriages? 7/17/2019 Q&A Am I Using the Affair Partners Choices as a Cop-Out? 7/17/2019 Q&A Am I Being Used? 7/17/2019 Q&A How Do We Create a New Marriage If the Old Marriage Is Dead? 7/17/2019 Q&A How Do We Maintain Peace When We Live in Close Proximity to the Affair Partner? 7/10/2019 Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting to Keep Contact with People I Feel Safe Around? 7/10/2019 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Our Small Group Dynamic? 7/10/2019 Q&A Would Taking the Hope for Healing Course Be like Ripping off Old Scabs? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Do I Break out of My Codependency? 7/10/2019 Q&A What Is Normal in Our Situation? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Does Attraction Work with Sex Addiction? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Do I Avoid Flooding during Hard Conversations? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Do I Overcome My Fears of Contracting an STD from My Wayward Spouse? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Can I Help My Spouse Feel like They Aren't My Second Choice? 7/10/2019 Q&A Is There Hope When the Wayward Refuses to Break Contact? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Can I Get My Spouse to Understand What I Need? 7/10/2019 Q&A Is Waiting to Address Childhood Sexual Trauma Detrimental to Recovery? 7/10/2019 Q&A When Do We Leave out of Our Own Self Respect? 7/10/2019 Q&A Do You Recommend a Separation in Our Circumstance? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Can I Implement Boundaries More Effectively? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Do I Apply Worton's Third Task to Infidelity? 7/03/2019 Q&A How Can My Mate Prefer Anything about the Affair Partner? 7/03/2019 Q&A How Can I Communicate Concerns without Creating Conflict? 7/03/2019 Q&A How Do I Process the Pain during the Divorce Process? 7/03/2019 Q&A Why Is My Spouse So Stuck on the Affair Partner? 7/03/2019 Q&A How Do I Manage the Thoughts of Comparison? 7/03/2019 Q&A How Do We Reach Full Disclosure with Pornography? 7/03/2019 Q&A How Can I Share My Emotions without Triggering My Partners Shame? 7/03/2019 Q&A Do You Have Any Words of Wisdom for Me? 7/03/2019 Q&A Why Won't My Mate Touch Me? 7/03/2019 Pages« first‹ previous…272829303132333435…next ›last »
