All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How Could You? 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Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 4970 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Am I Controlling My Spouse or Is This the Appropriate Way to Set Boundaries? 9/18/2019 Expert Q&A Preview: How Do I Let Go of My Regrets? 9/18/2019 Q&A At What Point Do You Give up on Your Spouse? 9/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Show Grace without Being Taken Advantage Of? 9/13/2019 Q&A What Would You Recommend for Spouses Who Lose Their Mate to Suicide during Recovery? 9/13/2019 Q&A Can I Ever Get Passed Sharing My Daughter with the Affair Partner? 9/13/2019 Q&A What Can I Do to Keep These Triggers from Impacting Me so Much? 9/13/2019 Q&A Are There Differences in Recovery Based on When Discovery Happens? 9/13/2019 Q&A Is It Possible to Recover Hope for Something New? 9/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Stay Safe When My Mate Is Still Ambivalent? 9/13/2019 Q&A Can Minimizing Childhood Trauma Affect the Ability to Take Responsibility and Show Empathy during Recovery? 9/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal from the Intrusive Thoughts That Came as Result of Recording and Listening to My Mates Conversations with the Affair Partner? 9/13/2019 Q&A Should I Have the Wayward Spouse Break off the Affair in Front of Me? 9/13/2019 Q&A Does He Need a Consequence to Fully Recommit? 9/13/2019 Q&A How Long Will It Take for My Husband to Retrain His Thinking? 9/13/2019 Q&A How Can I Overcome My Negative Feelings Towards Family Members? 9/13/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safety and Follow-Through with Boundaries? 9/13/2019 Q&A What Do You Do When the Infidelity Involves Family Members? 9/13/2019 Q&A What Do His Boundary Violations Mean? 9/13/2019 Q&A Is There Something Wrong with Me Because I Still Love in Spite of All This? 9/13/2019 Q&A Can You Explain the Benefits of an In-House Separation? 9/13/2019 Q&A Should the Betrayed Spouse Inform the Affair Partners Spouse of the Affair? 9/11/2019 Q&A What Boundaries Are Appropriate in Recovery? 9/11/2019 Q&A Do You Have Any Advice for the Spouse of Someone Who's Been Autonomous for Nearly 20 Years in Addition to Being Passive Aggressive? 9/11/2019 Q&A Why Is My Spouse Having a Difficult Time with Empathy When I'm Hurting? 9/11/2019 Q&A Why Is My Wayward Spouse Having Such a Difficult Time Letting Go of the Affair Partner? 9/11/2019 Q&A How Do We Get Our Strong Emotional Connection Back? 9/11/2019 Q&A How Do I Know If I'm Making the Right Choice? 9/11/2019 Q&A Should We Stop the Trickle Effect of Disclosure? 9/04/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal When I Am Always in Fight or Flight Mode? 9/04/2019 Q&A How Can I Accept What My Mate Is Telling Me? 9/04/2019 Q&A Why Can't My Spouse See How They Could've Prevented Their Affair? 9/04/2019 Q&A How Long Will It Take for Feelings for the Affair Partner to Disappear? 9/04/2019 Q&A Are the Gottmans Encouraging Infidelity? 9/04/2019 Q&A How Can I Address the Anger and Defensiveness Coming from the Wayward Spouse? 9/04/2019 Q&A How Do I Protect My Children through All of This? 8/28/2019 Q&A What Do I Do about My Husband's Covert Narcissism? 8/28/2019 Q&A What Is a Normal Reaction from the Wayward When Discovering Infidelity? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband’s Continued Obsessive Thoughts about the Affair Partner? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Could My Wife Feel so Connected with the Affair Partner and Not Think the Sex Was Better with Them? 8/28/2019 Q&A Why Do I Do about My Thoughts during Sex? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Get past My Own Shame and Guilt? 8/28/2019 Q&A Is It Possible That My Spouse Is an Addict? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Is This Not about Me? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Know When to Stand up and Say Enough Is Enough? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Much Does Childhood Abandonment Affect Recovery from Infidelity? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Get past My Husband's Recreated Fantasy about a High School Girlfriend? 8/28/2019 Q&A Would This Level of Detail Hurt Our Recovery Process? 8/28/2019 Q&A Is Her Disgust about the Affair a Sign That the Limerence Is Disappearing? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Can I Know If What I Experienced with the Affair Partner Was Love, Limerence, or Love Addiction? 8/28/2019 Pages« first‹ previous…272829303132333435…next ›last »
