All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How to Survive Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 The Problem with Forgiveness Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity The Power of Small Groups Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 4994 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Is the Recovery Timeline Different for Those Who Divorce after Infidelity? 4/10/2019 Q&A Is Anxiety a Valid Reason to Leave a Marriage? 4/10/2019 Q&A Why Am I Struggling with Compassion and Understanding? 4/10/2019 Q&A Am I Deceiving Myself? 4/10/2019 Q&A Why Is the Wayward Spouse Continuing to Justify Their Actions? 4/10/2019 Q&A How Can I Be Passionate with My Spouse Again? 4/10/2019 Q&A How Do I Get My Husband to Tell the Truth? 4/10/2019 Q&A How Do I Help My Mate See That Their Choices Are Preventing Their Goals for Intimacy? 4/10/2019 Q&A How Do We Set Boundaries When the Affair Partner Has Close Family Ties? 4/10/2019 Q&A How Do I Overcome the Reoccurring Reminders? 4/10/2019 Q&A How Do I Feel Safe When Recovery Is Inconsistent? 4/10/2019 The Power of Small Groups 4/10/2019 Q&A How Long Should I Wait for the Wayward to Fight for the Marriage? 4/03/2019 Q&A How Do I Let Go of My Feelings for the Affair Partner? 4/03/2019 Q&A How Do I Enforce Boundaries While Encouraging Transparency? 4/03/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safe Boundaries with Social Media? 4/03/2019 Q&A How Do I Know If My Partner Is Safe? 4/03/2019 Q&A How Can I Heal Given This Reality? 4/03/2019 Q&A Will I Ever Feel Okay in My Own Skin Again? 4/03/2019 Q&A How Can I Show My Positive Change in Spite of Relapse? 4/03/2019 Q&A Should I Make the Affair Partner Replace the Financial Loss? 4/03/2019 Q&A How Do We Stop the Insanity? 3/27/2019 Q&A Is My Mate to Blame for Our Child's Behavior? 3/27/2019 Q&A When Will My Mate Finally Get It? 3/27/2019 Q&A Does Forgiveness Give My Mate a Free Pass? 3/27/2019 Q&A How Do We Reclaim What Was Lost in the Affair? 3/27/2019 Q&A How Can I Visit Certain Places without Being Triggered? 3/27/2019 Q&A How Do I Forgive the Unforgivable? 3/27/2019 Q&A Should I Be Concerned about My Mates Recovery Journey? 3/27/2019 Q&A What Steps Should I Take after Relapse? 3/20/2019 Q&A How Can Healing Progress if the Affair Partner Is Still Present in My Mate’s Head? 3/20/2019 Q&A How Do I Know If I Can Trust My Own Judgement? 3/20/2019 Q&A How to We Share Our Story with Our Children? 3/20/2019 Q&A What Do You Do If Your Partner Is a Trigger? 3/20/2019 Q&A How Long Will the Triggers Continue? 3/20/2019 Q&A Why Am I so Concerned About the Affair Partner? 3/20/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safety in the Workplace? 3/20/2019 Q&A Why Is ‘Affair Partner’ the Term We Are Encouraged to Use? 3/20/2019 Q&A Is This Blame Shifting? 3/20/2019 Q&A How Do You Enforce Boundaries? 3/13/2019 Q&A Is an Obsession with Beauty Part of a Deeper Problem? 3/13/2019 Q&A Should I Set Boundaries with Friends during Recovery? 3/13/2019 Q&A What Should I Do about the Double Betrayal? 3/13/2019 Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much? 3/13/2019 Q&A Is It Possible to Reconcile without Love? 3/13/2019 Q&A Is It Possible They Never Had Sex? 3/13/2019 Q&A What Should I Do? 3/13/2019 Q&A Should I Try to Make Amends for My Part in the Failed Recovery? 3/13/2019 Q&A What Are the Best Steps I Need to Take for a Separation? 3/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Open My Heart Again? 3/13/2019 Pages« first‹ previous…343536373839404142…next ›last »
