All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How to Survive Infidelity Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it The Problem with Forgiveness 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity The Power of Small Groups 5033 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Am I Wrong in My Understanding That This Is Financial Infidelity? 8/15/2018 Q&A Am I Making Too Much of the Words My Mate Uses? 8/15/2018 Q&A How Can I Encourage My Spouse to Pursue Healing? 8/15/2018 Q&A Will My Spouse Ever Grow Up? 8/15/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Explain My Shame to My Mate? 8/15/2018 Q&A Do You Think Privacy Has a Place in a Marriage? 8/15/2018 Q&A Can Our Marriage Be Restored? 8/15/2018 Ending an Affair: Close the Door 8/15/2018 Q&A How Can I Let Go of the Hurt from What My Spouse Shared with the Affair Partner? 8/08/2018 Q&A How Do We Rebuild from the Rubble at This Point? 8/08/2018 Q&A How Can Anyone Justify Abandoning the Kids? 8/08/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Explain My Trauma to My Husband? 8/08/2018 Q&A Can You Further Explain Compartmentalization? 8/08/2018 Q&A How Do I Move On? 8/08/2018 Q&A How Can We Heal Our Marriage and Create Safety with Family Members? 8/08/2018 Q&A Is It Worth Doing the EMS Weekend after You've Already Done the Online Version? 8/08/2018 Q&A Do I Need to Do All These Steps? 8/08/2018 Q&A Do I Let Her Go? 8/08/2018 Q&A How Do I Overcome This Vicious Cycle? 8/08/2018 Q&A Is There Hope for Us? 8/08/2018 Q&A Are Things beyond Repair? 8/08/2018 Q&A What Will Happen to My Wayward Spouse If She Never Pursues Healing? 8/08/2018 Q&A How Can I Communicate That It Was Shame That Caused Me to Hide? 8/08/2018 Q&A Why Can’t I Let Go of the Past? 8/08/2018 Q&A Will There Be Mentor Stories with Dynamics Similar to Ours? 8/08/2018 Q&A Is a Marriage Devoid of Sexual Intimacy Doomed? 8/08/2018 Q&A How Are You Supposed to 'Enjoy' Your Mate When There Is so Much Anger and Pain? 8/08/2018 Q&A Why Is My Wayward Spouse Still Curious about the Affair Partner? 8/08/2018 Q&A What Are Some Acceptable 'High Risk' Green Light Behaviors You Can Recommend for Couples? 8/08/2018 Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 8/08/2018 Q&A Should I Cut Ties with Friends That Played a Role in My Mates Affair? 8/01/2018 Q&A Is It Possible to Work on Re-connection While We Are Separated? 8/01/2018 Q&A Should I Be Concerned about My Mates Behavior Patterns? 8/01/2018 Q&A How Can My Mate Help Restore My Honor? 8/01/2018 Q&A Are We Doing Something Wrong in Our Recovery Process? 8/01/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate with the Challenges of Intrusive Sexual Thoughts? 8/01/2018 Q&A Is There Hope for Us? 8/01/2018 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Ambivalence in Our Situation? 8/01/2018 Q&A How Do I Approach My Mate about My Suspicion of an Affair? 8/01/2018 Is it Love or Infatuation? 7/25/2018 Q&A How Do I Keep from Making Things Worse? 7/23/2018 Q&A What Can I Do to Better Understand My Betrayed Mate? 7/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Respond to the Disconnect between the Two of Us? 7/23/2018 Q&A Should We Be Sexually Intimate during Recovery? 7/23/2018 Q&A Is Our Relationship Too Broken? 7/23/2018 Q&A Can You Suggest Ways to Address Our Issues? 7/23/2018 Q&A Is the Affair the Problem or a Symptom? 7/23/2018 Q&A Am I over Acting or Asking for Too Much? 7/23/2018 Q&A How Can You Ever Get over Triggers When They Are All around You? 7/23/2018 How Do I Handle My Lack of Sexual Desire? 7/23/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…444546474849505152…next ›last »