All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse The Problem with Forgiveness Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 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Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 5004 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Could This Be the End? 2/15/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: How Do I Handle the Abrupt Emotional Changes? 2/15/2017 Q&A Do You Think I'll Ever Feel Safe given These Circumstances? 2/15/2017 Q&A Where do I go from Here? I'm Hesitant to Attend EMS Weekend. 2/08/2017 Q&A How do I Release and Let Go of the Shame? 2/08/2017 Q&A What can I do to Deal with His Actions Toward Me? 2/08/2017 Q&A Can I Speak to the Affair Partner in this Situation? 2/08/2017 Q&A How can we Help Her Heal from Her Past Actions? 2/08/2017 Q&A Should I Stay for the Kids and Just Deal with His Online Struggles? 2/08/2017 Q&A Are his Recovery Steps Sufficient or is Something Missing? 2/08/2017 Q&A How can we Achieve Transparency Without me Policing my Husband? 2/08/2017 Q&A Can you Offer some Advice for Our Complex Situation? 2/08/2017 Q&A How can I Work Through the Difficulties Regarding my Husband Leaving me for his Affair Partner? 2/08/2017 Q&A How can I Regain Positive Feelings Towards the Man Who Betrayed Me? 2/08/2017 Q&A How can Our Marriage Heal When Mental Illness Prevents Rational Affair Related Conversations? 2/08/2017 Q&A What Would you Suggest for Us to Reconnect Emotionally? 2/08/2017 Q&A What can I do Now that I Feel Doomed to an Unfulfilled Married Life? 2/08/2017 Q&A Can you Help me Understand Men and Intimacy Avoidance? 2/08/2017 Q&A He Desires the Affair Partner but is Choosing me Because it's the Right Thing to do. What do I do with that? 2/08/2017 Q&A Should I Actively Fight my Apathy Towards my Husband or Will it Break Down Naturally? 2/08/2017 Q&A Could you Share Your Story? 2/08/2017 Q&A What can I Expect in Regards to my Wife Changing her Negative Historical Lens of Our Marriage? 2/08/2017 Q&A How do I Move Past Knowing that My Wife Shared our Marital Bed with Another Man and he Shared His with Her? 2/08/2017 Q&A How can I Effectively Set a No Touch Boundary with My Husband? 2/08/2017 Q&A How do I Move Past the Fact that I May Not Have Full Disclosure? 2/08/2017 Q&A How can I Set Boundaries Without Fear of Him Returning to the Affair Partner? 2/08/2017 Q&A How do I Disclose to my Unfaithful Husband that I'm Leaving? 2/08/2017 Q&A How do I Let go of my Desire to See Him Suffer and Broken? 2/08/2017 Q&A How Could he go from Loving Her and Hating Me to Loving Me and Hating Her? 2/08/2017 The Valentine’s Day After Syndrome 2/08/2017 Q&A What Should I Do as the Unfaithful When Triggers Arise? 2/02/2017 Q&A Do you Plan to Update the Married for Life Curriculum Soon? 2/02/2017 Q&A Thankful my Skeletons are All Out, But Where do I go from Here? 2/02/2017 Q&A How can I Change my Negative Thoughts Before Launching into Anger? 2/02/2017 Q&A How do Our Children and I Cope While Waiting for Him to Choose Us? 2/02/2017 Q&A How can I Stop my Victim Thinking and Take Ownership for my Issues? 1/24/2017 Q&A How can a Betrayed Spouse Show Compassion for an Unempathetic Unfaithful Spouse? 1/24/2017 Q&A What is it that I'm Sacrificing as the Unfaithful Spouse? 1/24/2017 Q&A How do I Know if He is Serious About Reconciliation? 1/24/2017 Q&A How can I Move Past the Humiliation and Shame of Being Betrayed? 1/24/2017 Q&A How do we Respond to bad Dreams that Cause Triggers and Flooding? 1/24/2017 Q&A Is it Time to Move Forward so He Doesn't Hold me Back? 1/24/2017 Q&A I Want Sex but Not with my Spouse; Will a Separation Help? 1/18/2017 Q&A Can We Find Fresh Love Again? 1/18/2017 Q&A Would it be Best Overall if we Divorced so he Could Pursue his Affair Partner? 1/18/2017 Q&A How do we Start an Accountability Group? 1/11/2017 Q&A What can I do in the Mean Time to Change how I Feel? 1/11/2017 Q&A How can I Show my Wife I'm Trying to Learn Empathy? 1/11/2017 Q&A How do I Function Normally in the World when I'm Actually a Sex Addict? 1/11/2017 Q&A Is it my Fear or my Gut Causing me to Not Believe Him? 1/11/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…646566676869707172…next ›last »