For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse The Power of Small Groups Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? The Problem with Forgiveness How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How to Survive Infidelity Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 1283 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Get over My Husband's past Behavior? 2/14/2020 Q&A Is the Affair a Result of My Mates Addiction Issues? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Do I Protect Myself from Getting an STD If My Husband Has Another Affair Again? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Can I Move on after He Was so Intentional in Hurting Me? 2/11/2020 Q&A Is There Any Reason for Me to Contact My Mates Affair Partner? 2/11/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband's Response to the Truth in Love Exercise? 2/11/2020 Q&A How Can I Get My Wayward Spouse to End the Affair? 2/11/2020 Q&A How Do I Stop Comparing Myself to the Affair Partner? 2/11/2020 Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to See the Time during the Affair as Something Other Than Tainted or Fake? 2/11/2020 Q&A How Do I Know She Believes What I Say? 1/31/2020 Q&A What Is Hindering My Mate from Showing Empathy? 1/31/2020 Q&A How Do I Confront My Husband? 1/31/2020 Q&A Why Did His Guilt over the Affair Partner Win out over Me and Our Marriage? 1/31/2020 Q&A How Do I Get past the Things I Think He Might Have Said to Her? 1/31/2020 Q&A Was I Wrong for Questioning Him or Is There a Better Way I Could’ve Approached This? 1/16/2020 Q&A What Does Transparency, Accountability, and External Controls Look like in Recovery? 1/16/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal with My Husband Sharing Specific Details about Me with His Affair Partner? 1/16/2020 Q&A When Do I Know That It’s Time for Me to Leave? 1/16/2020 Q&A How Do I Get past the Different Versions of the Story? 1/09/2020 Q&A How Can I Ever Trust Again without Knowing the Full Truth? 1/09/2020 Q&A Am I Expecting Too Much from My Wayward Spouse? 1/03/2020 Q&A Can I Trust That the Affair Is Really Over? 1/03/2020 Q&A How Long Should I Stay and Work on the Relationship before Leaving? 1/02/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal with My Feelings and My PTSD? 1/02/2020 Q&A Will the Hope for Healing Course Be Effective for My Husband? 1/02/2020 Q&A Why Does the Affair Partner Want to Meet Me? 1/02/2020 Q&A How Can I Get My Wayward Spouse to Understand That This Is a Big Deal? 12/19/2019 Q&A Should I Continue Trying to Convince My Wayward Spouse to Seek Counseling? 12/19/2019 Q&A Why Would My Husband Lie about His Desire for Me? 12/16/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safety During Military Deployment? 12/16/2019 Q&A My Husband Is Having a Hard Time Recommitting. What Can I Do? 12/16/2019 Q&A How Can I Overcome the Intrusive Thoughts during the Holidays? 12/05/2019 Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Numb after so Much Trickle Truth? 12/05/2019 Q&A How Can I Begin to Trust with All of the Trickle Truth Happening? 12/05/2019 Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Rebuilding My Self-Image? 11/22/2019 Q&A How Do I Know Who My Mate Really Is? 11/22/2019 Q&A (HH) What Is Your Opinion on Attending My Mates Therapy Sessions? 11/22/2019 Q&A Could You Talk a Little Bit about Emotional Self-Regulation? 11/22/2019 Q&A How Can I Get Past Being Stuck? 11/22/2019 Q&A How Can I Ever Desire My Mate When I Can't Forget What Happened? 11/22/2019 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Why My Mate Won't Make Amends? 11/22/2019 Q&A At What Point Do the Thoughts, Feelings, and Mental Pictures Go Away? 11/21/2019 Q&A How Can I Feel Safe after My Mates Relapse? 11/14/2019 Q&A Can My Mate Ever Be Safe Again? 11/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Get over Never Knowing When the Affair Started? 11/13/2019 Q&A What Do You Do If Your Spouse Truly Believes They Do Not Have a Problem or Addiction? 11/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Recover from a Double Betrayal? 11/13/2019 Q&A Will My Husband Ever Stop Thinking of His Affair Partner? 11/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Extend Grace to My Wayward Husband 11/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Wrap My Head around This When Nothing Seems to Fit Our Situation? 11/06/2019 Pages« first‹ previous…101112131415161718…next ›last »
