Q&A Recovery Library

Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally.
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Video icon Q&A Why Doesn’t It Seem He Wants a Healthy Wife and Be Safe for Her?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Help My Mate Understand That He Has Always Been Enough for Me?
Video icon Q&A Why Is My Mate Giving Minimal Effort to Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Could Sex Mean Something with Me When My Mate Still Wanted It with Someone Else?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know When to Avoid Reminders and When to Push through Them?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Manage Recovery from Both My Affair My Mates Addiction?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Reach Honesty without Creating Triggers?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Move Forward in Forgiving Myself?
Video icon Q&A What Methods Do You Recommend for Restoring Trust?
Video icon Q&A Are My Feelings a Step Backward?
Video icon Q&A Is This Gaslighting? If So, How Do I Respond?
Video icon Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Overcome the Triggers?
Video icon Q&A What Advice Would You Give around Our Recovery Efforts?
Video icon Q&A What Might Be the Reasons for My Ex-Wife's Relational Pattern?
Video icon Q&A How Do I View D-Day as the Date He Chose Me Rather Than the Day He Was Leaving Me?
Video icon Q&A Have I Done Enough on My Part to Try and Heal ‘Us’?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Prevent Relapse in This Work Situation?
Video icon Q&A Can I Heal If My Husband Is Not Completely Safe?
Video icon Q&A What Is the True Meaning of ‘Being Safe’ for the Injured Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Set Effective Boundaries as Someone Who Is Conflict Avoidant?
Video icon Q&A Is It Time to Let Go and Move On?
Video icon Q&A What Should I Do about My Wayward Spouse's Regression during Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Keep the Affair Partner from Pursuing My Spouse?
Video icon Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Finding Community during Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Why Shouldn't the Betrayed Spouse Confront the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle the Fact That My Husband’s ‘Safe Place’ for Porn and Masturbation Has Primarily Been at Work?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get over My Husband's past Behavior?
Video icon Q&A What Should I Do?
Video icon Q&A Is the Affair a Result of My Mates Addiction Issues?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Protect Myself from Getting an STD If My Husband Has Another Affair Again?
Video icon Q&A What Do We Do After EMS Online?
Video icon Q&A Is It Wise to Refrain from Sex with My Mate in This Situation?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Move on after He Was so Intentional in Hurting Me?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Anxiety as My Wife Learns How to Share?
Video icon Q&A Is There Any Reason for Me to Contact My Mates Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband's Response to the Truth in Love Exercise?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Get My Wayward Spouse to End the Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop Comparing Myself to the Affair Partner?
Video icon Expert Q&A Preview: What Is Hysterical Bonding and Is It a Bad Thing If You Both Want to Stay in Your Marriage?
Video icon Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to See the Time during the Affair as Something Other Than Tainted or Fake?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know She Believes What I Say?
Video icon Q&A Why Do I Keep Looking for Hope When There's No Reason Too?
Video icon Q&A What Is Hindering My Mate from Showing Empathy?
Video icon Q&A When and How Do We Work through Triggers and Who Pursues Who in Our Marriage?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Confront My Husband?
Video icon Q&A What Recommendations Do You Have for Creating Safety with This Particular Trigger?
Video icon Q&A Should My Mate Be Cautious of the Comparison Questions She Is Asking?
Video icon Q&A How Long Does It Take to Become a New Person in Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Why Did His Guilt over the Affair Partner Win out over Me and Our Marriage?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get past the Things I Think He Might Have Said to Her?