Q&A Recovery Library
Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally.
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Video Q&A What If the Only Way I Can Heal Is without Horizontal Forgiveness? 4/12/2023
Video Q&A How Do We Handle Workplace Triggers in Recovery? 4/12/2023
Video Q&A Do You Think My Spouse Is Being Honest about Why They Stayed in the Affair for So Long? 4/12/2023
Video Q&A What Is the Best Way for Us to Utilize EMS Online since We Have Both Been Unfaithful? 4/12/2023
Video Q&A What Type of Affair Is This? 4/12/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Cope with My Own Issues of Needing to Feel Understood by My Husband as the Wayward Spouse? 4/12/2023
Video Q&A How Can Someone Who Has Become Such an Accomplished Liar Prove to the Betrayed Spouse That They Can Be Trusted? 4/12/2023
Video Q&A How Do You Discern If a Person Is Truly Remorseful and Changing When They Relapse into Blaming the Betrayed? 4/12/2023
Video Q&A Is It Possible for the Individual to Find Healing and Purpose Even If the Marriage Doesn’t Survive? 3/17/2023
Video Q&A How Do We Handle a Paternity Test for a Child Born Years Ago? 3/17/2023
Video Q&A Does My Husband’s Sexual Performance Indicate a Serious Issue? 3/17/2023
Video Q&A Is My Lack of Emotion Normal or Am I Experiencing Something Much Worse? 3/17/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Handle My Spouse’s Siblings? 3/17/2023
Video Q&A Do We Have a Chance at Recovery If He Is Unable to Understand How Trauma Can Impact Me? 3/17/2023
Video Q&A Why Does He Tell Me I Am the Only Girl and Will Be Faithful When He Continues to See Other Women? 3/17/2023
Video Q&A Does My Mate Have a Sexual Addiction? 3/17/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Approach This Polygraph without Feeling like My Marriage Is on the Line? 3/17/2023
Video Q&A How Do Social Engagement and Our Nervous Systems Work Together? 3/02/2023
Video Q&A How Can I Convince My Mate That I’m Not Talking to the Affair Partner? 3/02/2023
Video Q&A What Action Do You Recommend If My Mates Behavior Doesn’t Change? 3/02/2023
Video Q&A Do You Think There Is an Appropriate Methodology of Trying to Recall Some of This Using Hypnosis? 2/17/2023
Video Q&A How Do We Handle Pregnancy So Close to Discovery? 2/17/2023
Video Q&A How Can I Help My Spouse Acknowledge That Being in an Affair for So Long Has Affected the Way They See Themselves, Me, and Our Relationship Sexually? 2/17/2023
Video Q&A How Long Typically Does It Take for a Betrayed Spouse to Forgive Their Unfaithful Spouse If the Unfaithful Spouse Is Doing the Work to Reconcile? 2/17/2023
Video Q&A Can You Further Explain How to Determine and Address What Could Have Led to My Husband’s Affair? 2/17/2023
Video Q&A How Do We Navigate My Sister Being the Affair Partner? 1/26/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Explain Disassociation and It’s Part in the Affair? 1/26/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband’s Enjoyment of Porn? 1/26/2023
Video Q&A Does This Type of Repeated Behavior Indicate an Addiction or Wanting Both the Marriage and the Affair, or Both? 1/26/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Help My Husband Understand the Effects of Trauma While Also Letting Him See That It Is Not an Excuse for My Actions? 1/11/2023
Video Q&A What Kind of Affair Is This? 1/11/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Explain That My Childhood Trauma Triggered My Actions and Doesn’t Remove My Accountability Even If I Did Disassociate? 1/11/2023
Video Q&A Will My Children Lose Respect for Me If I Reconcile? 1/11/2023
Video Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate Weaponizing Information That I’m Sharing with Them? 1/11/2023
Video Q&A What Can I Do, as the Betrayed, to Try and Get Closure? 1/11/2023
Video Q&A How Do You Handle Having OCD and a Sexual Addiction at the Same Time? 1/11/2023
Video Q&A Are My Boundaries for My Spouse Unreasonable? 1/11/2023
Video Q&A What Is a Realistic Timeline for My Own Recovery with C-PTSD and Childhood Trauma and Being Able to Answer Every Specifically Detailed ‘Why'? 1/11/2023
Video Q&A How Can He Have No Feelings for the Affair Partner or Not Remember How He Expressed Feelings for Her? 1/11/2023
Video Q&A Am I Wrong to Feel Suspicious or Am I Jumping to Conclusions? 12/06/2022
Video Q&A Does My Wayward Spouse Need Closure with Their Affair Partner? 12/06/2022
Video Q&A Is It Productive to Healing and Reconciliation for the Unfaithful to Withhold Sex? 12/06/2022
Video Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate Who Won’t Be Open with Me? 12/06/2022
Video Q&A Do I Keep It to Myself When I Get Triggered? 12/06/2022
Video Q&A How Can We Get Anywhere If a Calm Conversation Can’t Happen about His Recovery or Betrayals? 12/06/2022
Video Q&A Does a More Regular Use of Porn Increase the Likelihood of Cheating? 12/06/2022
Video Q&A If He Was Having an Affair to Get Some Sort of Thrill or Feeling from That Person Why Did He Constantly Want My Attention Too? 12/06/2022
Video Q&A How Important Is It to Interrupt Intrusive Thoughts within 3 Seconds? 12/06/2022
Video Q&A How Can You Connect during a Structured In-House Separation? 12/06/2022
Video Q&A How Can My Spouse Work with the Affair Partner and Still Be Okay? 12/06/2022

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