Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? How to Survive Infidelity The Power of Small Groups 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it The Problem with Forgiveness Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair 1081 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Do Revenge Affairs Help the Unfaithful 'Get it'? 7/01/2016 Q&A How Can I Assure My Betrayed Mate of My Good Intentions? 7/01/2016 Q&A What is Realistic in Terms of Time Spent Talking About it? 7/01/2016 Q&A Isn't this Behavior a Red Flag for the Future? 6/28/2016 Q&A How can I Ensure My Mate's Safety With Me? 6/28/2016 Q&A How do We Prevent Hopelessness for the Unfaithful? 6/28/2016 Q&A How Should I Continue From Here? 6/21/2016 Q&A Is This a Non-Negotiable? 6/21/2016 Q&A Is This an Unsafe Person? 6/21/2016 Q&A How Far to Rock Bottom? 6/21/2016 Q&A Infidelity or Betrayal? 6/21/2016 Q&A Can There be Repentance While in an Affair? 6/21/2016 Q&A Can You Give Me Guidance With My Assignment? 6/14/2016 Q&A Is it Possible to Move Forward With These Details? 6/14/2016 Q&A How Do I Convince My Mate That I'm Sincere? 6/14/2016 Q&A What About Financial Safety? 6/14/2016 Q&A Is Counseling Necessary? 6/14/2016 Q&A How Can I Communicate His Lack of Consistency? 6/14/2016 Q&A How Do You Begin Recovery? 6/06/2016 Q&A How do We Handle the First Weeks After Discovery? 6/06/2016 Q&A What Do You Suggest I Do? 6/03/2016 Q&A What Do I Do Without Honesty? 6/03/2016 Q&A Is Waiting for Remorse a Fool's Errand? 6/03/2016 Q&A In What Ways Can I Transform the Pain? 6/03/2016 Q&A What's the Right Thing to Do Here? 6/03/2016 Q&A Should I Leave and Work on Me? 6/03/2016 Q&A Am I Making a Federal Case Out of a Misdemeanor? 6/03/2016 Q&A What Direction Should I Take? 6/03/2016 Q&A Should I Expose Them? 6/03/2016 Q&A Am I Avoiding the Pain? 5/26/2016 Q&A What Can I Do About My Friends? 5/26/2016 Q&A Can an Addict Love Unconditionally? 5/26/2016 Q&A How Can We Talk When My Buttons Are Pushed? 5/17/2016 Q&A Should I Bail Out? 5/17/2016 Q&A Are Simultaneous Affairs a Red Flag for Addiction? 5/17/2016 Q&A How Could a Polygraph be a Threat if there is Nothing to Hide? 5/17/2016 Q&A Does Safety Take Practice? 5/17/2016 Q&A How Can I Believe My Spouse Now? 5/17/2016 Q&A How Can I Feel Her Love When She Does This? 5/10/2016 Q&A I Need Confirmation. Should I Leave Him? 5/10/2016 Q&A Any Advice to Help With the Flooding? 5/10/2016 Q&A Should We Achieve Full Disclosure Now or Wait? 5/10/2016 Q&A Suggestions for a Stalker? 5/10/2016 Q&A Am I Addicted to Limerance? 5/03/2016 Q&A Will This Method of Disclosure Cause me More Harm? 5/03/2016 Q&A How Can I Believe in Myself and the Honest Attempts of my Spouse? 5/03/2016 Q&A What do you Suggest for Counseling and EMS Online? 5/03/2016 Q&A Are the Unfaithful Triggered by Contact? 4/28/2016 Q&A How Long Should I Wait for My Spouse to Return? 4/28/2016 Q&A What Will the Future Hold in This Scenario? 4/28/2016 Pages« first‹ previous…131415161718192021next ›last »