Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair The Problem with Forgiveness How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Power of Small Groups Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 1088 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What if My Mate Isn't Committed to the EMSO Contract? 7/19/2016 Q&A How do We Reconcile Plans of Sobriety With Safety in the Marriage? 7/19/2016 Q&A How Can We Move Forward While There is Still Lying to My Face? 7/13/2016 Q&A What Should I Do About My Mate's Following This Unhealthy Site? 7/13/2016 Q&A How do I Translate Knowledge Into Action? 7/12/2016 Q&A Am I To Believe He No Longer Struggles? 7/12/2016 Q&A Do We Talk About the Affair or Marriage? 7/12/2016 Q&A Did I Extend Too Much Trust Too Soon? 7/12/2016 Q&A Do Revenge Affairs Help the Unfaithful 'Get it'? 7/01/2016 Q&A How Can I Assure My Betrayed Mate of My Good Intentions? 7/01/2016 Q&A What is Realistic in Terms of Time Spent Talking About it? 7/01/2016 Q&A Isn't this Behavior a Red Flag for the Future? 6/28/2016 Q&A How can I Ensure My Mate's Safety With Me? 6/28/2016 Q&A How do We Prevent Hopelessness for the Unfaithful? 6/28/2016 Q&A How Should I Continue From Here? 6/21/2016 Q&A Is This a Non-Negotiable? 6/21/2016 Q&A Is This an Unsafe Person? 6/21/2016 Q&A How Far to Rock Bottom? 6/21/2016 Q&A Infidelity or Betrayal? 6/21/2016 Q&A Can There be Repentance While in an Affair? 6/21/2016 Q&A Can You Give Me Guidance With My Assignment? 6/14/2016 Q&A Is it Possible to Move Forward With These Details? 6/14/2016 Q&A How Do I Convince My Mate That I'm Sincere? 6/14/2016 Q&A What About Financial Safety? 6/14/2016 Q&A Is Counseling Necessary? 6/14/2016 Q&A How Can I Communicate His Lack of Consistency? 6/14/2016 Q&A How Do You Begin Recovery? 6/06/2016 Q&A How do We Handle the First Weeks After Discovery? 6/06/2016 Q&A What Do I Do Without Honesty? 6/03/2016 Q&A What Do You Suggest I Do? 6/03/2016 Q&A Is Waiting for Remorse a Fool's Errand? 6/03/2016 Q&A In What Ways Can I Transform the Pain? 6/03/2016 Q&A What's the Right Thing to Do Here? 6/03/2016 Q&A Should I Leave and Work on Me? 6/03/2016 Q&A Am I Making a Federal Case Out of a Misdemeanor? 6/03/2016 Q&A What Direction Should I Take? 6/03/2016 Q&A Should I Expose Them? 6/03/2016 Q&A Am I Avoiding the Pain? 5/26/2016 Q&A What Can I Do About My Friends? 5/26/2016 Q&A Can an Addict Love Unconditionally? 5/26/2016 Q&A How Can We Talk When My Buttons Are Pushed? 5/17/2016 Q&A Should I Bail Out? 5/17/2016 Q&A Are Simultaneous Affairs a Red Flag for Addiction? 5/17/2016 Q&A How Could a Polygraph be a Threat if there is Nothing to Hide? 5/17/2016 Q&A Does Safety Take Practice? 5/17/2016 Q&A How Can I Believe My Spouse Now? 5/17/2016 Q&A How Can I Feel Her Love When She Does This? 5/10/2016 Q&A I Need Confirmation. Should I Leave Him? 5/10/2016 Q&A Any Advice to Help With the Flooding? 5/10/2016 Q&A Should We Achieve Full Disclosure Now or Wait? 5/10/2016 Pages« first‹ previous…131415161718192021next ›last »
