Safety in Recovery
The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do.
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1047 Resources
Type Title Posted
Video Q&A Should I Bail Out? 5/17/2016
Video Q&A Are Simultaneous Affairs a Red Flag for Addiction? 5/17/2016
Video Q&A How Could a Polygraph be a Threat if there is Nothing to Hide? 5/17/2016
Video Q&A Does Safety Take Practice? 5/17/2016
Video Q&A How Can I Believe My Spouse Now? 5/17/2016
Video Q&A How Can I Feel Her Love When She Does This? 5/10/2016
Video Q&A I Need Confirmation. Should I Leave Him? 5/10/2016
Video Q&A Any Advice to Help With the Flooding? 5/10/2016
Video Q&A Should We Achieve Full Disclosure Now or Wait? 5/10/2016
Video Q&A Suggestions for a Stalker? 5/10/2016
Video Q&A Am I Addicted to Limerance? 5/03/2016
Video Q&A Will This Method of Disclosure Cause me More Harm? 5/03/2016
Video Q&A How Can I Believe in Myself and the Honest Attempts of my Spouse? 5/03/2016
Video Q&A What do you Suggest for Counseling and EMS Online? 5/03/2016
Audio Q&A Are the Unfaithful Triggered by Contact? 4/28/2016
Audio Q&A How Long Should I Wait for My Spouse to Return? 4/28/2016
Audio Q&A What Will the Future Hold in This Scenario? 4/28/2016
Audio Q&A How Can I Feel Safety in an Unsafe Environment? 4/28/2016
Audio Q&A Is My Newfound Independence Bad for Reconciliation? 4/28/2016
Audio Q&A What Should I Be Looking for From My Spouse to Feel Safe? 4/28/2016
Video Q&A At What Point is Reconciliation Not Possible? 4/26/2016
Video Q&A What Else Can We do For Support? 4/26/2016
Video Q&A How Can We Get Past This Issue? 4/13/2016
Video Q&A Can You Help With the Unfaithful's Lack of Empathy? 4/13/2016
Video Q&A How Can I Help Him Understand My Need? 4/13/2016
Audio Q&A (HH) Any Advice for Our Disclosure Challenges? 3/24/2016
Audio Q&A (HH) Should I 'Know' Who She is? 3/24/2016
Audio Q&A (HH) How do You Know if Your Unfaithful Spouse is Taking Responsibility or Still Lying? 3/24/2016
Audio Q&A (HH) Can You Recommend a Conflict Resolution Plan for Us? 3/24/2016
Audio Q&A (HH) How Can I Check Into My Spouse's Business Phone? 3/24/2016
Audio Q&A (HH) Can You Offer Me Any Other Advice? 3/24/2016
Audio Q&A (HH) How do You Know When to Invite an Unfaithful Spouse Home? 3/24/2016
Audio Q&A (HH) When Should We Start Couples Counseling? 3/24/2016
Video Q&A How do I Help My Unfaithful Spouse? 3/21/2016
Video Q&A How Does He Disconnect From Her and How Do We Reconnect? 3/21/2016
Video Q&A Has Anyone Experienced This Double Betrayal? 3/21/2016
Video Q&A How Can They Say They Won't do it Again if They Don't Even Know the Why? 3/15/2016
Video Q&A Can She Do More for Me? 3/15/2016
Video Q&A When is it Appropriate to Set Boundaries Confrontationally? 3/01/2016
Video Q&A Are These Red Flags for Relapse? 3/01/2016
Video Q&A What is the Right Thing to do in this Relationship? 3/01/2016
Video Q&A What's in the Best Interest of the Child? 3/01/2016
Audio Q&A Are these Boundaries Reasonable? 2/26/2016
Audio Q&A Should I Confront my Former Best Friend, the Affair Partner? 2/26/2016
Video Q&A Any Practical Advice for Our Cycle? 2/23/2016
Video Q&A Is this the AP's Manipulation? 2/09/2016
Video Q&A Can a Sex Addict With This History be a Danger to Their Own Children? 2/09/2016
Video Q&A Should we Both Make Changes to be Safe? 2/09/2016
Video Q&A Would it be Wise to Stop Asking Questions Now? 2/09/2016
Video Q&A Am I Wrong for Making Him do This? 2/09/2016