All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery The Power of Small Groups Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 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Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 5060 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Do Wayward Spouses Sometimes Use Marriage Deficits to Justify an Affair and Ending a Marriage? 8/06/2020 Q&A Do Men Actually Not Engage Their Heart? 8/06/2020 Q&A How Can I Take Control of the Intrusive Thoughts? 8/06/2020 Q&A How Can a Straight Woman Have a Same-Sex Affair? 8/06/2020 Q&A Can You Heal from Pornography Addiction without Therapy? 8/06/2020 Q&A Is It Important for Me to Actually Tell Him That I Have Forgiven Him? 8/06/2020 Q&A How Do I Cope, Accept, and Reconcile with the Reckless Choice My Husband Made? 8/06/2020 Q&A How Can My Spouse and I Resume Having and Acting on the Desire for Sexual Intimacy in Our Marriage? 8/06/2020 Q&A Can You Explain to Me Why They Felt the Need to Have Sex Given Their Anxiety? 8/06/2020 Q&A Is He Really Healing If He’s Thinking of the Affair Partner as a Friend? 8/06/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal with My Husband Moving Forward with the Affair Partner? 8/06/2020 Q&A How Could Things Have Been So Bad and I Be So Oblivious to the Point I Thought Everything Was Good? 8/06/2020 Q&A Why Can't My Husband Show Any Affection If He Says He Loves Me? 8/06/2020 Q&A Are All Marriages Worth Saving? 7/30/2020 Q&A How Can We Adapt the Travel Plan for the Wayward Spouse Staying at Home While the Betrayed Is Away? 7/30/2020 Q&A How Can I Feel Safe Again? 7/30/2020 Q&A How Can We Move Forward When We Have Both Been Unfaithful? 7/30/2020 Q&A Is This Normal or Is There Something Wrong with Me? 7/30/2020 Q&A Are We at Risk of Not Fully Recovering? 7/30/2020 Q&A How Do I Create Safety for Myself When My Vulnerability Was Abused? 7/28/2020 Q&A How Do I Regain Respect and Admiration for My Husband? 7/28/2020 Q&A How Do I Help My Betrayed Spouse Get past the Anger? 7/28/2020 Q&A What More Can I Do to Overcome This Trauma? 7/28/2020 Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Heal and Overcome Triggers If the Affair Partner Continues to Flirt with My Husband? 7/16/2020 Q&A Why Do I, as the Wayward Spouse, Treat My Wife with Hateful and Cruel Comments When We Argue? 7/16/2020 Q&A How Can I Feel Safe When There Is No Empathy? 7/16/2020 Q&A Should We Separate If My Mate Is Still Unsafe? 7/16/2020 Q&A How Do You Deal with Triggers That Just Can't Be Avoided? 7/16/2020 Q&A What Continued Work Do You Recommend for the Years to Come? 7/16/2020 Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust with Someone Who Is Constantly Keeping Secrets and Lying? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust with Someone Who Is Constantly Keeping Secrets and Lying? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Long Do You Suggest Waiting, Post Discovery, to Have a Child Together? 7/09/2020 Q&A Am I Letting Myself Be Abused Again? 7/09/2020 Q&A Is This a Psychological Behavior You Have Seen Before? 7/09/2020 Q&A Can You Help with Intrusive Thoughts? 7/09/2020 Q&A What Do You Do for the Wayward Spouse's Trauma? 7/09/2020 Q&A As the Wayward Spouse, How Can I Rebuild Trust with My Husband? 7/09/2020 Q&A Is There Any Hope for a Wayward Spouse, Who Pretends He Has Stopped Communication with the Affair Partner, but Refuses to Be Accountable and Continues to Gaslight? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Can a Betrayed Spouse Be Happier Than They Were before the Affair? 7/09/2020 Q&A What Happens If My Spouse Won't Acknowledge the Relationship as an Affair? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Do I Get Unstuck? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Do I Get Rid of the Compulsion to Contact My Wayward Spouse? 7/09/2020 Q&A Am I Wrong to Expect Him to Work His Way Back to My Heart? 7/09/2020 Q&A Is the Relationship Worth Salvaging? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle Wanting and Getting Comfort From My Spouse Who Is the One That Caused So Much Pain? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Do I Heal and Move Forward in My Marriage Without Knowing Why He Made Those Choices? 7/09/2020 Q&A Is it Safe to Stay? 7/09/2020 Q&A What Can I Tell Him to Do for Me If I Can’t Trust Anything He Says or Does? 7/09/2020 Q&A At What Point Does a Serious Case of Narcissism in the Unfaithful Need to Be Considered Unsafe for the Betrayed Spouse to Even Consider Reconciliation? 7/09/2020 Q&A Should I Be Expected to Provide Affair-Partner-Level Intensity? 7/09/2020 Pages« first‹ previous…192021222324252627…next ›last »
