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Why do I Feel Betrayed? 9/28/2016 Q&A How Can I Productively Let My Spouse Know Our Current Reality After His Affairs? 9/28/2016 Q&A Can We Heal Without Counseling or Other Work After Their Affair? 9/28/2016 Q&A How Can I Handle My Wife Not Being Intimate After Her Affair? 9/28/2016 Q&A My Husband Insists We Move Forward Without Discussing the Affair. Is it Possible? 9/22/2016 Q&A Should We Wait to Discuss the Affair and Work on Ourselves First? 9/22/2016 Q&A Which Anniversary do We Celebrate After Infidelity? 9/22/2016 Q&A Any Reassurance that I'm Not Totally Abnormal Sexually? 9/14/2016 Q&A How Can I Not Blame Myself for Their Affair? 9/14/2016 Q&A I Feel Unloved, He Feels Unappreciated, How Can We Heal? 9/14/2016 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand the Strange Emotional Place I'm In? 9/14/2016 Q&A Should I Quit My Job to Help My Mate Heal After My Affair? 9/14/2016 The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 9/11/2016 The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 9/11/2016 Q&A Is it Possible to Move Past My Spouse Having an Affair on Our Anniversary? 9/07/2016 Q&A Should I Let Go or is This Normal Behavior? 9/07/2016 Q&A Could My Mate Not Have the Emotional Capacity to Recover? 9/07/2016 Q&A Will I Ever Feel Special Given Our History Now? 9/07/2016 Q&A How Do I Face This Challenge With My Father-in-Law? 8/30/2016 Q&A Will the Larger Problems be Addressed? 8/30/2016 Q&A How Can I Show My Spouse the Benefits of Small Groups? 8/30/2016 Q&A How Can I Move Past My Fear? 8/24/2016 Q&A Why Does My Mate's Disclosure Not Make Sense? 8/24/2016 Q&A What Can I Do Now That I Feel it's No Longer a Real Marriage? 8/24/2016 Overcoming Trauma after Infidelity at EMS Weekend, Interviewing an Expert 8/24/2016 Q&A What Are Reasonable Expectations for My Unfaithful Spouse? 8/03/2016 Q&A Should I Hear My Mate's Feelings for the Affair Partner 8/03/2016 Q&A When Will the Loving Feelings Return? 8/03/2016 Q&A Does He Want Me or Are the Words Empty? 8/03/2016 Q&A Can He Really Not Remember What Happened? 8/03/2016 Q&A What's the Harm in Separating During EMS Online? 7/26/2016 Q&A While in an Affair, Does it Contribute to Marital Issues? 7/26/2016 Pages« first‹ previous…161718192021222324…next ›last »