All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Power of Small Groups The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain How to Survive Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision The Problem with Forgiveness Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 5017 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do We Both Deal with My Mates Shame? 9/26/2018 Q&A What Good Can Come from Loving an Addict? 9/26/2018 Q&A How Can We Make Discovery Safe? 9/26/2018 Q&A I Feel Stuck in My Mates Recovery. What Should I Do? 9/26/2018 Q&A Can You Address Narcissism with Infidelity? 9/26/2018 Q&A How Can We Move past This Slump in Recovery? 9/26/2018 Q&A What Boundaries Can We Set around This Relationship? 9/26/2018 Q&A How Do I Stop These Behaviors? 9/26/2018 Q&A Is It Normal to Have Zero Interest in Reconciliation? 9/26/2018 Q&A Why Is My Mate Reacting This Way? 9/26/2018 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Contacting the Affair Partner on Behalf of Your Spouse? 9/26/2018 Q&A Am I Being Too Nice? 9/26/2018 Q&A How Do I Find Hope for Our Relationship When It Feels so Hopeless? 9/20/2018 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Trauma and PTSD? 9/20/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate with Rejection? 9/20/2018 Q&A How Can I Protect Myself from My Mates Unsafe Behaviors? 9/20/2018 Q&A Is It Wrong That My Depression Has Lasted so Long? 9/20/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand? 9/20/2018 Q&A Why Is My Mate Encouraging a Revenge Affair? 9/20/2018 Q&A How Can I Approach My Mates Fears in a Healthy Way? 9/20/2018 Q&A How Can I Differentiate Fact from Fiction? 9/20/2018 Q&A How Do I Move Forward? 9/20/2018 Q&A How Does Alcohol Addiction Affect Recovery? 9/20/2018 Q&A Does My Marriage Have a Chance of Making It? 9/20/2018 Q&A What Type of Boundaries Can I Set for My Wife Who Has Had an Affair with Co-Worker? 9/20/2018 Q&A Is It Wrong to Tell My Spouse That I’ve Given Her a Gift by Staying? 9/20/2018 Q&A How Do I Recover from the Devastation I Feel Regarding His Infidelities? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Do We Handle My Husband Feeling Controlled? 9/12/2018 Q&A Is It Safe for Us to Reconcile? 9/12/2018 Q&A Why Won't My Mate Create a Safe Space for Me to Heal? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Do I State Expectations without Being Codependent? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Do We Get Closure? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Can I Overcome My Barriers to Intimacy? 9/12/2018 Q&A Is It Dangerous to Examine Photos and Messages from the Affair Partner? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Can I Effectively Encourage My Spouse to Receive Individual Expert Help? 9/12/2018 Q&A What Does Desire for Reconciliation Look Like? 9/12/2018 Q&A Should We Separate If My Mate Refuses to Break Contact with the Affair Partner? 9/12/2018 Q&A Is Re-Connection Possible for Us? 9/12/2018 Q&A Could This Lack of Safety Be Reason to End Our Relationship? 9/12/2018 Q&A What Should I Do about Physical Abuse? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Can We Move Forward in Healing with the Fear That I May Remember More Information about My Affair? 9/12/2018 Q&A Could Marriage Be Beneficial to Our Recovery Process? 9/12/2018 Q&A Will My Desire for My Mate Return? 9/12/2018 Q&A Is There Hope for Recovery in This Type of Situation? 9/12/2018 Q&A Am I Still Deluded? 9/12/2018 Q&A Can You Explain How Abandonment and Abuse Affects Child Development? 9/12/2018 Q&A Can You Offer Insight into Getting Un-Stuck? 9/12/2018 Q&A Why Did the Affair Partner Try to Tear Our Family Apart? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Do I Combat Visual Triggers? 9/12/2018 Ending an Affair: Letting Go and Moving On 9/12/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…424344454647484950…next ›last »