All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How to Survive Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal The Power of Small Groups How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery The Problem with Forgiveness Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 5038 Resources Type Title Posted , Is a Marriage Retreat Worth It? Interview with a Pioneer in the Field 9/30/2015 Q&A Are My Questions Unfair? 9/28/2015 Q&A How Important is a Normal Routine in Recovery? 9/28/2015 Q&A Normal People do Not do This! 9/22/2015 Q&A How do I Handle my Triggers? 9/22/2015 Q&A How do you Know if Someone is a Sex Addict? 9/22/2015 Q&A Why His Ex? 9/22/2015 Q&A How do I Transform my Pain? 9/22/2015 Q&A Who Can I Talk to? 9/22/2015 Q&A What About Emotional and Verbal Abuse in Recovery? 9/22/2015 Q&A I Love Her, Why Did I Cheat on Her? 9/22/2015 Q&A Is This a Deal Breaker? 9/22/2015 Q&A How can I Feel Safe when my Mate's Affair was with their Ex? 9/17/2015 Q&A Why did he Marry me when he was with her? 9/17/2015 Q&A Why Wouldn't he End it? 9/17/2015 Q&A I Want him to Want me... Will the Feelings Return? 9/17/2015 Q&A Is it Possible to Recover if your Spouse is Still Deceitful? 9/17/2015 Q&A Is it More Difficult for Men to Recover from Betrayal? 9/17/2015 Q&A Can I Survive my Husband's Limerance? 9/17/2015 Q&A What Boundaries should I Set Before my Mate Comes Home? 9/17/2015 Q&A Do People Really Get Past the Trauma and Triggers? 9/17/2015 Q&A What 12-Step Group Should I Attend? 9/17/2015 Q&A How can I Enjoy my Spouse Rather than Please them? 9/17/2015 Q&A Is the Uneasiness Normal? 9/01/2015 Q&A Why Doesn't he Talk About it? 9/01/2015 Q&A What's Bare Minimum Relapse Prevention? 9/01/2015 Q&A Why Doesn't he Want it? 9/01/2015 Q&A What are the Right Questions? 9/01/2015 Q&A Is this because of his Father? 9/01/2015 Q&A How can I Accept and Forgive when I Don't Understand? 8/27/2015 Q&A Are these Ground Rules Sufficient to be Safe from the Affair Partner? 8/27/2015 Q&A How can I Tell if I'm Handling this Well? 8/27/2015 Q&A Why are Some Cheaters Sorry and Others aren't? 8/27/2015 Q&A Would it Help my Mate to Understand my Rationalizations? 8/25/2015 Q&A What Help is out there for Someone Getting Divorced? 8/25/2015 Q&A Are there any Markers for Knowing Whether a Betrayed Spouse can Heal? 8/25/2015 Q&A Can I Tell the Affair Partner she's Not Loved? 8/25/2015 Q&A What can I do to Get My Spouse to Give us More Time? 8/25/2015 Q&A Should I Run Away? 8/25/2015 Q&A How do Different Grieving Processes Affect Affair Recovery? 8/25/2015 Q&A How do I Deal with this Horrific Truth? 8/25/2015 Q&A Is there any Hope for our Marriage? 8/18/2015 Q&A When do you Know to Stay or Go? 8/18/2015 Q&A Would Harboring Hope or EMDR be More Helpful? 8/18/2015 Q&A Do you Ever Recommend Separating? 8/18/2015 Q&A Where do I Start After Lying for so Long? 8/18/2015 Q&A How can I Love her After what She's Done? 8/18/2015 Q&A Should we let the AP's Know that it's Over? 8/18/2015 Q&A How do we Once Again Light the Fire of Desire? 8/18/2015 Q&A How Should we Disclose to our Teenager? 8/18/2015 Pages« first‹ previous…798081828384858687…next ›last »