All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The Problem with Forgiveness Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How to Survive Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 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Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 5047 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do We Move beyond 'Pretend Normal'? 7/19/2017 Q&A Should There Be Closure with the Affair Partner? 7/19/2017 Q&A What Do You Mean by 'My Mate Is Never My Problem. My Mate Only Reveals the Problem in Me'? 7/19/2017 Q&A With Multiple Discoveries over 2 Years, How Do I Know She's Told Me Everything? 7/19/2017 Q&A What Sort of Outcomes Do You See in Situations with Anger Like Ours? 7/19/2017 Q&A Is His Affair Too Big for Us to Overcome? 7/19/2017 Everyone Thought I was Crazy for Staying: Amanda and Kenneth’s Story 7/19/2017 Kenneth and Amanda's Mentor Video 7/18/2017 Q&A Are My Requests Unreasonable? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Maintain My Stand to Not Tolerate His Behavior While Not Ruining a Co-Parenting Relationship? 7/12/2017 Q&A If He Truly Has Disclosed Everything but I Still Feel Like He Hasn't, How Can We Move Forward? 7/12/2017 Q&A If He Truly Has Disclosed Everything but I Still Feel Like He Hasn't, How Can We Move Forward? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle All of Life's Issues without Losing Focus of the Infidelity? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Should Intimacy Look for a Couple after Infidelity? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Heal When I Feel He’s Lying and Still Entangled with a Coworker? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Can I Ever Feel Safe with This History of Deceit? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Proceed without Acknowledgement That It Was an Affair? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Tell Others about Our Recovery and How Do I Handle Being Triggered While Seeing Clients? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle Running into the Affair Partner Now That the Affair Is Over? 7/12/2017 Q&A What's Your Take on an Unfaithful Wife Who Still Blames the Marriage for the Affair 1 Year from Discovery? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Help My Spouse When He Is Drowning in Shame? 7/12/2017 Q&A Should I Not Bring up the Affair Again? 7/12/2017 Q&A What Do I Do with a Spouse That Blames Me for the Affair? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle Comparison with the Affair Partner and Changing My Mindset of My Self-Worth? 7/12/2017 Q&A Are We Doomed to a Sexless Marriage after the Affair? 7/12/2017 Q&A Am I Being Emotionally Abused since His Affair? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Is Healing from a Long-Term Affair Different Than Healing from a Short-Term Affair or One Night Stand? 7/12/2017 Q&A Can You Give Specific Suggestions to Handle the Locations of the Acting out with the Affair Partner? 7/12/2017 Q&A What Safe Questions Can I Ask to Regain Our Openness but without Causing Me Pain? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Get past the Fears of What He Will Do If I Leave Him? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Get past My Negative Self Image? 7/12/2017 Q&A Do We Revert Back to Our Old State Once the Threat Disappears? 7/12/2017 Q&A He Wants to Do the Bootcamp but I Don't. What Do We Do? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Can I Get My Wife to See Me in a More Positive Light? 7/12/2017 Q&A Is It Okay to Let the Affair Partner Know That I Forgive Her? 7/12/2017 Q&A Is It Therapeutic for People to Know about My Affair? 7/12/2017 Q&A Where Do I Go from Here? 7/12/2017 Q&A Is Asking Questions Abusive? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Support Him When He Struggles to Be Safe for Us? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Can We Overcome past Promises of Leaving after Betrayal? 7/12/2017 Q&A Why Am I Struggling with the Length of the Affair? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle Weddings? 7/12/2017 Q&A Will Marriage Therapy Work If the Unfaithful Spouse Doesn't Have to Discuss What Happened? 7/12/2017 Q&A How Do I Know If a Counselor Is a Good Fit? 7/12/2017 Q&A What Is a Reasonable Expectation When I Share a Wound with My Mate? 7/05/2017 Q&A Why Has New Information Been Such a Major Setback for Me? 7/05/2017 Q&A Is It Beneficial to Read My Mates Journaling during Hope for Healing? 7/05/2017 Q&A Since I Cheated on Her, Will My Mate Ever See Me as Committed? 7/05/2017 Q&A How Can I Explain What the Word 'Safe' Means to Me? 7/05/2017 Q&A Is It Possible for Him to Change Enough Where I Feel Can Safe in the Future? 7/05/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…596061626364656667…next ›last »
