All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? 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Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 4838 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Will I Ever Get past This? 12/06/2017 Q&A Can You Explain How to Handle Grief? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Do You Get That Special Place Back Again? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Can I Communicate the Importance of Being Real and Authentic? 12/06/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Feel Connected to Me? 11/28/2017 Q&A How Do I Proceed When My Spouse Isn't Safe? 11/28/2017 Q&A How Should Someone Disclose the Use of Pornography? 11/28/2017 Q&A How Do I Answer the Question, 'Do You Promise You'll Never Do This to Me Again'? 11/28/2017 Q&A How Do People Truly Move beyond This Pain? 11/28/2017 Q&A When We're Being Sexual, How Can I Get the Affair Partner out of My Head? 11/28/2017 Q&A What Will It Take for My Mate to Face Reality? 11/28/2017 Q&A How Do I Know This Hasn't Happened Before? How Can I Know It Won't Happen Again? 11/28/2017 Q&A Why Can't I Begin to Move past This? 11/28/2017 Q&A Why Does Affair Recovery Use the Negative Label ‘Unfaithful Spouse’? 11/22/2017 Q&A How Do I Effectively Communicate My Pain? 11/22/2017 Q&A Why Would the Unfaithful Shame the Betrayed? 11/22/2017 Q&A How Do I Forgive the Affair Partner? 11/22/2017 Q&A Do I Accept My Mate Wanting a Divorce, or Do I Fight for the Marriage? 11/22/2017 Q&A How Can I Set Better Boundaries with My In-Laws? 11/22/2017 Q&A What's the Difference between Limerence during an Affair and Infatuation during Dating? 11/15/2017 Q&A What Should I Do If Things Are Getting Worse Rather Than Better? 11/15/2017 Q&A Is My Spouse Really Trying to Disconnect from the Affair Partner? 11/15/2017 Q&A How Do We Break the Barrier between Us When the Unfaithful Says He Isn't Sure He Wants to Be Married? 11/15/2017 Q&A How Long Should I Wait before Filing for Divorce? 11/15/2017 Q&A How Do I Show Empathy for My Spouse? 11/15/2017 Q&A Is It Time to Give Up? 11/15/2017 Q&A What Resources Would You Suggest for My Situation? 11/15/2017 Q&A How Do I Overcome the Consequences of My Actions? 11/10/2017 Q&A How Can Two Seriously Broken People Move Forward? 11/10/2017 Q&A If I Continue to Have Sex with My Spouse, Am I Letting Him Use Me? 11/10/2017 Q&A How Long Is Normal for Him to Grieve the Affair Partner? 11/10/2017 Q&A How Can We Keep the Healing Momentum Going? 11/10/2017 Q&A How Does Cognitive Dissonance Play out in Affairs? 11/10/2017 Q&A How Do I Stop Getting a Sense of Security from My Anger? 11/10/2017 Q&A What Should the Expectations Be for Long Separations? 11/10/2017 Q&A If He Had the Affair, Why Do I Feel Like the 'Bad Guy'? 11/10/2017 Q&A Will Our Situation Change? 11/10/2017 Q&A How Should I Respond to My Betrayed Husband? 11/10/2017 Q&A Is This Normal, or Is My Spouse a Sex Addict? 11/10/2017 Q&A (HFH) How Can I Connect with My Mate If They Don’t Want Me? 11/01/2017 Q&A Can Medication Prevent Me from Properly Grieving the Loss? 11/01/2017 Q&A If I Decide to Stay, How Do I Trust Again? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Can You Create Safety When the Affair Partner Is a Co-Worker? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Get past 'Why' and 'How Could You Do This' Questions? 11/01/2017 Q&A What's the Difference between Sorrow and Regret? 11/01/2017 Q&A What Was My Unfaithful Mate Thinking? 11/01/2017 Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed Spouse to Crave Intimacy If the Wayward Spouse Is Not Interested? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Does an Unfaithful Spouse Cope with Continued Shaming from the Betrayed Spouse? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When the Unfaithful Still Justifies the Affair with Marriage Deficits? 11/01/2017 Q&A How Can I Achieve If I Don't Answer Comparison Questions? 11/01/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…505152535455565758…next ›last »