All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How to Survive Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery The Problem with Forgiveness How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 The Power of Small Groups Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 4838 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Can I Connect With Others Like Me? 7/26/2016 Q&A How Do I Respond to My Mate Not Making Me Feel Safe After an Affair? 7/26/2016 Q&A Am I Grieving? 7/26/2016 Q&A If the Affair Partner Attempts to Maintain a Relationship With my Mate, Should I Inform Their Spouse? 7/26/2016 Q&A While in an Affair, Does it Contribute to Marital Issues? 7/26/2016 Q&A How Did the Conversations Transition? 7/26/2016 Q&A Why Doesn't He Respond to My True Self? 7/26/2016 Q&A Can Our Sex Life Trigger Relapse for My Sex Addicted Partner? 7/26/2016 Expert Q and A Submission: Should we consider separating? 7/20/2016 Q&A Can I Love Her Again? 7/19/2016 Q&A Can I Regain a Joy for Life? 7/19/2016 Q&A Would EMS Weekend Help Us? 7/19/2016 Q&A Do Some Only Cheat While Drunk? 7/19/2016 Q&A What Can I Do to Keep Things From Unwinding? 7/19/2016 Q&A How do We Figure Out the Justifications? 7/19/2016 Q&A What if My Mate Isn't Committed to the EMSO Contract? 7/19/2016 Q&A How do We Reconcile Plans of Sobriety With Safety in the Marriage? 7/19/2016 Q&A How Can I Stop My Negative Thought Pattern? 7/19/2016 Q&A How Can We Move Forward While There is Still Lying to My Face? 7/13/2016 Q&A How Do We Prepare for Vacation Now? 7/13/2016 Q&A We Were Both Unfaithful. What do You Suggest? 7/13/2016 Q&A How Can I Move Out of My Shame? 7/13/2016 Q&A Do the Betrayed Decide When It's Over? 7/13/2016 Q&A What Software do You Suggest to Filter Against Porn? 7/13/2016 Q&A Does He Only Think of Her When I Bring it Up? 7/13/2016 Q&A Why Do I Want to Know? Part 2 7/13/2016 Q&A Why Do I Want to Know? Part 1 7/13/2016 Q&A What Should I Do About My Mate's Following This Unhealthy Site? 7/13/2016 Q&A How Do We Bring Purity Back to a Defiled Marital Bed? 7/13/2016 Q&A (Preview) Should We Consider Separating? 7/13/2016 Q&A Why did My Best Friend and Spouse Betray Me Together? 7/12/2016 Q&A How do I Translate Knowledge Into Action? 7/12/2016 Q&A Am I To Believe He No Longer Struggles? 7/12/2016 Q&A Shouldn't He Be Wooing Me Back? 7/12/2016 Q&A Can You Support Your Statement 'Faith is an Organ of the Soul'? 7/12/2016 Q&A Do We Talk About the Affair or Marriage? 7/12/2016 Q&A Did I Extend Too Much Trust Too Soon? 7/12/2016 Q&A Which Should We Work on First? 7/12/2016 Q&A What Happens When Someone Dives in and Processes the Costs? 7/12/2016 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on SAA's Guidance on Abstinence? 7/12/2016 Q&A Do Revenge Affairs Help the Unfaithful 'Get it'? 7/01/2016 Q&A Is There Peace in Saving it When There is Nothing Sacred? 7/01/2016 Q&A How Can I Assure My Betrayed Mate of My Good Intentions? 7/01/2016 Q&A Can Addicts Rid Themselves of Being Self Centered? 7/01/2016 Q&A How Can We Further Our Sexual Healing? 7/01/2016 Q&A When Can I Expect for Him to Have a Response? 7/01/2016 Q&A What is Expected After Grieving the Loss of Love? 7/01/2016 Q&A What is Realistic in Terms of Time Spent Talking About it? 7/01/2016 Q&A Isn't this Behavior a Red Flag for the Future? 6/28/2016 Q&A How can I Ensure My Mate's Safety With Me? 6/28/2016 Pages« first‹ previous…676869707172737475…next ›last »