All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less The Problem with Forgiveness Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened The Power of Small Groups Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How to Survive Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 4984 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Do I Need to Get a Divorce? 6/15/2018 Q&A Are There Boundaries That Need to Be Followed as an Accountability Partner? 6/15/2018 Q&A How Do I Trust That I Truly Have All the Information? 6/15/2018 Looking for Safety: Harboring Hope 6/12/2018 Q&A How Should I Respond to My Wife's Feelings about Saving the Marriage? 6/08/2018 Q&A Do You Have Additional Resources for Overcoming Gaslighting? 6/08/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Unfaithful Wife Figure out Why She Had the Affair? 6/08/2018 Q&A What Is the Difference between the ‘Right Person’ and the ‘Right Fit’? 6/08/2018 Q&A How Am I Supposed to Interact with the Family Members That Helped Hide My Mates Affair? 6/08/2018 Q&A What Should Our Next Step Be? 6/08/2018 Q&A My Betrayed Husband Won't Believe Me. How Can We Reach Full Disclosure? 6/08/2018 Q&A Why Does My Husband Act like I’m the One with the Problem? 6/07/2018 Q&A How Should I Handle My Husbands Relapse? 6/07/2018 Q&A What's the Difference between Feeling Remorse for Causing Me Pain and Having Remorse for Being with the Other Person? 6/07/2018 Q&A What Does Forgiveness Look like after Multiple Relapses? 6/07/2018 Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Unfaithful Mate through the Recovery Process? 6/07/2018 Q&A Why Do I Feel like I Want to Leave When My Spouse Is Doing the Right Work? 6/07/2018 Q&A Is It Possible That He Is Being Truthful? 6/07/2018 Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust and Become Vulnerable Again? 6/06/2018 Q&A Can Someone with Self-Awareness and Boundaries Still Relapse? 6/06/2018 Q&A My Betrayed Spouse Wants Me to Contact the Affair Partner. What Should I Do? 6/06/2018 Q&A Can a Wife Ever Get over Her Husband Having Sex with the Affair Partner in Their Home? 6/06/2018 Q&A Is Acknowledging and Working on the Unconscious Brain Important? 6/06/2018 Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Clean up the Financial Mess His Affair Has Created? 6/06/2018 Q&A Why Does His Shame Trump My Pain? 6/06/2018 Q&A How Do I Manage the Feeling That I Will Never Be Enough? 6/06/2018 Q&A How Can I Protect My Children from Pornography? 6/06/2018 Q&A Will My Feelings Come Back for My Betrayed Husband? 5/23/2018 Q&A Should We Get a New Counselor? 5/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle My Mates Lack of Empathy? 5/23/2018 Q&A How Can My Honor Be Restored at My Unfaithful Spouse's Workplace? 5/23/2018 Q&A Is Calling This a ‘Mistake’ Minimization? 5/23/2018 Q&A Is My Husband Relapsing? 5/23/2018 Q&A My Mate Doesn't Believe I've Disclosed Everything, What Should I Do? 5/23/2018 Q&A Does My Mate 'Get It' or Is He Justifying His Actions? 5/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Get to a Place Where I'm Not so Jaded? 5/23/2018 Q&A Was His Desire for This Type of Porn Changing His Brain? 5/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Convey Grief about My Betrayal Rather than Shame? 5/23/2018 Surviving Infidelity: When Hope Crumbles - Part 2 5/22/2018 Q&A Why Did My Mate Continue to Repeat the Same Patterns with the Affair Partner? 5/21/2018 Q&A How Can a Betrayed Spouse Help with Their Unfaithful Partner's Selfish Shame, Guilt and Resentment? 5/18/2018 Q&A How Can a Betrayed Spouse Help with Their Unfaithful Partner's Selfish Shame, Guilt and Resentment? 5/18/2018 Q&A Will I Ever Stop Flooding? 5/18/2018 Q&A Should I Tell My Co-Worker about Her Husband’s Affair? 5/18/2018 Q&A Do You Think We Can Ever Truly Move Forward without Him Seeking Any Help? 5/18/2018 Q&A Where Do I Go from Here? 5/18/2018 Q&A Is There Hope? 5/18/2018 Q&A Do Most Affairs End Badly? 5/18/2018 Q&A Could He Be Telling the Truth? 5/18/2018 Q&A How Can I Minimize Thoughts of the Affair Partner? 5/16/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…454647484950515253…next ›last »