For The Hurt Spouse
There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.
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Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair
31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1
Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1)
Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1
Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity
1218 Resources
Type Title Posted
Video Q&A If He Was Having an Affair to Get Some Sort of Thrill or Feeling from That Person Why Did He Constantly Want My Attention Too? 12/06/2022
Video Q&A Do You Think He Truly Meant What He Said While Also Calling Me Beautiful on a Regular Basis? 12/06/2022
Text Pleasing Versus Loving 11/29/2022
Text The Mystery of Change 11/02/2022
Text Am I Who They Want? 10/19/2022
Video Q&A What Do I Do If I Don’t Believe My Mate Has Been Completely Honest with Their Full Disclosure? 10/13/2022
Video Q&A Am I Struggling Because I Still Feel Unsafe in Recovery? 10/13/2022
Text The Proper Use of Boundaries - Creating Space for Healing and Change 10/05/2022
Text Anger: Its 6 Roots 9/28/2022
Text Lies We Believe About Our Spouse 9/21/2022
Video Q&A What Can We Do Differently? 9/13/2022
Video Q&A How Do We Move Forward When I’m Not Sure He Can Admit to Himself What His Demons Are? 8/26/2022
Text The Fantasyland of an Affair 8/24/2022
Text Intrusive Thoughts After the Affair: How to Manage Flooding 8/17/2022
Video Q&A How Do I Not Feel So Bad About My Own Body? 8/03/2022
Video Q&A How Do I Deal With My Repulsion by the Idea of Sex Post Betrayal? 8/03/2022
Video Q&A How Long Are You Suppose to Wait for Unfaithful to Take Responsibility and Have Empathy? 8/03/2022
Video Q&A Should I Get Breast Implants to Please My Husband? 8/03/2022
Video Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for Marrying Someone While Choosing to Essentially Re-Marry Him? 8/03/2022
Text Why Did They Choose the Affair Partner? 7/20/2022
Text What It Takes To Survive an Affair: 3 Must Have Components 7/13/2022
Text Forgiveness: A Letter to My Younger Self 7/06/2022
Video Q&A Are My Expectations to High? What Should He Be Doing to Reinforce That Love and Value of Me? 7/01/2022
Video Q&A What Are the Signs I Should Run and Not Bother Wasting My Time or Emotions on Trying to Make My Marriage Work? 7/01/2022
Text Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 4 - Not Grieving the Loss 6/15/2022
Video Q&A How Can I Be Comfortable Being Intimate Again? 6/14/2022
Video Q&A Can I Truly Trust a Polygraph? 6/14/2022
Video Q&A Why Does My Mate Still Want Me to Obey Him after His Affair? 6/14/2022
Video Q&A Could It Be Limerance When the Affair Partner Is an Old Flame? 6/14/2022
Text Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 3 - Hiding in Denial 6/08/2022
Text Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 2 - Not Getting It 6/01/2022
Text Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 5/25/2022
Video Q&A How Do I Handle Knowing the ‘Who’ Matters More to Me than the ‘What’? 5/24/2022
Video Q&A When Will the Constant Feeling That Another Betrayal Is Right around the Corner Fade? 5/24/2022
Video Q&A What Do I Do If My Spouse Works with Their Affair Partner? 5/24/2022
Text Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part III: Individual Vulnerability 5/18/2022
Text Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part II: Marital Vulnerability 5/18/2022
Text Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? 5/18/2022
Text Wanting to Be Wanted 5/04/2022
Video Q&A How Do I Continue Supporting Her While Taking Care of My Heart and Mental Health? 4/20/2022
Video Q&A Is It OK for the Wayward Spouse to Keep in Touch with Affair Partners from the past That Happened Years before Us? 4/20/2022
Video Q&A How Do I Move Forward Knowing That He Already Has The Mindset That This Could Happen Again? 4/08/2022
Video Q&A How Could He Go from One Affair to Another? 4/08/2022
Video Q&A How Do I Get Over This Betrayal? 4/06/2022
Video Q&A How Can I Ever Get Over His Believing He Loved The Affair Partner? 4/06/2022
Video Q&A As a Betrayed Husband Is It Unrealistic to Want My Wife to Pursue Me Physically? 4/06/2022
Video Q&A How Do I Get past the Uncontrollable Fear of This Happening Again or That It Is Still Happening? 4/06/2022
Video Q&A How Do We Continue in This Process When Only One of Us Is Committed? 4/06/2022
Video Q&A How Much Harder Will Our Recovery Be in This Situation? 3/25/2022
Video Q&A How Can I Put In the Effort Needed on My End for Intimacy without Getting the Same Failed Result? 3/25/2022

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