For The Hurt Spouse

There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.

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Video icon Q&A What Do I Look for to Know the Affair Isn’t Still Happening?
Video icon Lies We Believe About Our Spouse
Video icon Q&A How Should I Respond When He Shares Lies with Me, Especially If I Perceive He Is Sugar-Coating the Truth?
Video icon Q&A Can I Forgive My Husband for Abandonment?
Video icon Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Journaling as a Betrayed Spouse?
Text icon Nine Signs of an Emotional Affair
Text icon Wanting to Be Wanted
Text icon Am I Who They Want?
Video icon Q&A Why Can’t My Husband See the Affair Partner Through a Negative Lens?
Video icon Q&A Does It Matter Who Ended the Affair?
Text icon Why Did They Choose the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Can the Wayward Spouse Really Have No Triggers?
Video icon Q&A Please Help Me Understand What My Reality Is as We Try to Recover from This.
Video icon Q&A How Do I Tell the Wayward Spouse I Need More Discussion to Heal and Process?
Video icon Q&A Why Has My Spouse Refused to Cut Ties with His High School Sweetheart?
Video icon Q&A Is It Unrealistic to Expect Raw Emotion from My Unfaithful Wife?
Video icon Is My Mate Truly Committed to Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Find Closure When the Affair Partner Is a Close Family Friend?
Video icon Q&A What Do You Do If the Wayward Spouse Shows No Remorse, Empathy, or Compassion?
Video icon Q&A How Important Is Attunement When Recovering from an Affair?
Video icon Parenting Through Infidelity: A Father/Daughter Perspective
Video icon Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust When His Words Still Feel Scripted and Devoid of Genuine Empathy?
Video icon Were They Thinking of Me?
Video icon Q&A What If My Husband Doesn’t Want to Change?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Feel Safe Knowing That the Worst Pain I Have Ever Felt Could Possibly Happen Again?
Video icon The Fantasyland of an Affair
Video icon Q&A Will She Ever Tell the Truth Without Being Backed Into a Corner?
Video icon Mistakes Families Make After an Affair
Video icon Q&A How Do I Respond If I Don’t Believe My Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Could My Husband’s Actions Be Early Signs of Relapse?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Support My Partner and Accept That I Can’t Control Their Recovery Journey?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Help My Unfaithful Husband as He Seems to Be So Buried in Shame, Self-Loathing, and a Huge Sense of Worthlessness?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Come to Terms With My New Reality as a Betrayed Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Is It Normal for Family to Feel Disappointed at Us for Staying With the Wayward Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Why Does My Husband (Wayward) Not Want to Reconnect With Me (Betrayed) Physically?
Video icon Q&A Am I a Fool for Being Vulnerable With My Mate?
Video icon How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get the Lying and the Porn Use by My Husband to Stop?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Feel Special Again After I Have Lost So Much Including Places That Were Just Ours?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Replace What I Feel With What I Know, if I Don’t Know What the Truth Is?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Shut Down the Intrusive Thoughts of My Husband With the Affair Partners That Have Become Erotic to Me?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Get These Images Out of My Mind and Get back to Just Being With My Husband?
Video icon A Discussion on Anger, Boundaries and Regrets After Infidelity
Video icon Reclaiming Dignity and Worth as a Woman with Laurie Bryson, M.A. & LPC
Text icon How to Find Answers
Video icon Q&A Are We at the End of the Road?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get Past or Heal From the Hurtful Things My Husband Said About Me to His Affair Partners?
Video icon Q&A Would Viewing Surveillance Footage of My Husband’s Affair Be Helpful?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get over Feeling Disgust With My Partner Over Who He Chose to Have an Affair With?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Truly Know if My Wayward Spouse Has Changed?