For the Unfaithful Spouse Recovery for the unfaithful spouse requires much more humility and personal responsibility than that of the betrayed spouse. These articles are specifically to navigate recovery for the unfaithful spouse. Must Reads more less Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Recovery Timeline Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? The Problem with Forgiveness Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Why Did My Spouse Cheat? We Started Well, but... The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The 2 Stages of Pain Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How to Survive Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 224 Resources : For the Unfaithful Spouse Type Title Posted One of the Biggest Mistakes Couples Make in Healing from Infidelity: Denying Your Reality 6/20/2019 Q&A Should I Give My Mate Information They Specifically Asked Me Not to Share? 6/19/2019 Q&A How Can I Communicate to My Spouse That I Am Not Excusing My Affair Partner’s Part in the Affair? 6/19/2019 Q&A How Can I Make It Clear That I'm Choosing by Mate over the Affair Partner? 6/19/2019 Q&A Is It Normal to Feel That Ending the Marriage May Be a Better Option? 6/19/2019 The Antidote for Shame: Understanding the Unfaithful 6/19/2019 You Can't Cheat the Process When Healing from Infidelity 6/18/2019 I Don't Get to Decide How Fast My Betrayed Spouse Heals 6/13/2019 Can You Still Be Friends or Maintain Contact with an Affair Partner? 6/11/2019 How Samuel Avoids Relapse in His Recovery from Infidelity 6/6/2019 Q&A How Can I Communicate That I'm Choosing My Mate? 6/5/2019 When Is It Time to Pull Back and Simply Focus on Your Own Healing? 6/4/2019 Are You Trying to Control Your Spouse's Decisions about Infidelity? 5/30/2019 How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 5/29/2019 A Parable about Healing from Infidelity 5/28/2019 Infidelity Makes You Want to Give up on Yourself 5/23/2019 The Paralysis of Ambivalence: Part 2 5/22/2019 Q&A If I Don't Want to Save the Marriage, Does That Mean I Don't Have Remorse? 5/21/2019 Roots: Part 1 5/17/2019 One of the Biggest Mistakes You Can Make in Trying to Heal from Infidelity 5/16/2019 123456789101112> next
