For the Unfaithful Spouse Recovery for the unfaithful spouse requires much more humility and personal responsibility than that of the betrayed spouse. These articles are specifically to navigate recovery for the unfaithful spouse. Must Reads more less The 2 Stages of Pain 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Problem with Forgiveness Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Recovery Timeline Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How do you respond to blackmail? Part II How to Survive Infidelity We Started Well, but... How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 232 Resources : For the Unfaithful Spouse Type Title Posted Ways to Make a Betrayed Spouse Feel Safe 10/17/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal, Recover, and Prevent Relapse? 10/16/2019 Q&A Will I Ever Fully Understand My Mate's Pain? 10/16/2019 Social Shame Survey Results: What We Learned from Ashley Madison 10/16/2019 Help for the Unfaithful: Identifying Your Self Destruct Button 10/8/2019 One of the Main Reasons We're so Alone and Alienated as Unfaithful Spouses 10/3/2019 Q&A How Do I Show My Wife I Get It? 10/2/2019 Help for the Despair That Infidelity Creates in Both Spouses 9/26/2019 Why Did They Choose the Affair Partner? 9/25/2019 Your Healing from Infidelity or Addiction Is Not Their Responsibility 8/29/2019 The Proper Use of Boundaries - Creating Space for Healing and Change 8/28/2019 Why Does the Unfaithful Spouse Blame the Betrayed Spouse for Their Affair? 8/27/2019 Q&A How Can I Convince My Spouse That I've Disclosed All of the Details? 8/23/2019 How Can I Make It up to My Spouse That I Have Cheated? 8/15/2019 How to Find Answers 8/14/2019 Why the Unfaithful Spouse Must Forgive Themselves 8/13/2019 This Is What Happens When the Unfaithful Spouse Doesn't Forgive Themselves 8/8/2019 Q&A Why Am I Being Pulled so Strongly to Act Out When I’m Doing All This Recovery Work? 8/2/2019 Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Enjoy My Wife like a Normal Man? 8/2/2019 What Do You Need to Own about the Relationship? Healing from Infidelity 8/1/2019 123456789101112> next
