For the Unfaithful Spouse Recovery for the unfaithful spouse requires much more humility and personal responsibility than that of the betrayed spouse. These articles are specifically to navigate recovery for the unfaithful spouse. Must Reads more less How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? We Started Well, but... How do you respond to blackmail? Part II The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected The 2 Stages of Pain Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Recovery Timeline 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How to Survive Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Problem with Forgiveness 210 Resources : For the Unfaithful Spouse Type Title Posted Social Shame: Have You Been Dishonored? 4/24/2019 Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 4/17/2019 What Do You Do When You Feel Like You're Losing Yourself as You Try to Heal from Infidelity? 4/4/2019 Q&A How Do I Let Go of My Feelings for the Affair Partner? 4/3/2019 Q&A How Can I Show My Positive Change in Spite of Relapse? 4/3/2019 What Should the Unfaithful Spouse Do When the Betrayed Spouse Won't Get Help? 4/2/2019 Letter to the Unfaithful Spouse 3/29/2019 Are You or Your Spouse 'In-Process' or Not? Helping Spouses Heal from Infidelity 3/28/2019 When One Spouse Is Happy the Infidelity Is out in the Open and the Other Isn't: Separate Timelines 3/26/2019 Why the Unfaithful Spouse Refuses to Give Their Betrayed Spouse Details about Their Affair 3/21/2019 Q&A What Steps Should I Take after Relapse? 3/20/2019 Q&A How Do I Help My Spouse? 3/6/2019 Why the Betrayed Spouse Want's to Be Chosen by Their Unfaithful Spouse 2/19/2019 Q&A Why Am I Supposed to Accept the Label 'Unfaithful'? 2/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Convince My Husband I Did Love Him and Still Do? 1/23/2019 Q&A Is My Betrayed Wife's Behavior Normal? 1/22/2019 Q&A What Does It Mean to Be a Safe Place for the Betrayed's Anger? 1/22/2019 Q&A How Do I Overcome My Jealousy? 1/9/2019 Q&A Why Do I Feel so Attacked When My Wife Brings up My past Infidelity? 1/3/2019 Surviving the Holidays: 6 Tips 12/19/2018 1234567891011> next
