For the Unfaithful Spouse
Recovery for the unfaithful spouse requires much more humility and personal responsibility than that of the betrayed spouse. These articles are specifically to navigate recovery for the unfaithful spouse.
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303 Resources
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Text Intrusive Thoughts After the Affair: How to Manage Flooding 8/17/2022
Video Q&A Is It Strange for the Unfaithful to Have Depression? 8/03/2022
Text Why Did They Choose the Affair Partner? 7/20/2022
Video Q&A How Do I Keep My Boundaries Strong in a Place of Leadership? 7/07/2022
Video Q&A Am I Just Playing the Victim to Reduce My Guilt? 7/01/2022
Text Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 4 - Not Grieving the Loss 6/15/2022
Video Q&A How Do I Respond to the Betrayed’s Triggers When It’s Affecting My Mental Health Now? 6/14/2022
Text Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 3 - Hiding in Denial 6/08/2022
Text Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 2 - Not Getting It 6/01/2022
Text Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 5/25/2022
Text Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part III: Individual Vulnerability 5/18/2022
Text Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part II: Marital Vulnerability 5/18/2022
Text Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? 5/18/2022
Text Wanting to Be Wanted 5/04/2022
Video Q&A Why Can’t I Give My Spouse Full Disclosure? 4/20/2022
Video Q&A What Is the Best Way to Discuss the Questions That Most Wayward Spouses Get from the Betrayed? 4/20/2022
Video Q&A How Do We Handle Disclosure When My Infidelity Was So Long Ago and I Can’t Remember All the Details? 4/06/2022
Video Q&A How Should I as a Wayward Spouse Approach My Spouse’s Continual Desire for Reassurance? 3/10/2022
Video Q&A How Do I Emotionally Connect with Someone Who Treats Me This Way? 3/10/2022
Video Q&A How Long Does It Take for Desire for My Mate to Return after Severing Ties with My Affair Partners? 3/10/2022
Video Q&A How Long Should I Accept and Validate His Exaggerated Reactions as a Result of My Previously Reckless Behaviors? 2/17/2022
Video Q&A What Do We Do When We Both Cheated, If My Betrayal Was ‘Worse’ than His? 1/18/2022
Video Q&A Will the Betrayed’s Irritability Ever Go Away? 1/18/2022
Video Q&A What Do I Do When the Betrayed Spouse Shuts Me Out and Doesn’t Want to Talk about His Pain, Unless Forced? 1/18/2022
Text Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 1/12/2022
Video Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Understand the Importance of Knowing the ‘Why’ and Also How to Can I Help Him See That It’s Not an Excuse or Blaming Anything? 12/17/2021
Text Social Shame: Surviving Infidelity Isn’t Enough 12/08/2021
Text Social Shame: Have You Been Dishonored? 12/01/2021
Text Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 11/24/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Help My Betrayed Wife with Her Depression That Has Escalated Dramatically since Discovery? 11/04/2021
Text Why Did They Cheat? Part 4: The Problem With Addictions 11/03/2021
Text Why Did They Cheat? Part 3: Do They Have an Addiction? 10/27/2021
Text Why Did They Cheat? Part 2: Entrapped or Enchanted 10/20/2021
Text Why Did They Cheat? Part 1:The Role of Oxytocin 10/13/2021
Video Q&A Should I Continue EMS Online on My Own? 10/07/2021
Video Q&A Will My Husband Love Me Again, the Way He Used To? 7/08/2021
Video Q&A When My Mate Floods, Why Do I Get Distressed In Turn? 7/08/2021
Video Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Calm After Disclosing the Truth? 6/17/2021
Video Q&A Are My Good Acts Just More Manipulation? 6/03/2021
Text Mental Health and Parenting: How to Support Yourself and Your Kids 6/02/2021
Text How Couples Can Promote Good Mental Health During and After the COVID-19 Pandemic 5/26/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Love Her through Her Controlling Issues While Still Maintaining My Sanity? 5/25/2021
Video Q&A What Leads Me to Objectifying Women? 4/22/2021
Video A Discussion on Anger, Boundaries and Regrets After Infidelity 4/21/2021
Video Q&A Should I Continue In My Own Healing In the Hopes She Will Rejoin? 4/13/2021
Video Q&A What Else Can I Do, Other Than Be Honest and Give Her Space? 4/13/2021
Video Q&A What Do You Do If You Have a Trigger and It Makes You Think of a New Detail? 3/25/2021
Video A Discussion on Remorse, Trauma and Extreme Suffering 3/24/2021
Video Q&A As the Wayward Spouse Will I Ever Fall Back in Love with My Husband? 3/09/2021
Video Q&A What More Can I Do to Become Safe for Her and Rebuild Our Relationship? 2/11/2021

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