All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? The Power of Small Groups Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 The Problem with Forgiveness Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 5004 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Should We Separate? 10/23/2018 Q&A Why Does It Seem like My Unfaithful Husband Acts like the Betrayed Spouse? 10/23/2018 Q&A Can Empathy Be Learned? 10/23/2018 Q&A What Can I Do to Help Him Truly Get It? 10/23/2018 Q&A What Can I Do to Strengthen My Self Image? 10/23/2018 Q&A Will This End? 10/23/2018 Q&A Is There a Better Way to Explain My Pain to My Mate? 10/23/2018 Q&A How Can I Change Our Dynamic during Separation? 10/23/2018 Q&A Am I Crazy for Even Trying to Save the Marriage? 10/23/2018 Q&A Will Feelings for the Affair Partner Come Back If They Are Not Addressed? 10/17/2018 Q&A Do I Have Enough Information to Ever Fully Trust Him Again? 10/17/2018 Q&A What Does 'Working on the Marriage' Look like for the Unfaithful? 10/17/2018 Q&A What Should I Expect from a Recovering Wayward Wife? 10/17/2018 Q&A How Can I Continue to Heal Without My Feelings Being Hijacked by Fear? 10/17/2018 Q&A Can We Recover from His Affair If We Live Ten Hours Apart? 10/17/2018 Q&A How Can I Emotionally Detach from the Affair Partner? 10/17/2018 Q&A How Can I Give My Anger a Healthy Outlet? 10/17/2018 Q&A Should I Be Okay with My Mates Ex-Spouse Staying in Our Home When Family Comes to Visit? 10/17/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What I'm Dealing With? 10/17/2018 Q&A Do You Have Statistics on Relapse? 10/10/2018 Q&A How Do I Forgive What My Mate Has Done? 10/10/2018 Q&A Should I Be Open to Reconciliation? 10/10/2018 Q&A Why Is Unprotected Sex within an Affair so Alluring? 10/10/2018 Q&A How Can My Husband Protect Himself from Grooming Behaviors? 10/10/2018 Q&A Is This a Controlling Behavior? 10/10/2018 Q&A Can I Ever Expect My Mate's Attraction Towards the Affair Partner to End? 10/10/2018 Q&A Am I Paranoid? 10/10/2018 Q&A Is This a Normal Part of Recovery? 10/10/2018 Q&A Can We Survive as a Couple? 10/10/2018 Q&A Why Do You Believe We Are Not Defined as 'Sinners'? 10/10/2018 Q&A What Can I Do for My Ambivalent Spouse? 10/10/2018 Q&A Should We Disclose the Affairs with Our Children? 9/26/2018 Q&A Should I Disclose My Revenge Affair to My Mate? 9/26/2018 Q&A How Do I Know If My Mate Has a Sexual Addiction? 9/26/2018 Q&A How Can We Find Restoration in Our Intimacy? 9/26/2018 Q&A How Do We Both Deal with My Mates Shame? 9/26/2018 Q&A What Good Can Come from Loving an Addict? 9/26/2018 Q&A How Can We Make Discovery Safe? 9/26/2018 Q&A I Feel Stuck in My Mates Recovery. What Should I Do? 9/26/2018 Q&A Can You Address Narcissism with Infidelity? 9/26/2018 Q&A How Can We Move past This Slump in Recovery? 9/26/2018 Q&A What Boundaries Can We Set around This Relationship? 9/26/2018 Q&A How Do I Stop These Behaviors? 9/26/2018 Q&A Is It Normal to Have Zero Interest in Reconciliation? 9/26/2018 Q&A Why Is My Mate Reacting This Way? 9/26/2018 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Contacting the Affair Partner on Behalf of Your Spouse? 9/26/2018 Q&A Am I Being Too Nice? 9/26/2018 Q&A How Do I Find Hope for Our Relationship When It Feels so Hopeless? 9/20/2018 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Trauma and PTSD? 9/20/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate with Rejection? 9/20/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…414243444546474849…next ›last »